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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

Welcome to the forums.  There's no a-b-c way to find a sub.  It's all hard work and a lot of effort.  And since you're only looking for online, because your SO won't participate, then it's gonna take even longer.  Most women want real life and also not someone who's willing to lie.  Honesty is a must with most subs.  And how can they know you're being honest with them when you can't even be honest with your SO?  I'm gathering, that, as usual, your female partner doesn't know you're doing this.

So take a number, the line forms to the left and don't expect women to be jumping at the chance to be someone's cam subbie.  It's a very rare occurence for obvious reasons. 

ETA:  No, there's no place to "post" an ad, this is the forums for one.  The only way is to slog thru the profiles on the other side, send cmails to those you think might be attracted to such a proposal, and be prepared for a lot of rejection.  And no coming back on this side to post about the fakes and the scammers, you get what you ask for. 

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ORIGINAL: KinkyLimits

And keep tweaking your profile as you think of new things to write, and be nice in the emails, show some effort. And be over the moon when a sub actually emails you first!

I always try and reply to all emails from the genuine folks, eventually word my get round that you are a decent person, assuming you are of course ;)