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ORIGINAL: ranja

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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Uhh... were these guys actually forced into doing it? I'm wondering why the DMs allowed anyone to be *forced* into anything at a play party. And why you'd get kinky in the middle of a crowded store, forcing your kink on the unconsenting viewers.

But I'm conservative that way...

To attempt to answer your question: I'd suspect the thrill is much the same as the guy who opens his trenchcoat to flash unsuspecting and unconsenting women his junk. At least in terms of the acts you've described.

Some people like to be *forced* maybe that is why they allow themselves to be *forced*, cos it seems to me that usually a person can just walk away, say NO, chicken out or hide when they really do not want to do something...

to compare a bit of public play between lovers with a flasher attacking females is just dim in my opinion
If you see two people getting jiggy you can just not look if you don't wanna see ( i personally quite like to witness a bit of subtle and fun naughtyness every so often)
But if you are targeted by a flasher it feels quite like a direct violation, the flashing is aimed at you, you are being used and an active part of the act, it is disgusting.

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However back to the op's original question. I think, that to enjoy humiliation, you must have some sexual conflicts. Otherwise you would not enjoy being 'forced' into doing it. For those of us who have no conflicts sexually, erotic embarrassment doesn't exist. For me, it goes straight to degradation because there is no secret desire to do exactly what I protest I don't want to do. For the op, who has an enjoyment of being watched, it goes straight toward capturing his audience with his show.

Sorry, but I vehemently disagree on that line. I think you are basing your opinion on what you perceive, not trying to understand what other's feel.

The topic of public or private humiliation is very varied; and has a myriad of reasons why people like what they like.

I like private behavior only and I love sexual humiliation. I have no sexual conflicts whatsoever and yet erotic embarrassment is a big turn on. In fact, I am very confident and discovered this turn years and years ago and with the right one, it works perfectly.

I don't play with degradation; there is a vast area of difference between degradation and sexual humiliation. Oh, and sometimes a turn on is just that, a turn on and does not have to have some deep seated psychological explanation for why something makes you hard or wet.

For public kink, that is a whole other area and since I don't get into public or forcing my kink on others, I don't have a comment.

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Quite frankly, both are exposing me to something sexual that I didn't consent to. I can look away from the flasher and I can look away from the kink. That doesn't mean I approve of either.

If it's subtle, than I probably won't notice it. Kissing feet and singing "I'm a little teapot" as described in the OP is not subtle.