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Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 8:41:38 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		In another thread, he said "can I have some pointers to improve my profile please?"

His profile is at http://www.collarme.com/BigDaddy723

I'll go first.

1. You have three pics and in all of them, your arms are crossed.  I suggest letting them free and it will make you look more open.
2. I suggest changing your first paragraph to something like "I'm a Dominant man looking for submissive women (or men.  or both).  I'm looking for someone to date/flog/attend play parties with.

You get it.  State what you're looking for.

Other comments?



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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 8:48:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I see that he's a professional chef; that'd be something to discuss a little bit.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 8:51:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's fine to look stern in an attempt to appear dominant but one picture with a smile would be nice.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 9:15:35 PM   
BigDaddy723


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the advice so far, I appericate it

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 9:18:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think you should be YOU, not BigDaddy723, sometimes it is so easy to get caught up in this IDEA of what you think you have to be. I suggest you take a shower, get a beer or a glass of wine, think about who YOU are and then type from the heart.

QSM

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 9:36:10 PM   
BigDaddy723


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Status: offline 		That's just it QSM, I am trying not to come with any pre conseved notions of what people think I should be. I am here to gleen knowledge from people who know what they are doing. I enjoy conversing with you all here and want nothing more then that.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 9:53:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		You've got a really pleasant and interesting face; you look like a really nice guy. I'd suggest finding a photo that looks more relaxed and casual, doing something fun. Something that shows the "nice guy" in you. If you don't have a photo like that, steal one of Steven's. He's 54 - at his age, it's unlikely he'll even notice it's missing.

And write something about yourself. Anything. As long as it's about who you really are. I know that if you're not used to this sort of thing, everything you write will feel like... well.... like a corny personals ad, but don't worry about it. You can write a different one tomorrow. You'll know when it feels right.

And, last but not least, you'll want to copy and paste the following into your profile. Everyone does it, but none of us really know why. No profile is complete without it.

"WARNING: Sydney University or any institution, media or person using this site or any of its associated sites: You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. If you have done or do any of the above, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and personal property and will be subject to serious legal ramifications."

< Message edited by ThatDamnedPanda -- 6/25/2010 9:56:38 PM >

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:07:33 PM   
BigDaddy723


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Status: offline 		I've made a bit of progress. And found a pic of me with my arms not crossed. I don't have any of me smileing. Will work on that eventually. I'm going to sleep on it and add more tomorrow. Thanks again E/everyone.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:11:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda


And, last but not least, you'll want to copy and paste the following into your profile. Everyone does it, but none of us really know why. No profile is complete without it.

"WARNING: Sydney University or any institution, media or person using this site or any of its associated sites: You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures, information from my profile, or anything I post in any of the forums or groups on this website in any form or forum both current or future without prior written consent. If you have done or do any of the above, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and personal property and will be subject to serious legal ramifications."


Naughty Panda!

I never did understand that. Why Sydney Uni? I mean seriously... thousands of institutions (and let's face it ... there's an institutional joke in there)... and what ramifications are you gonna bring about? The wrath of g*d? pffffffft...

BD - good on you!

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:16:11 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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ORIGINAL: BigDaddy723 I don't have any of me smileing. Will work on that eventually. I'm going to sleep on it and add more tomorrow. Thanks again E/everyone.



Read 15 of Sunshinemiss' posts, and then take your picture. You're bound to be smiling then.


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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:23:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BigDaddy723

I've made a bit of progress. And found a pic of me with my arms not crossed. I don't have any of me smileing. Will work on that eventually. I'm going to sleep on it and add more tomorrow. Thanks again E/everyone.



I liked your original one better. This one has too much chaos in the background.  That could just be my OCD talking, but I've never been very impressed when people use pictures with lots of mess around them in their main profile picture.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:28:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

quote:

ORIGINAL: BigDaddy723 I don't have any of me smileing. Will work on that eventually. I'm going to sleep on it and add more tomorrow. Thanks again E/everyone.



Read 15 of Sunshinemiss' posts, and then take your picture. You're bound to be smiling then.




awwwwwwwwwww...
*blush blush blush


I think he should be wearing his chef whites... all open and stuff, glass of wine in one hand....naughty grin... that'd be hawt.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:30:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I think he should be wearing his chef whites... all open and stuff, glass of wine in one hand....naughty grin... that'd be hawt.


^This^ 

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:30:49 PM   
ThatDamnedPanda


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: BigDaddy723

I've made a bit of progress. And found a pic of me with my arms not crossed. I don't have any of me smileing. Will work on that eventually. I'm going to sleep on it and add more tomorrow. Thanks again E/everyone.



I liked your original one better. This one has too much chaos in the background.  That could just be my OCD talking, but I've never been very impressed when people use pictures with lots of mess around them in their main profile picture.


Yeah, I didn't want to sound overly critical, but I was trying to think of a tactful way to say the same thing. WD beat me to it. Personally, when I see that picture, I think it looks like a guy who's cleaning his basement or helping someone move or something. But quite a lot of people do say that they get a little turned off by seeing pictures with clutter in the background.


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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:38:27 PM   
BigDaddy723


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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/25/2010 10:59:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I think he should be wearing his chef whites... all open and stuff, glass of wine in one hand....naughty grin... that'd be hawt.


^This^ 


^^ ditto ^^

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/26/2010 4:58:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss



*blush blush blush





What, what what?!!

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/26/2010 5:02:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think you should have more about yourself on your profile.

And also, your likes and dislikes are messed up. It should be LOVES antique shows, bar hopping, garage sales, and art galleries.

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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/26/2010 5:09:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

It's fine to look stern in an attempt to appear dominant but one picture with a smile would be nice.


Besides the crossed arms, stern look is so cliched. We subbies tend to roll our eyes at such pictures.


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RE: Let's comment on BigDaddy723's profile! - 6/26/2010 5:14:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I think he should be wearing his chef whites... all open and stuff, glass of wine in one hand....naughty grin... that'd be hawt.


^This^ 


^^ ditto ^^


Add me to the list. BD that would be just the hottest pic ever. It says a lot about you that you are taking our advice well and not getting all defensive. Good luck to you!


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