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lusciouslips19 -> Milkin it! (6/13/2010 5:51:24 AM)
Is having your prostate milked a submissive act?

ranja -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 5:53:55 AM)
when i do any milking i am the one in service

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 5:55:48 AM)
It makes me feel kinda toppy when I do it. But so does cock sucking! I get drunk on the power! Muwahahahahaha

DarkSteven -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 5:56:48 AM)
Depends on whose idea the milking is.

lally2 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:04:02 AM)
ok, call me naive but what exactly is milking the prostate and how do you do it, ive seen people mention it before and sort of wondered but never really cared enough to find out, but since youve brought the topic up lushy i have to ask.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:08:42 AM)
The prostate is a gland that aids in ejaculation. There is a spot in the mans anus that is similar to the g-spot in women. Its shares a wall with the prostate gland. When you stroke this spot or "milk " it the man has a very powerful orgasm without having an erect penis.

ranja -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:17:01 AM)
The way i go about it: i give Him a really nice relaxing but naughty massage around his privates and bum area... carefully teasingly slide a finger in and out His bumhole a few times untill He is most comfortable with it staying there and then i rub His prostate (much like what He does when stimulating my G-spot) while simultaniously playing with His cock... it was quite some time before i was allowed to do this

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:48:52 AM)
I gve a scalp massage with salt scrub shampoo and a neck and shoulder massage with aromatherapy balm before moving to the prostate!

dovie -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:55:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? Hey naughty girl, I know Dommes who milk their slaves while said slave is in chastity and never allowed to orgasm. This is a wonderful way to give immense please to your Master. There is a "lingham massage" coupled with this that is awesome and you can find the technique on the web...Is a very nice segue into learning about Tantric sex, exchanging sexual energy, etc...Amazing experiences await you. hugs, dovie

Mercnbeth -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 6:55:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? there is only one "submissive act"...submitting. how is just one of the details.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 7:48:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dovie quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? Hey naughty girl, I know Dommes who milk their slaves while said slave is in chastity and never allowed to orgasm. This is a wonderful way to give immense please to your Master. There is a "lingham massage" coupled with this that is awesome and you can find the technique on the web...Is a very nice segue into learning about Tantric sex, exchanging sexual energy, etc...Amazing experiences await you. hugs, dovie Im a licensed massage therapist and instructor. I figured it out very quickly and gave a mind blowing experience.But I will check it out to see if there is something new I can learn. [:)]

UniqueRaven -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 7:56:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? Anything that a Dominant man wants to do/have done to him and directs/commands his submissive in doing so, to me, i see as an act of Dominance. We really don't have to overthink things so much. [;)]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 7:56:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? there is only one "submissive act"...submitting. how is just one of the details. Well people submit to me all the times. They get on my massage table without knowing me, naked and trusting that I will give them the experience they desire. But perhaps that doesnt make a submissive? Or does it? I mean, I have drawn a lot of parallels between being a deep tissue massage therapist and dominanting. I give people good pain and have to use my knowlege and instinct to know how far to go without going too far. I know my stuff and have a great deal of confidence in my craft. When I am doing something that involves massage(including prostate massage), I am in complete control of my craft. Im not a switch but it does kind of feed the rebellious side of me. The side that occasionally wants to remind him how much power I really do have. That may sound bratty. But in my relationship it works. But while it makes me feel powerful, it also is in service and I have been in the service industry in some way my whole life.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 7:59:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Is having your prostate milked a submissive act? Anything that a Dominant man wants to do/have done to him and directs/commands his submissive in doing so, to me, i see as an act of Dominance. We really don't have to overthink things so much. [;)] Does feeling toppy when I do it make me a switch? Thats what I ponder. Although thats the only thing I do remotely with a toppy feeling and it involves my expertise in massage. Maybe thats why? Hey if we didnt overthink things, there would be no forums!

UniqueRaven -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:04:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Anything that a Dominant man wants to do/have done to him and directs/commands his submissive in doing so, to me, i see as an act of Dominance. We really don't have to overthink things so much. [;)] Does feeling toppy when I do it make me a switch? Thats what I ponder. Although thats the only thing I do remotely with a toppy feeling and it involves my expertise in massage. Maybe thats why? Hey if we didnt overthink things, there would be no forums! Quite true, and if there were no forums we would do what? Go outside? The horrors! [sm=nervous.gif] (hee hee i'm just messing around - i enjoy the forums too) i think it's fine to feel toppy. i actually feel toppy myself sometimes - and it used to really bother me. But then i realized that my sense of "toppiness" actually comes from my deep rooted need to please, and see him pleased - it's just expressing itself a bit more overtly. But ultimately it's all about his pleasure, not mine in doing the act, so - for me - it is still submission. edited to add: And knowing that any future Owner of mine would rapidly - ah - "correct" the situation if i got too toppy with my behavior DEFINITELY makes it a submissive act - hee hee!

DarkSteven -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:05:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Does feeling toppy when I do it make me a switch? All right... /Stamps "weal twue subbie" on lushy's forehead where everyone can see it/ /Stamps "Dom approved" on lushy's cleavage where everyone will be looking/ lushy, you are a sub. Enjoy it. Revel in it. The fact that you take initiative and pride in doing something in service to another in NO WAY makes you any less of a submissive. As a matter of fact, that makes you just that more effective in catering to a Dom's desires.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:11:47 AM)
Yay!!!!! I got the stamp! woo hoo!!![sm=cheerleader.gif]

Glasgow -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:23:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 It makes me feel kinda toppy when I do it. But so does cock sucking! I get drunk on the power! Muwahahahahaha That's not all you're getting drunk on... [8\|]

DarkSteven -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:25:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Yay!!!!! I got the stamp! woo hoo!!![sm=cheerleader.gif] I also give out stamps further down. But those you gotta earn.

Glasgow -> RE: Milkin it! (6/13/2010 8:28:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Yay!!!!! I got the stamp! woo hoo!!! I also give out stamps further down. But those you gotta earn. Yeah, he gives 'em out in the alley behind Sizzler. You earn all you want for $5 each.

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