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RE: Introducing my vanilla BF to the lifestyle...? - 6/22/2010 6:02:38 PM

joey46

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I know it sounds like some 60 year old talking, but nothing good comes from saying no when you mean yes or yes when you mean no, and no one ever got anywhere worth going by trying to start out from where they are not. Ah . . . my first geriatric rant!

If this guy isn't into what you're bringing to the relationship now, it is highly unlikely that it is going to get better. Perhaps give yourselves some time to get over the initial shock and to get some clarity, but if this guy can't get into being loved, obeyed, entertained, allowed to set rules and punish infractions or whatever it is that winds your clock, you need to deal with it.

sorry for the lecture ... if I sound like a guy who hasn't followed that advice in his own life, it's because I am

joey

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RE: Introducing my vanilla BF to the lifestyle...? - 6/22/2010 6:25:39 PM

SirsJewel

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i'd have to say based on your first post he really doesn't suit you frankly. The cum he's done thing??? How you lasted this long stuns me. I am sure he's a nice boy,but let him go and walk a bit further down the path to your destiny if it keeps tugging at you, OR find a dominate for you both and see if he walks away, best of luck, please let U/us know how it goes ~ jewels

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God grant me the serenity to accept people for who they are and not whom i wish they could be ~ jewels

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