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RE: Essential toys - 6/5/2010 3:08:13 PM

LanceHughes

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LadyPact - you and I MUST meet one of these days......

I was going to answer "essential equals nothing but my hands" since nothing is really essential to a good BDSM session as in the scenario I wrote above. That's the literal answer to the OP. Maybe the OP shoulda/coulda/woulda written: "If you were going to be stranded on the proverbial desert island, which ten <limit> toys would you take - aside from the people to use them on?"

LP, That's the question you answered. And what I, too, thought the OP meant. I was just playing with them.

Anyway, let's see what I would answer if I was limited to ten toys...

It would be - The first flogger I ever owned - cheap piece-o-crap, but lightweight, stingy and can be made to hurt if I want it too, but for next stage in a flogging I move to:

2) a decent flogger but a little too heavy for really long sessions, so I add in

3) a crop - probably the red<!> one. A gift from another Top into BDSM, puchased at one of the ThunderInTheMountain gatherings, so it has characteristics that are all wrong for a horse. That is, it is not really like my 4th choice of:

4) a "standard" riding crop - have three, but there's one that's a favorite.

5) a SET of "real" canes - as you find in an English boarding school. Graduated in size - all of real bamboo. As LP says, I'm the Top. Counts as one toy.

6) Custom made small wooden paddle - one side smooth, one side has an unusual, very sensation oriented surface, and I'm NOT giving away the secret of what that side is made of.

7) Various ropes - I really like the black ones given as a gift from one of my all-time favorite bottoms. He liked to wear my rope harnesses, and thought we would really "wow" the bar crowd if he showed up with a black one on his pale skin. YEP, it did. Rope is a muti-use toy, of course. One use other than bondage is a whirly-gig - which the boys into CBT can just barely handle.

8) A zipper - so that I have plenty of clothes pins to use as tit-clamps and elsewhere - again, that's ONE toy.

9) Cockring/ball stretcher of some sort. I've got a very elaborate one that has two parts. One part is put on him and the matching part on me. Two parts can be optionally joined together. Oh, and I love ordering the boy to put the two parts on me, one on each ball as I add, "Don't you dare hurt me, boy."..... confuses the hell out of them, and I have enuf "junk" that they can.... /stop bragging, Lance and tell us #10/

10) A pair of driving gloves - super thin, but "oh, my" when I work their nipples.

Excuse me. I've got to go take care of a ..... personal matter, yes, that's it.... a "personal" matter that just came up.

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 5:20:01 PM

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LadyPact - you and I MUST meet one of these days......

I was going to answer "essential equals nothing but my hands" since nothing is really essential to a good BDSM session as in the scenario I wrote above. That's the literal answer to the OP. Maybe the OP shoulda/coulda/woulda written: "If you were going to be stranded on the proverbial desert island, which ten <limit> toys would you take - aside from the people to use them on?"

LP, That's the question you answered. And what I, too, thought the OP meant. I was just playing with them.

I completely agree on the meeting thing, Lance. I think you and I would have a blast together.

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 7:16:57 PM

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I completely agree on the meeting thing, Lance. I think you and I would have a blast together.

Ummm... where to the subby types sign up for THAT meet???

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 7:54:57 PM

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I like impact play - with a bit of apprehension added for spice. With that in mind, i would want 1. thick thuddy cane
2. thin stingy cane
3. blindfold
4. earplugs
5.crop circle paddle - has a hole in the middle of it, leaves bruises like crop circles.
6. flicker whip
7. quirt
8. lube
9. hatachi wand
10. my dildo

I think all of these things would make for an interesting session.

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 7:55:39 PM

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A chin dildo and a blindfold.

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 9:12:40 PM

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I completely agree on the meeting thing, Lance. I think you and I would have a blast together.

Ummm... where to the subby types sign up for THAT meet???

I promise (with Lance's consent, of course) if we pull that one off, I'll happily post it in Upcoming Events.

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RE: Essential toys - 6/6/2010 9:25:34 PM

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I promise (with Lance's consent, of course) if we pull that one off, I'll happily post it in Upcoming Events.

*stalks Upcoming Events so I can be first in line*

Now, to avoid a modspank for being off topic:
I'm rather a toyaholic. Not saying that I can't have fun without them, but I do lubs my toys, many of which I made myself.
My essentials are:
-the custom fit cuffs
-the one gag that doesn't choke me
-the soft 'warmup' whompy purple rope flogger
-the elk skin floggers (2)
-the sheepskin flogger set (3)
-the "I shit myself" paddle
-the bungee whip
-50' of glow in the dark rope

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RE: Essential toys - 6/7/2010 3:55:24 AM

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Waiting for Simply Michael to answer...

**blinking**

ps. Lance you are just HOT!

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RE: Essential toys - 6/9/2010 8:54:59 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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I completely agree on the meeting thing, Lance. I think you and I would have a blast together.

Ummm... where to the subby types sign up for THAT meet???

I promise (with Lance's consent, of course) if we pull that one off, I'll happily post it in Upcoming Events.

LP <and all those s-types lined up behind Wyld> What I was thnking was FIRST and foremost a private tete'-a-tete'. Then, after we've enjoyed each other and giglled and gotten serious and written our book outline and maybe recovered a couple of days later..... ::: SIGH ::: Then, and ONLY then, we might have enough strength and interest to even consider taking on a bunch of s-types.

Lordy, lordy, I can just see them rushing us.... If you ever thought you heard "pick me" thrown at you loudly.... just you wait and see what the mob will be like. Now, I enjoy the ocasional orgy just as much as the next Domly type, but even the tone of this suggestion has raised fear in my heart.

What are you-n-I suppossed to do to defend ourselves? You canes and paddles? How about whips and chains? Or better - once we have one on the ground, use rope?

Just doesn't seem to work ---- or maybe that's the problem.... it is ALOT of HARD work! LOL!

Nope. NO consent...... At least not until we've had a least one <maybe two> private meetings to layout a strategy. LOL!

P.S. to dovie..... Ahem, thanks..... but, but you do know that Lance is on the other side of the kneel.... er, wait.... the other side of the fall..... er, never mind. Go read his profile. LOL!

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RE: Essential toys - 6/9/2010 8:59:40 PM

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I dont need to line up. The Domly types line up for me!!!

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