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SimplyMichael -> Essential toys (6/3/2010 6:17:58 PM)
Someone started this on fet and I thought it would be a good one for here but I am going to make it better. This isn't a thread to brag about how uber you are and if you do, you will be mocked severly for it. If you are too good to "play" just shut the fuck up. If your play is on such an elevated plane that you just commune with your partners chakras, shut the fuck up. If you are a kinky fucking pervert who likes to hurt or pleasure people with toys...please dear god post something! Describe your style of play first and then your most essential toys, up to about 10 Making it wank worthy is fine, being graphic is fine, having fun with it is fine but get on a soapbox and all the big kids will mock you and since I am stating that in the OP it is thus ON TOPIC to mock you. It is also not graded, any time you limit your world to a post, you have to leave something out. So again, the point is to have a bit of fun.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 6:30:45 PM)
You think I'm going to give you all that wank material for free, Michael? ;-) - LA

Missokyst -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 7:04:23 PM)
I am more of a swirler.

Andalusite -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 7:06:28 PM)
I'm primarily focused on my partner's reactions. When I top or dominate my femsub playpartner, I enjoy getting those flinches, squeals, whimpers, and the occasional tear from her. I generally keep things more to the sensual play side, and like going after the really sensitive spots, like her nipples and thighs, where I don't have to exert as much physical force to get her where I want to go. I don't have anyone I'm actively involved with bottoming or submitting to at the moment, but when I do, I tend to enjoy more thud than sting in general, but am pretty flexible and openminded about toys and techniques. Hmm, I don't have toys that I consider essential, but the most versatile ones, that I use the most frequently, are: a dagger - no edge. It leaves scratches, but can't draw blood no matter how hard I drag it across skin. It's fun to hold it to someone's throat, saw at their nipples, point the tip into their belly or breast, spank them with, do abrasion play with the side of the handle, and the pommel is fantastically thuddy for impact play. It's useful for interrogation or fantasy rape scenes., and scraping wax off. dog collar - worn as a collar, either choke-chain style (lightly/carefully) or with a clip stopping it, folded over and used as a flogger, to connect restraints together in various positions, as a restraint on an arm or leg, or put in the freezer for temperature-based sensation play hood - mostly for me. It pretty much sends me directly to subspace, to the point where I barely need a warmup at all. candles - useful for wax play and fireplay, or just setting the mood. clamps - I have a few different sorts, my favourites are the tweezer style with dragon charms rope - bondage and occasionally used for impact play. I'm interested in getting more into shibari and suspension. metal cat litter scoop - I find the idea of hitting someone with it very amusing, and it gives lots of different sensations depending on whether I use the edge (similar to blunt knife play), handle, the bulging side, or the convex side Barbie flogger - mostly sensation play and warmup. The handle is a hot pink bicycle handle that looks like a dildo, and would probably be safe to insert if used with a condom (I haven't tried that, but have been tempted occasionally). It has long blond hair extensions, and an odd mixture of thud and sting. I can pretty much wallop as hard as I like with it without doing any damage, and can flog unusual and sensitive spots such as the face, or directly over bone safely. Leather flogger - pretty basic, mostly used for flogging, but I've done impact play with the handle, and used the falls as very light sensation play at times. It is on the thuddy side, but can be stingy depending on how it is used. Wooden massage roller - used for massage (giving or getting) or as very thuddy impact toy needles - especially when used in decorative patterns with different colors

LanceHughes -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 8:36:47 PM)
You think I'm giving up my secrets? LOL! Actually, there are NO essential toys in my bag. Here's a definition that shows what I mean: Basic or indispensable; necessary: essential ingredients. See Synonyms at indispensable ... So, if I'm in the men's room at a fine restaurant, and the guy at the urinal next to mine licks his chops with eyes lowered, I might say <especially with no one else around> "What're you into, boy?" His response of "Spank me while I blow you, Sir," is enuf to get us both started, y'think? Off we go to the stall in the far corner. I sit on water-box (old, fine restaurant - I told you - pay attention!) He drops his drawers and bends to suck me. I grab my belt and "whack! whack!" over his back. He starts jerking off, and I kick his hand away, saying, "What the fuck do you think you're doing? I want you to concentrate on me, boy. Just me. You are here to pleasure me. That just makes him suck more vigourously, saying "Yes, Sir" around my dick. I start to beat him harder, but in time to the piped-in music. It's classical, and has a beat <pun intended> leading to a crescendo. I cum as the music comes to it's crescendo <will the puns never stop?> I say, "You've been a good boy. Kneel on the stool cover and jerk off." I use my hand and tell him..... "I'll count down slowly. You come when I tell you, and not a stroke sooner. If you don't cum at zero, you get to go back to your table with a hard-on." This excites him, he starts panting more deeply than before, as I count.... "50,... 49,... 48,... " He's getting close, but I keep my pace, especially since the music has stopped for a bit..... <or has it?> 30,... 29,... 28,... I can tell he's going to lose it too soon, so I pick up my pace ever so slightly, hitting him faster..... 10,... 9,.... 8,.... 7,... He drops his dick, hoping to wait for zero, and I give him a really hard swat - so hard, it breaks his concentration...... He looks over his shoulder and says, "Sir?" I say, "You dropped your dick. That was to remind you that I told you to keep jerking." "Sorry, Sir." I continue, slowly as before, giving him a chance.... 10,... 9,.... 8,.... He grabs his dick and is jerking furiously, hoping that he can get back to it before the zero. He's dreading it, he's confused, he's getting hit..... "3,... 2,... 1,.... ZERO! CUM, you motherfucker! CUM!" He's jerking so fast I can't see his hand or dick. I slap his hand away and say, "Wash and get back to your table." He's almost in tears, but does what I tell him. I follow him out and see that he's dining with the wife of the Mayor - a gorgeous woman, dressed to the nines - and no one else. As soon as I recognize her, I recognize him - he's know as her best friend and rumors have swirled around them for the last few years. I turn to my dining companion, my out-gay-lover who is the first out-Senator in our State legislature and say, "When we get home and I've got you in bondage, I'll tell you a bed-time story." ------- Let's see how many THUDs that brings and I'll continue with my answer to the OP's question.

IronBear -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 9:23:22 PM)
Rope of various types including silk, chains and shackles (preferably the black ones I make), a multitude of floggers (different styles), crops, canes and lots of various length needles. To this I add various pieces of dungeon I am making including a traditional circular hanging cage. I suppose I should add suitable pain slut slaves too so I can use my "toys" on would not go amiss.

laurell3 -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 9:39:30 PM)
Booo you worded it so only the bigkids could play....I'm taking my toys and going home! Wait...I am home....

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 10:14:48 PM)
I love Lance!! "Essential" is pretty much me, my playmate, and my brain... But these days I am in love with my "dog whip" singletail, my Heartwood moose flogger, a neato Mexican quirt, and the cutest little pine paddle, light as a feather but snappy! Then there's the other twenty pounds of stuff...

reynardfox -> RE: Essential toys (6/3/2010 11:29:31 PM)
The only real sex toys are people.

allthatjaz -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 12:51:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: reynardfox The only real sex toys are people. Your right. Recently we offloaded nearly all our toys and it felt great to be rid of them. Give me a cornfield, our hands, bodies and our minds and we have a lot more fun

crazyml -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 1:37:41 AM)
I'm with LadyHibiscus, reynardfox and allthatjaz... My only "essential" toys are two (more or less compatible) brains. Not sure I could throw out the ball gag or the harness though ;-)

jbcurious -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 2:27:56 AM)
While other women seem to ptefer vibrators, rabbits, or flexible dildos... I prefer glass, steel or polished stone, they're almost like little sculptures...I would hate to be without them. I'm a sucker for aesthetics and love the cold hard inflexibility...

LittleBroken -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 2:55:16 AM)
May I be utterly Boring and say that I am my most favorite toy. Adaptable and limber. The smart toy that learns and adapts to the users whims. The Swiss Army Knife of Biological Toys. A supple and flexible, desirable body driven by a devilishly inventive mind, powered by a overpowering desire to please. Oh and I do have a range of dildos and vibrators. Separate sets for vaginal and anal because I'm fastidious, bordering on OCD. Cuffs and rope because these are the very sinews of our craft. Riding, lunging, dressage and driving crops and whips.....the saddlery store is a girls best friend for cheaper BDSM supplies. An extensive collection of lingerie. Corsets, garter belts, seamed stockings, frilly panties and push up bras titillate and help set the scene and spur the appetite. Shoes and Boots.....where ever would the perfect outfit be without the perfect footwear? What else accentuates the height and the length of leg? What else throws all the weight forward causing the Glutes (that's your arse, Darlings) to tighten, your hips to be thrown forward and your Hammies and Calves to flex? Just a few of my favorite things.

LittleBroken -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 3:22:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml I'm with LadyHibiscus, reynardfox and allthatjaz... My only "essential" toys are two (more or less compatible) brains. Not sure I could throw out the ball gag or the harness though ;-) I think you were right not to be so hasty throwing out the ball gag and harness...who knows what situations may require the need of such items? [:D][;)]

DesFIP -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 5:09:35 AM)
Rope of various lengths and thicknesses. Scarves for blindfolds. Ball gag. He would like to add nipple clamps and wooden spoons but since I'm the one writing this, I'll leave those nasty things out. lol

LadyPact -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 7:47:58 AM)
OK. Only two of you have come even close to what I think this thread is about, so I'm jumping in here. (Of course, I could be completely wrong, since I didn't create the thread and I have no clue about the reference thread on Fet.) As boring as it sounds, I'm an impact player. I'm going to use good, old-fashioned pain to get My jollies. I'm not the 'let Me tickle you with a feather' type. My goal is to take a person where I want them to go by hurting them. I've got a number of toys with that specific purpose in mind. Here's what you'll most likely see: (By the way, anything that is a matched pair count as one toy. I'm the top in the scenario, so I make the rules.) One pair of light floggers - These are for warming the skin and to get My rhythm going. Most likely My red pair. Anybody can take these things. It takes a serious swing to make them hurt at all, but with enough of a backhand, I can make them sting. They are good for use just about anywhere on the body and their primary purpose is to get the person used to being hit. One pair of light/medium floggers - Most likely My purple suede. These are to step up the intensity a bit. If you think of the first set as getting on the airplane, this is the set that is getting the 'taxi on the runway' effect. Slight pain is being introduced at this point, but only at a 'hey, yeah, that hurts a bit' stage. The dragon's teeth - In all fairness, I didn't name this toy, even though it is one of My favorites. That honor goes to one of My former play partners in Atlanta. This is also one of the few floggers that I own that doesn't have a mate. It's a medium weight purple flogger with knots intermittently through the falls. Used lightly, it can feel like a soothing massage. With a bigger swing, it can feel like large hail hitting the back. It is a lazy Domme's toy in the sense of I don't have to put a lot of effort into using it to make it hurt. One pair of medium handle-less floggers - These floggers really don't have a handle. Instead, you attach them to your hands with loops that are for your middle and ring fingers. The connecting swivel leads to the falls. The best part about these is, since there is no handle, it means less weight for Me to swing, which means I actually get to play longer, because I'm not exerting the same kind of effort. The bottom is definitely being hurt at this point, but I haven't even worked up a sweat. One pair of dragon tongues - I may use these one or two at a time, depending on My mood and what I know the bottom can take. I might choose just one so I can carefully aim for just the right kind of pop or I might use both to build a rhythm so I can crack one at just the right time. Most folks can expect some nice red lines on the skin from this, even those who are more dark complected. One duel sided paddle - This is really just a ping-pong paddle with something like fur on one side. The fur side can be rubbed on the skin for almost a 'play nice' kind of sensation against the skin where the marks were just put. I may actually be luring the bottom into a false sense of security that the scene is over. (That's the only secret you're getting out of Me.) The trick is, it really is a paddle and that's what I'm going to use it as. The fur side is more of a thud and the bare side produces more of a sting. Play time is definitely not over. One pair of heavy sting floggers - This is a pair of black floggers that has nice silver pointed studs on the handles and square falls. These sting like a mother fucker. Not everybody can take them and even those who can, there aren't a lot of folks out there who can take them for very long. Have to be careful with these, because they will tear your playmate up. One crop - Could be a cane or a different paddle, depending on My mood, but I have a thing for crops. I probably don't have to explain that this is for those welts that I like so much. One pair of heavy braided floggers - Can you say OW? These are not for bottoms who do not have a high pain tolerance, but I love the hell out of them. Great for pain sluts or those folks who really want to see how much they can take. One pair of rainbow rope floggers - These are very soft, unbraided rope specifically for cool down. After all of the inflictions that I have just made on the bottom's skin, these feel like heaven. Just rubbing them along the body brings a nice sensation. I'm told they are great during that floaty period. OK. That's ten. (I said pairs count as one, dammit.) Truthfully, you're going to see Me play with a lot more than these ten things if I have more than an hour to spend. Other stuff that will probably come out would be My four foot whip, a pair of four foot dragon tongues, various other pairs of floggers (both sting and thud, but I tend to prefer toys that sting), canes, the ugly stick, and whatever else I'm in the mood for. I usually don't plan My implements and just because I've used something once doesn't mean that I won't go back to it. None of it necessarily applied if I'm doing wax, fire, needles, electrical, or other types of scenes that don't involve impact.

pahunkboy -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 8:03:54 AM)
..I would have to go with attitude.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 9:11:58 AM)
LP You cheated and looked in your toybag!! LOL. Every time I open mine, it's like xmas!

LadyPact -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 10:34:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus LP You cheated and looked in your toybag!! LOL. Every time I open mine, it's like xmas! Nope. Really didn't. I know the pieces that matter to Me.

DomImus -> RE: Essential toys (6/4/2010 10:54:08 AM)
My play is very toy oriented. I love all of the props. I like restraints and various levels of sensory deprivation. Even simply having your hands bound behind your back is a form of deprivation as you no longer have the use of your hands. The sensations ratchet up every time another sense is removed. The ability to speak or swallow, to see, to hear. Each sensation or activity that is restricted or removed entirely heightens the sensation for myself and the frustration for her. While I have a few impact toys they reside in my toybag simply from a completist standpoint - just to say I own them. I actually made the two floggers myself just to see if I could. I rarely use them and often leave them home if I travel. What is a staple for most just doesn't interest me much. In addition to the aforementioned heavy bondage/restraints and gags, blindfolds and other sensory limiting items I enjoy various electrical play, needle play and a little light breath play now and then. I have a leather hood and a Russian military surplus gas mask that I adore. Inverted suspension (when I can perform it) is way hot. Getting head from someone bound shibari style and hanging from their ankles is a rush. I pretty much have everything I want and need in my toybag(s). Rarely buy anything new. I don't know that I have favorites but if I had to boil it down to a few essentials our old trusty leather wrist cuffs and my favorite red ball gag would be a must.

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