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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 7:16:26 AM

LadyNTrainer

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I appreciate your input.
This "role-play" could be as simple as..."if you aren't a good boy and do as you are told, I am going to take naked pictures and show them to your friends at work".
It is NOT a crime, or against the law.
It isn't REAL.
BOTH people KNOW this is ROLE-PLAY.

If a man puts on a gorilla costume, it doesn't make him a gorilla.

Cool beans. Just make sure you trust the peeps you're doing this with, because if it ever turns ugly for any reason, and they have incriminating correspondence of this nature from you plus proof that money ever changed hands between you (eg, for a pro session), you're potentially screwed.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 7:23:19 AM

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I am the one that is a horrible and condescending prick.

I don't get the whole Pro domme financial domination bullshit. I really wish that CM would do away with the leaches altogether.

Being that I run CM this policy shall be instituted immediately.

The only reason that I allow Lockit to stay out on CM is that she makes me look like one of the good guys.

However, I do highly recommend the services of Mistress Jeffff. He is incredible at the "mind fuck" and financial domination.

He once convinced me that I had knocked him up and he managed to extort over $500 bucks from me for the abortion.

What a mind fuck!!!!

I love people that play in pretend land.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 7:23:58 AM

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Never understood this one.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 7:59:11 AM

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Couldn't you do this with obviously false "confessions," since it is role-play anyway? Sign a document claiming that you are really an alien, that you killed Hitler even though you weren't born yet when he died, or something similarly completely absurd. Or, have incriminating photos along the lines of silly ones that teenagers routinely take in mall instant photo booths, making funny faces or some such, but nothing that would be actually damaging if it were released.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 8:14:47 AM

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Couldn't you do this with obviously false "confessions," since it is role-play anyway? Sign a document claiming that you are really an alien, that you killed Hitler even though you weren't born yet when he died, or something similarly completely absurd. Or, have incriminating photos along the lines of silly ones that teenagers routinely take in mall instant photo booths, making funny faces or some such, but nothing that would be actually damaging if it were released.

Yep. My favorite way of doing the blackmail scenario is with fantasy roleplaying (eg, D&D) characters. The blackmail is relevant to the lives of the characters, but in the real world, threatening to report someone to the Mage's Guild for practicing illegal blood magic with an unholy artifact is unlikely to garner the attention of a judge. The drawback is that this is only fun with other RPG gamers. And yes, I am a giant nerd.

I suppose that people who are less nerdy could set their roleplaying in a modern world fantasy scenario. Your "victim" could be a government spy with a weakness for loose women and gambling that you could threaten to expose to the secret spy agency he works for. Which he doesn't actually work for. Note that the last part is pretty essential for this to be safe play. I do not advise fucking around with actual government spy agencies.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/1/2010 8:24:36 AM

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Of course! Even if the person doesn't actually work for any spy agency, it's probably best to leave them out of it.

Blackmailing someone's RPG character is a perfect approach, I think that's a very creative way to handle it. Plus, they can give you payouts either in game or in person, whether monetary or doing things that are time-consuming or unpleasant.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/2/2010 1:25:58 PM

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Of course! Even if the person doesn't actually work for any spy agency, it's probably best to leave them out of it. Blackmailing someone's RPG character is a perfect approach, I think that's a very creative way to handle it. Plus, they can give you payouts either in game or in person, whether monetary or doing things that are time-consuming or unpleasant.

Yeah, for those kinds of scenes in my personal life I tend to take payment in either imaginary gold pieces or sexual services. LOL I'm not a MMORPG gamer; strictly old school tabletop and LARP.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/2/2010 3:53:30 PM

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DommeKeli, it seems to me that most every post or thread you make is more an advertisement than anything else. One minute you had past submissives/pets and are wondering where the good one's are and the next you have them, you say they/or you like this or that but want to know how to do it. I just read most of your stuff as bs in general.

DITTO on your mindless rantings.

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/2/2010 8:40:07 PM

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Any comment on the discussion of your topic, Keli?

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RE: Financial Domination/Pretend Blackmail - 6/4/2010 4:06:46 PM

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ok here goes. several years ago, i was at a high in my sub/slave mentality. i gave a Master video tapes of me willingly begging to be his slave. i said many things on the tape that would devestate my vanilla family if they heard them and especially coming from my mouth.
i signed a slave contract. i gave this Master, whom i had never met personally, all my vitals. real lname, address, ss# names and address's of my family and friends and my work.
i made self torture videos. i made a couple of homosexual sex tapes. (i am straight but it was a condition of my slavery). All thihs was unending unless the Master decided to release me. Which he has not. it has been 3 years now and i obey him completely in almost every aspect of my life. he tells me what to eat, what to wear. i musst get his permission if i wish to talk with someone he doesn't know. i must never say no to him. so far he has pimped me out to two local men. he is looking for more. he is very strict on what i can do with these men, ie: i can suck them, lick balls andaccept a spanking.. but nothing else unless he and the local top decide i need more discipline. If i displease him he has me punish myself on vidcam. i wear his mark on my body. He has made it very very clear that all my videos, photos and conversations are packed and ready to be mailed to my family members if i dare to disobey. He has promised that thaat will never happen so long as i obey.
the eroticsm of my enslavement has passed. Yet i am still his slave. Illegal? maybe. so what, i would never go to the police. It was stipulated that his power did not extend to my financial obligations. but i guess that if he wanted, he could extort from me.
He enjoys his power even though it is trans continental. he also is very concerned about my happiness. He demands i love him. i obey. i am a true slave to this man. And i gave him the power. i don't know what i would do if he outed me to my family. probably disappear forever into some hellhole. it makes no difference though as i am totally under his control.
do i like it? yes, because it is what i should be. would i do whata he commands if there were no threat of exposure? probably not. definately not, since i am straight and am no longer allowed female companionship. i must wear stockings, garter belt, panties and a bra whenever i go out and i must be naked whenever i am inside. He checks on me daily via web cam. Am i his slave because of his power to destoy my life? absolutely. it matters not if i enjoy being his slave. It matters only that i obey and never give him cause to out me.

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