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RE: How does gender affect your play? - 3/6/2010 6:58:15 AM

Aynne88

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What drifa is trying to nicely say is that it might be nice with those with less than three or four years of life expectancy not to post their dying nakedness as their avatar. It disgusts her.

I don't share her sentiments cuz I once banged this chick with terminal cancer that was still kind of hot.

Post your pics as you see fit.

Holy fuck that's just funny.

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RE: How does gender affect your play? - 3/6/2010 9:17:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

What drifa is trying to nicely say is that it might be nice with those with less than three or four years of life expectancy not to post their dying nakedness as their avatar. It disgusts her.

I don't share her sentiments cuz I once banged this chick with terminal cancer that was still kind of hot.

Post your pics as you see fit.

Holy fuck that's just funny..

It really, really was. I lol'ed.

Edit: I also agree with him - post whatever pics you want! Frankly, if someone sees a bad picture of you and wants to get to know you anyway because of what you've written, it speaks volumes towards your writing and that persons' character. /Edit

On topic though, it seems to be like the common thread running through the responses (besides relationship) is that gender affects play depending on how the individual responds sexually to a particular gender. Any thoughts?

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RE: How does gender affect your play? - 3/6/2010 9:41:24 AM

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I feel equally submissive and equally sexually attracted to men and women, on average, apart from the fact that there are fewer gay/bi Dommes than straight Doms. Since I'm submissive, the play is only different if they want it to be so it's kind of hard to say if I would naturally do anything different, but as far as I'm aware I react in the same way.

As far as them treating me any different I haven't had nearly enough experience to notice a trend, but by far and away the most sadistic person I ever played with was a woman.

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RE: How does gender affect your play? - 3/6/2010 10:02:40 AM

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ORIGINAL: afterforever

I feel equally submissive and equally sexually attracted to men and women, on average...

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...as far as I'm aware I react in the same way.

I'm the same way as afterforever. I have never felt any inclination to assume a different role with women than with men (although, my experience with women is rather limited). In fact, I have found that I am even more submissive to women...although, that may just be due to my inexperience.

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