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Madame4a -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 7:54:30 AM)
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I'll admit, you did come off racist, but I think its certainly very possible to separate that from your taboos and turn ons. Thing is... the roots of it being humiliating may actually be in that kind of attitude... but only you can say that for sure. I know that some of the men I've topped have found it humiliating because I'm a woman.. a dyke.. and yes, that might not come from the best place but it is.
I recall a scene at South Plains one year, it was a fabulous mind fuck and a real taboo... Midori along with a white man, dressed like the worlds most stereo typical WHITE overseer from a plantation topped a black man -- complete with racial slurs.. etc. It was disturbing... and I thought overall very brave to play with something like that in a public setting -- it is what it is.. right or wrong. But the man on the bottom, chained to the cross.. had clearly consented.. and in the end, that was all I needed to know.
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ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961
no i'm not a racist, i guess what i was trying to say is that it is the "different" taboo, or out of the ordinary.
let's face it, most people i know stick with their own race. it is not the "norm" for a white guy to be dominated by a black guy or heavily inked guy.
hmm, i guess it could sound racist but what i meant was i came from a Christian backround with so many taboos that in my mind being dominated by either of those, would turn me on more, not exactly humiliate me more than a white guy could.
i've been pretty humiliated by white guys, it just adds to it. it's hard to explain.
kind of like a guy dressed in leather dominating me would turn me on more than a guy in preppy clothes.
just like whipping does nothing for me and bondage does, everyone has their own kink.
when i see photos of a black guy inside of a white guy, it sends me through the roof, but when i see a white guy inside a black guy, it does nothing for me. can't explain it.
i wasn't trying to insinuate that a black guy or inked guy was lower in worth than a white guy so to be humiliated by either of those, would be more humiliating then a white guy.
it is more along the "different" and "taboo" route.
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