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HOUDINI1961 -> DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:30:49 PM)

i'm a white slaveboy, does anyone else have this fantasy of being a slave to a black guy or heavily-inked guy?



GreedyTop -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:33:43 PM)

any time you have to ask "Does anyone...."

the answer is YES



stef -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:33:56 PM)

No, no one else does.

~stef



AquaticSub -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:35:54 PM)

Heavily inked guy yes. My "OMG YUMMY SKIN TONE" kink is somewhat hit or miss, depending on the person but I do have a thing for a skin contrast. But Indians... I have no idea why but that skin tone gets me every time.

*sighs and goes back to her probably politically incorrect wanking*



HOUDINI1961 -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:37:16 PM)

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.



AquaticSub -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/11/2010 11:39:26 PM)

Ahh. I don't find anything humiliating about it. I just love the skin contrast and I've got a bit of a politically incorrect thing about the "snow white girl" and the "powerful, darker man".

*sighs* Why... why oh why have I only been hit on by a Morroccan once and I didn't know how to explain the concept of a poly relationship on the spot so I just told him I was married... He was so yummy looking too...



windchymes -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 4:23:56 AM)

Doesn't sound like an unreasonable, or uncommon, fantasy to me. It's not mine, but why not for anyone else?



DesFIP -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 4:41:14 AM)

Not uncommon to be attracted to particular kinds of people; gender, height, weight, skin tones, racial or ethnic background etc.

However being attracted to a group is different then wanting this person not for himself, but just to fill a slot in your fantasy. Nobody likes being seen by a stranger not as a person but as a generic, interchangeable thing.




Rochsub2009 -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 4:48:00 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.



Why would it be any more humiliating than being dominated by a white guy or a blue guy?  Being a slave can be humiliating.  Many activities that a slave is forced to do can be humiliating.  But finding the race of the master to be humiliating reflects on you and your perceptions of the world.  i don't think a black master would find your belief that his race is humiliating to be a positive thing.  Think about it.

i understand race play.  The contrasts and social taboos can be exciting.  But in this politically correct world that we live in, you need to be more careful in how you express your desires.  i'm not accusing you of being a racist, but sometimes people inadvertently have views and opinions that fall into that category without even realizing it.

Pretend that you have just met the black Dom of your dreams.  Now imagine telling him that you find submitting to him to be humiliating.  Moreover, tell him that the humiliation is due to his race, and not due to the things that he is making you do.  What do you think his reaction is going to be?  That's what i describe as inadvertent racism.

Good luck with your search.  i genuinely meant this as a piece of helpful feedback.  Hopefully you will take it that way.



wisdomtogive -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 4:52:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.


Being Dominated by a black man would never be humiliating to me. There are some fine looking black men in this world. Heavy ink is not a turn on for me. A naked Native American male on a horse though is a great fantasy for me.:) Yummy !!!



VaguelyCurious -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:10:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.


I thought this thread was going to be smoking hot, and then you had to go and ruin it.
[>:][>:][>:]





mnottertail -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:13:51 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

Why would it be any more humiliating than being dominated by a white guy or a blue guy? 



Makes you wonder don't it? How many people want to be dominated by The Blue Man Group?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QM-mfEMssy8




allthatjaz -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:15:22 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.



Why would it be any more humiliating than being dominated by a white guy or a blue guy?  Being a slave can be humiliating.  Many activities that a slave is forced to do can be humiliating.  But finding the race of the master to be humiliating reflects on you and your perceptions of the world.  i don't think a black master would find your belief that his race is humiliating to be a positive thing.  Think about it.

i understand race play.  The contrasts and social taboos can be exciting.  But in this politically correct world that we live in, you need to be more careful in how you express your desires.  i'm not accusing you of being a racist, but sometimes people inadvertently have views and opinions that fall into that category without even realizing it.

Pretend that you have just met the black Dom of your dreams.  Now imagine telling him that you find submitting to him to be humiliating.  Moreover, tell him that the humiliation is due to his race, and not due to the things that he is making you do.  What do you think his reaction is going to be?  That's what i describe as inadvertent racism.

Good luck with your search.  i genuinely meant this as a piece of helpful feedback.  Hopefully you will take it that way.



I agree with this. His words rang the same alarm bells with me.




sirsholly -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:19:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.
careful Sweetie...your racism is showing



EbonyWood -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:20:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I agree with this. His words rang the same alarm bells with me.


I think it was a kink thrown into the lobby to see if anyone picked it up.
 
I wonder now if Houdini has disappeared.
 
(Yep, I went there.)



HisSweetElysium -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:22:27 AM)

why can't I have both?[8|]  

Not humiliating, HOT!



RedMagic1 -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:26:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

i guess because i would find it humiliating which is a turn on for me.



Why would it be any more humiliating than being dominated by a white guy or a blue guy?

Being dominated by the Blue Man Group would be quite humiliating.



sirsholly -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:27:38 AM)

Blue man group?


mental image of Papa Smurf as a Dom


*shudders*



mnottertail -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:29:48 AM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3srJeD0mJoE



sirsholly -> RE: DOMINATION BY A BLACK GUY OR INKED GANG MEMBER (2/12/2010 6:32:05 AM)

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