RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation

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Kaiel -> RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation (2/16/2010 3:43:17 PM)
I have a couple of friends that make statements about "how controlling I am in My relationship" I don't confirm or deny there observations. I have one cousin that knows the ins and outs... but mostly because she is perceptive. I remember once I had a 24/7 slave and part time sub... and she didn't know that... but she knew of both of them and she looked at Me one day and said you fuck them both don't you? I said, yes... She said, "I mean together... you, him and him"... I laughed and said, "yes"... LOL

divine91 -> RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation (2/17/2010 1:23:16 PM)
Always when i tell my friends i'm a slave, who has a Master and the rest of it they think i'm weird. Well, some take it better than others... But mostly it's like....

Freakgirl4 -> RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation (2/17/2010 2:12:11 PM)
like....*waits patiently for devine91 to finish her post......

juliaoceania -> RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation (2/17/2010 2:59:32 PM)
quote: I have a couple of friends that make statements about "how controlling I am in My relationship" I don't confirm or deny there observations. I have had similar observations from my mother in regard to being in "controlling" relationships with my boyfriends... she noted I like them being in control

Tslaveboy -> RE: Telling Vanilla Friends About Your Orientation (2/17/2010 5:14:19 PM)
If someone asks me "what are all those marks?" I'll tell them I'm into BDSM and fetishes. If they want further information, I'll tell them as much as they want to know. I don't try to hide anything in my life unless someone else prefers to keep things private. I've told my co-workers and my family. It's interesting that no one seems shocked at it, considering I do some edge play and scat play. Because I'm considered the "sex expert" at work, I've had women ask my advice on sex toys and have actually taken a few shopping. One co-worker I have told the extreme stuff too told me that the way I talk about it sounds so normal. And this does include the things I've told him about the scat-play and having my scrotum nailed to a butterfly board.

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