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lally2 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 10:43:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Whether strong or not, subs and dommes will always have those that are spamming everyone who is female. i suppose i used the word 'strong' because that seems to be one of the qualities Dommes possess and therefore the quality that male subs might be drawn to. xx

lusciouslips19 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 10:52:59 AM)
Sorry lally. I misread the topic. I thought you were asking if male subs were attracted to female subs. Have I ever been attracted to strong male subs? Well there have been a few from the forums I wished would change!

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 12:34:10 PM)
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thebrokenroad -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 12:45:30 PM)
Hi This is quite interesting to me. Ive had tons of letters from submissive men that tell me that I "look" Domme. I dont get it. Im always gracious to them for writing to me. At some partys or even munches Im approached by sub males that want me to 'cuddle' them or play with them. Even when I tell them that I have no desire to dominate them they still insist that I can do it for them. Glad to know that its not me but maybe they are just wanting female interaction and just are trying with lots of women. I began thinking maybe I was the one missing that in my persona. As for the toe or foot licking Ive had Dominate men do that to me. Ive never asked for it because it tickles me to the point of peeing. Literally. So, I dont see that as something that a sub does to a Domme...but heck. I dont even have a clue what Domme women do or dont do.. Now some of those sub males are very very nice looking. Maybe I could fake it? *laughs

sexyred1 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 12:50:56 PM)
Me too. I get a ton of submissive or switch men writing me telling me that I have not yet discovered my "Inner Domme". I agree, some of them are adorable; such a shame.

lally2 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:00:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thebrokenroad Hi This is quite interesting to me. Ive had tons of letters from submissive men that tell me that I "look" Domme. I dont get it. Im always gracious to them for writing to me. At some partys or even munches Im approached by sub males that want me to 'cuddle' them or play with them. Even when I tell them that I have no desire to dominate them they still insist that I can do it for them. i wonder if they just see a gentleness and warmth that, if theyre feeling a bit unsure of themselves and a real Domme is a tad terrifying, then a submissive woman is less intimidating for them. just a thought. Glad to know that its not me but maybe they are just wanting female interaction and just are trying with lots of women. I began thinking maybe I was the one missing that in my persona. As for the toe or foot licking Ive had Dominate men do that to me. Ive never asked for it because it tickles me to the point of peeing. Literally. So, I dont see that as something that a sub does to a Domme...but heck. I dont even have a clue what Domme women do or dont do.. Now some of those sub males are very very nice looking. Maybe I could fake it? and if you go Pro, they charge about £250 - cute men and lottsa dosh - im wondering the same [:D] *laughs

lally2 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:04:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Me too. I get a ton of submissive or switch men writing me telling me that I have not yet discovered my "Inner Domme". I agree, some of them are adorable; such a shame. i gotta total cutie pie write to me the other week - sigh)))) [:D] all muscly and tanned with an adorable little smile - [8D]

thebrokenroad -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:15:49 PM)
You may be right lally Maybe they do see tenderness.. Why are Domme women mean? Cannot a Domme be soft and sweet too? See, I dont understand all that. perks...Money...and sweet men....... *blinks and wipes her lips dry

lally2 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:19:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thebrokenroad You may be right lally Maybe they do see tenderness.. Why are Domme women mean? Cannot a Domme be soft and sweet too? See, I dont understand all that. perks...Money...and sweet men....... *blinks and wipes her lips dry you and me girl - lets give it a shot [:D] my bank manager would be grateful for the cash and something tells me he might even be our first customer [;)]

thebrokenroad -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:22:22 PM)
laughs Maybe Ive been looking at this all wrong.... Ive been looking for love...maybe I should review my needs.... ponders Well. I do have a new flogger.. Its never been used.[;)]

lally2 -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 1:49:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thebrokenroad laughs Maybe Ive been looking at this all wrong.... Ive been looking for love...maybe I should review my needs.... ponders Well. I do have a new flogger.. Its never been used.[;)] good! - method and being pants at it we can worry about later!![:)]

LadyAngelika -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/29/2009 2:00:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Me too. I get a ton of submissive or switch men writing me telling me that I have not yet discovered my "Inner Domme". I agree, some of them are adorable; such a shame. I've always gotten lots of mail from Dom men, some wanting to Dom me obviously (and I'm sure most of you can just imagine how eloquently they go about it!) but often time to either play on the other side, ie sub to me or to do a co-Dominant thing. I've topped a two Doms in the past and it was fun times actually. It's hot to see that point where they stop resisting and give in! The idea of having a Dominant male partner is not un-hot, as long as he didn't try to top me all the time. The thing is, in time, both of us would go looking for sub partners. Poly didn't work all that well for me I discovered. The thing most people don't realise is that we have these main identities of Dominant and submissive. But life isn't all that black and white. - LA

kdsub -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/29/2009 2:48:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: kdsub I'm just attracted to some women...it makes no difference to me if they are domme or submissive...now it does to them of course but that is out of my hands....I just love people....even if it seems otherwise at times. Butch may i ask then, have you approached a submissive in the hope that she/he might switch or dom. has it ever happened and how did it work out. my feeble attempt to direct, i wont say Domme because i really wasnt when alls said and done, was well, feeble. wouldnt it result in frustrated efforts from both sides. i have a 'kink' in my kink, where if i think i can squeeze through a gap in the fence i will. i hope one day to grow out of that but i havent so far. but then we're all different and operate from different levels. just being nosey and curious. [:)] I guess because of some of my posts, they often seem dominant, submissive women often approach me...and yes it does work out sometimes... I hate to say it but I really don't hold much in classifications...it is just how people feel when they meet or talk that counts. Classes are ok just so people know what you prefer but not what you are. People are too complicated for cut and dry groups such as Domme, sub , and slave…all a bunch of crap as far as I’m comcerned Butch

itsmeinLV -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/29/2009 4:10:33 PM)
Had a couple tries from male sub types but I tell 'em upfront that's not my thing.

DesFIP -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/30/2009 7:09:45 AM)
It's difficult to know if you were with a truly submissive type or simply someone who was insecure about his ability to keep a relationship and therefore was overattentive to your happiness. Nor can one say that just because a man has a fetish like foot licking that he is actually submissive. Having a fetish just means that, it doesn't say he wants a power imbalance relationship or power neutral one. Are there male subs who do try a bait and switch? Sure. Are there female subs who like getting their toes sucked? Also sure.

BalletBob -> RE: have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/30/2009 8:26:30 PM)
Sometimes Male Subs are more desperate than female subs, and would do anything, for any Female to Domme them. I don't thnk it is right, since they are Subs, like me. That would just like them asking me to Dom them. I wouldn't mind giving or getting ideas of what to do, but not tell them what to do. It just isn't in me, since I am a sub. Sub Being, sub BalletBob

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