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lally2 -> have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types (12/28/2009 1:32:44 PM)
ive just realised something. i was reading a thread on 'ask a mistress' about submission, weakness v strength. it was one of the answers that made me realise. i think one of my relationships was with a male sub. he used to wake me up by licking my feet every morning - he used to get all 'melty' and puppydog eyes whenever he saw me, kinda nauseatingly love struck. his emotions were all over the damn place half the time, i think maybe cos he really was having a problem with his orientation towards women. wow. so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. i know that i was intensly uncomfortable with his feet licking thing, but because i was sub i didnt like to ask him to stop. lol [:D] - i was also uncomfortable with his constant need to please me with things, presents, 'thoughtful' ideas that when i wasnt thrilled to bits he'd go into a massive insecure mood. hm! im begining to see why that relationship was so volatile and doomed.

Jeffff -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 2:07:30 PM)
Personaly, makeing no obvious judgements.... I am an "ankles up" kinda guy. Jeff

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 2:17:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Personaly, makeing no obvious judgements.... I am an "ankles up" kinda guy. Jeff coming from the ankles up with that long nose of youres would be an experience! [:D]

vincentML -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 2:18:20 PM)
Sucking toes is kinda nice and tasty.

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 2:34:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: vincentML Sucking toes is kinda nice and tasty. well, i guess, but imagine having youre toes sucked every single morning by someone who by youre own orientation youve elevated to a position that means you should be the one doing the sucking and even if he were the D and was just pleasing himself making those giggly, cooey noises really did just make the whole thing squirmy for me [:'(]

breatheasone -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 3:10:50 PM)
LOL...yes, there was this guy i met online at a different site... he was VERY nice. i did kinda try to be a D-type to him online...and i just couldn't LOL[:D]

sweetsub1957 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 3:44:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him.....

osf -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 3:46:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him..... i get a lot sub male cmail, yuk

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:01:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone LOL...yes, there was this guy i met online at a different site... he was VERY nice. i did kinda try to be a D-type to him online...and i just couldn't LOL[:D] [:D] in my painfully early inexperienced years i tried to do the same - i was pants at it too. mind you it taught me alot about how frustrating it can be and how much hard work it is to keep on top of someone who hasnt got the submission thing entirely sussed [:D]

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:06:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him..... oh thank god, im not the only one, i was starting to feel a bit worried [:D] - yes, keep ignoring him. pissy is what my guy got. and in the end he also got violent. but looking back now i kinda understand his frustration and his confusion. i remember saying to him, if you want to hit me, hit my bum and he looked appalled!!! - 'i cant do that' he said, but he could wrap his hands around my throat and nearly push me off an 11 storey balcony. best to avoid i think [:)]

breatheasone -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:06:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone LOL...yes, there was this guy i met online at a different site... he was VERY nice. i did kinda try to be a D-type to him online...and i just couldn't LOL[:D] [:D] in my painfully early inexperienced years i tried to do the same - i was pants at it too. mind you it taught me alot about how frustrating it can be and how much hard work it is to keep on top of someone who hasnt got the submission thing entirely sussed [:D] This poor sweet guy was more than willing...But i was indeed new...and i didn't have a clue. i just knew what he wanted and needed, i didn't have.

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:07:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him..... i get a lot sub male cmail, yuk have you asked youre goose though, she might be more commodious if she isnt competing with another female. just a thought. [:)]

osf -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:10:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him..... i get a lot sub male cmail, yuk have you asked youre goose though, she might be more commodious if she isnt competing with another female. just a thought. [:)] i guess i could keep her busy with grapes

littlewonder -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:10:28 PM)
I've had a lot of submissive personality type of men become interested in me but can't say I"ve ever gone out with anyone. It was obvious from the start they weren't my type and we'd be incompatible.

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:12:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone LOL...yes, there was this guy i met online at a different site... he was VERY nice. i did kinda try to be a D-type to him online...and i just couldn't LOL[:D] [:D] in my painfully early inexperienced years i tried to do the same - i was pants at it too. mind you it taught me alot about how frustrating it can be and how much hard work it is to keep on top of someone who hasnt got the submission thing entirely sussed [:D] This poor sweet guy was more than willing...But i was indeed new...and i didn't have a clue. i just knew what he wanted and needed, i didn't have. i spose in an odd way it was submitting youreself to his needs - im pretty sure that was what i was doing too. in the end, its largely psychological, for me for sure, and if we dont have the psyche to domme its not going to work for them either.

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:16:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 so here comes the question, ...... have any strong female sub types here attracted male sub types and if so were you aware of it at the time or only on looking back, like i am right now -. For some reason, I've had a lot of male subs cmail me calling me Mistress and Ma'am, and they want me to Domme them. They will not listen when I say I'm on the same side of the kneel as they are & intend to stay there. I usually end up having to resort to block & delete. Then there was this one "Dom" I met in r/t through a friend, and He got all gooey-eyed, whiney and needy, and started begging, and I told Him "You must be switching, cause You're certainly not Dom." Then He got all pissy. Every once in awhile He tries to contact me, but I ignore Him..... i get a lot sub male cmail, yuk have you asked youre goose though, she might be more commodious if she isnt competing with another female. just a thought. [:)] i guess i could keep her busy with grapes you know osf, if you cant get the better of youre goose then how the hell do you expect any self respecting sub to 'hang fire' while you placate the bird with grapes. i think you need to wear the trousers with this goose of youres - she's clearly the domme in youre household. sorry, but as a friend i feel duty bound to point out this flaw in youre plan. [:)]

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:20:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I've had a lot of submissive personality type of men become interested in me but can't say I"ve ever gone out with anyone. It was obvious from the start they weren't my type and we'd be incompatible. in my defence [:)] i had no idea about any of this and he was zany enough for me to find intreaguing. he was a rebel in lots of ways and totally his own person in others, but looking back he was either switch or s'type. whichever, he was in a turmoil with it all.

osf -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:22:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I've had a lot of submissive personality type of men become interested in me but can't say I"ve ever gone out with anyone. It was obvious from the start they weren't my type and we'd be incompatible. in my defence [:)] i had no idea about any of this and he was zany enough for me to find intreaguing. he was a rebel in lots of ways and totally his own person in others, but looking back he was either switch or s'type. whichever, he was in a turmoil with it all. sometimes it's just you have a cunt and they have a need

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:27:58 PM)
I had a dominant type boyfriend who sucked my toes. It was excruciating....like having 10 little clits being tortured. I never thought of him as submissive, still don't...that bazturd. But I do get your point. I have often attracted men that labeled themselves dominant, but who in life exhibited submissive tendencies...Pretty much many of the men I met offline. I had a pool going, how long it would take before they were bottoming to me, no matter how uberdommie their online name was. My best time, was 15 minutes. His name was SlaveMaster..pfft.[:'(] WinD

lally2 -> RE: OMG!!!!! (12/28/2009 4:29:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder I've had a lot of submissive personality type of men become interested in me but can't say I"ve ever gone out with anyone. It was obvious from the start they weren't my type and we'd be incompatible. in my defence [:)] i had no idea about any of this and he was zany enough for me to find intreaguing. he was a rebel in lots of ways and totally his own person in others, but looking back he was either switch or s'type. whichever, he was in a turmoil with it all. sometimes it's just you have a cunt and they have a need go on, lower the tone why dont you - tsk!! [sm=excuseme.gif]

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