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Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 12:20:43 AM

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My pretty little girl has, after much diligent work, managed to deep throat me.

I am very proud.

Now, as she is new to this, it seems that she is having trouble with her nose clogging up. I, being nice, allow her to blow her nose from time to time as needed.

That said, I'd like to know how others deal with this unwelcome distraction. Does anyone take sinus medication? Does this just 'go away' once you gain experince at controling your gag reflex?

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 12:25:01 AM

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you deep throated her...or did she deep throat you?
If she deep throated you, then she didn't need to blow her nose.

MY previous slave girl practiced breathing...and new how to handle it. But deep throating is not soemthing you do for a long time in a row, depending on the situation.
PErhaps nose drops will help. But it is your responsibility to watch her status..

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 1:52:23 AM

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She needs to stop trying to breath through her nose and learn how to breath around you this will help. Course there will be some drooling and messiness with doing it this way but she will be able to maintain longer and wont have her nose stuff up.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 2:20:27 AM

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Some people are just sensitive. You're moving a penis back and forth across very sensitive membranes, and of course the body is going to react like there's a foreign object that needs to be pushed out. That's what mucus is FOR. Asking how to fix it is kind of like asking how to keep a cut from scabbing over. You can't stop the body from reacting in it's normal way.

Her 'unwelcome distraction' is her body telling you NO. Nature never intended your dick to be in her throat, and if that's something you both want to do, then you're just going to have to accept that her body doesn't like it and attempts to fight back. Will her body stop resisting? Possibly, but I can't even have a penis hit the back of my mouth or my nose clogs up, mucus clogs up my throat, and I can't breath unless I stop to clear everything out. I've been giving blow jobs for 6 years..

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 5:31:35 AM

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I, being nice, allow her to blow her nose from time to time as needed.

wow...a real prince.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 5:34:02 AM

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I, being nice, allow her to blow her nose from time to time as needed.
wow...a real prince.

Not everyone is into asphyxiation, holly.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 5:39:32 AM

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I, being nice, allow her to blow her nose from time to time as needed.
wow...a real prince.

Not everyone is into asphyxiation, holly.

wonder how the prince would feel if she sneezed while his cock was playing tonsil hockey?

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 5:41:24 AM

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wonder how the prince would feel if she sneezed while his cock was playing tonsil hockey?

He would feel dismayed.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 6:01:48 AM

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i personally need the snot for proper lubrication... some of it will run back down my throat on the inside somehow and the rest will run out of my nose...
i need lots of slime to beable to have this great big thing slide that deep back into my throat.
When it is down deep i can NOT breath at all anymore... even if my nose was clear

i heard a guy say that it was not a proper blowjob unless the snot starts running... and for me that definitely rings true

i like it when my Man is being attentive and whipes my snot away while deep throating me... it is sort of gentle and humiliating whilst being mouthfucked... good scenario

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 6:08:32 AM

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Angle has a lot to do with the irriation. Y'all might want to practice with different angles to see if there is a less clogging position.

That being said SomethingCatchy has the right of it.

quote:

Some people are just sensitive. You're moving a penis back and forth across very sensitive membranes, and of course the body is going to react like there's a foreign object that needs to be pushed out. That's what mucus is FOR. Asking how to fix it is kind of like asking how to keep a cut from scabbing over. You can't stop the body from reacting in it's normal way.

Her 'unwelcome distraction' is her body telling you NO. Nature never intended your dick to be in her throat, and if that's something you both want to do, then you're just going to have to accept that her body doesn't like it and attempts to fight back. Will her body stop resisting? Possibly, but I can't even have a penis hit the back of my mouth or my nose clogs up, mucus clogs up my throat, and I can't breath unless I stop to clear everything out. I've been giving blow jobs for 6 years..

You might want to save deep-throating as the finale rather than the main course to cut down on the interruptions. In the meantime let her blow and clear as necessary. Nothing makes a person feel less than sexy than to have snot bubbling out his/her nose. (Said with apologies to those who feel snot bubbling is sexy and a good thing.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 6:47:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

wonder how the prince would feel if she sneezed while his cock was playing tonsil hockey?

He would feel dismayed.

Read that as "dis-man-ed" and thought yep that's about right.

Then re-read....visions of Lorraina Bobbitt tossed aside... so to speak

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 8:27:20 AM

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You know as I read the snarky shit that gets passed off here as wit I often wonder what would happen if their kinks were attacked? Do you think they would just ignore the poster or make more snarky attacks in other threads hoping most people would not connect the new attack with the old one. I see it here both ways so who really knows.

I really don't get the stupid shit myself. Sure this guy is pruning like a Peacock with his "Being nice I let her blow her nose" Rather than Dying perhaps he and she are into Necrophilia and not letting her would be a major move toward their ultimate kink. However the snarky shit in attack is just as retarded. It shows you do not agree with the posters Methods and that is fine but it also shows you believe the way the go about their kink is somehow wrong as well and that is just retarded.

I like to bound and gag my girls and then fuck them over a period of a weekend or so. Only untying them for things like the bathroom or to hose them down in a cold shower only to dry them off kindly then retrun them to their sexual sensory deprivation and even then it's on a schedule. For me and for the partners I choose it is all about control and denial of things they see as needs. Yes I have had accidents that require dry cleaning but that helped to add to the nature of control within the guidelines of what we set out to accomplish. In a situation like that, yes I "let" her go to the bathroom and it is a "kind" thing that I do when I do it, but all of this is in reflection of the scene that we are creating. If it were outside of the scene or session then it would be something different, or perhaps the unnegotiated beginning of a new scene once the caveat that it was acceptable to do so had been determined.

To the OP, Ignore the bullshit from the yippie dogs that want to bite your ankles for doing what you do. Address the facts and then move forward.

You have a girl who agrees with your methods of domination.
You have a girl who seeks to please you and is willing to remove herself of her own comfort to do so.
You have a cock that is challening to deep throat..(Not ever guy can say this)
You have the mind about you to ask for a solution that will include your girls comfort.

This puts you in a place that I look at as a responsible Dominant (Except for the cock part that is just an added bonus) and if you just knocked off the arrogant cocky chest thumping douche bag dom tone of voice you will go far and have an enjoyable life in this lifestyle.

You can have an enjoyable life as a douche bag dom too I have seen that happen as well, I just notice they have a lot less friends and tend to go through submissives like tissues.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 8:32:39 AM

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You can't breath through your nose when deep throating.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 9:56:05 AM

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Try holding her nose while she blows you. It sort of gives you , um, a handle on things and may help her from accidentally snorting up some of your sploodge.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 10:26:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: GreySaber

That said, I'd like to know how others deal with this unwelcome distraction. Does anyone take sinus medication? Does this just 'go away' once you gain experince at controling your gag reflex?

Two points...

One, sinus medication is not the answer. The mucus lubricates irritable surfaces.

Two, deep throat a banana. I advise having it curve downward. You will get a pretty good idea of what's going on. This tells you what she's actually doing for you, and how to deal with the body's responses to that. In short, I can tell you how to fix an engine, or I can show you. The latter has a greater chance of success. So, too, with understanding how the body works and responds to things. And, as a side benefit, you'll gain a greater appreciation for your girl, and quite possibly greater enjoyment from the act itself.

Laying on the belly will avoid mucus causing difficulty breathing, at least in my experience. It will also cause it to run. If that's a problem, rinse the nose with an OTC nose rinsing kit (don't use tap water, please) on a regular basis, which makes it less icky, though certainly not less voluminous. Carefully timed breathing can reduce the problem slightly, and a bit of force with brief closure of the lips can cause it to exit the nose, while plugging the nose causes it to exit the mouth (while aggravating the gag reflex, at least mine). Carefully timed swallowing can reduce the volume, but I haven't been very successful at that myself.

I'm thinking it's unlikely to ever become a particularly "tidy" activity, based on my limited experience, but others with more experience will probably have better advice for you. My principal insight has been that when trying to figure out what to do about something, the most informative step is usually to get into the process. Anatomy is never a text book study, and neither is body dynamics. No dominant should be adverse to get their hands dirty, so to speak.

Health,
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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 2:15:27 PM

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thank you QSM. You're quite right, I'm very suprised by the ill will here about. I'm just interested in the troubles involved.

Thank you Aswad, that might help.

Anyone else have a good idea? "Boom, clogged nose" is damned annoying.

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 3:28:11 PM

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~Fast Reply~
My nose starts to run & get snotty and I drool a little when I'm deepthroating, so the only alternative I've found to pausing to blow my schnoz is to sniff & swallow. Sounds gross, but what to do?

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 3:47:58 PM

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 3:49:08 PM

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~Fast Reply~
My nose starts to run & get snotty and I drool a little when I'm deepthroating, so the only alternative I've found to pausing to blow my schnoz is to sniff & swallow. Sounds gross, but what to do?

Excuse me!!! Mods??? We need this post moved over to the "Gross Things We Don't Talk About" thread!!!!

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RE: Deepthroat and nasal congestion? - 12/27/2009 3:50:56 PM

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Two, deep throat a banana. I advise having it curve downward. You will get a pretty good idea of what's going on. This tells you what she's actually doing for you, and how to deal with the body's responses to that.

So, too, with understanding how the body works and responds to things. And, as a side benefit, you'll gain a greater appreciation for your girl, and quite possibly greater enjoyment from the act itself.

al-Aswad.

THis is wonderful advice....and yes just as I use every flogger..etc on MYSELF first
such advice gives the D and VERY good idea of what is happening..
body reponses etc..
I also had someone do water boarding with me BEFORE I did with others...

kudos...A

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