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to everyone - 12/15/2009 10:46:08 AM   
disabledslave90


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Status: offline 		yes i might get stick for this but i dont give a flying F this website says DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE so why is it i am getting stick for declining people who want tributes,yes you can all tell me to F off but thats fine just dont take the piss out of those who respect the rules of this website cheers
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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 10:49:41 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		You are getting stuck with declining people who ask for money because this is an online site and not one that asks for your money so they can hire lots of people to monitor everyone here. They do the best they can. The rest is up to us.

Life is more important than the little things. Consider the source and go live your life.

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 10:49:41 AM   
lally2


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whose giving you stick - presumably the people who are asking for tributes and not getting any - so whats the problem.

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 10:50:28 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: disabledslave90

yes i might get stick for this but i dont give a flying F this website says DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE so why is it i am getting stick for declining people who want tributes,yes you can all tell me to F off but thats fine just dont take the piss out of those who respect the rules of this website cheers
well alrighty...try this. When someone asks you for money, tell them no then block them. They can give you all the stick (stick?) they want but the c-mail will never reach you.

And btw...the website WARNS against giving money to anyone. I doubt it violates the TOS

< Message edited by sirsholly -- 12/15/2009 10:51:44 AM >

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 10:52:34 AM   
CarrieO


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Status: offline 		In the grand scheme of things, why does it matter to you if a person gets pissy because you won't give them money? 

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:00:27 AM   
MummyDomination


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Status: offline 		Disabledslave90 you are an idiot you state you dont pay money yet all you do is send message upon message to someone, who asks for a tribute or is a professional Domme, you sound so stupid to honest

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:03:38 AM   
sirsholly


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Disabledslave90 you are an idiot you state you dont pay money yet all you do is send message upon message to someone, who asks for a tribute or is a professional Domme, you sound so stupid to honest
Please lighten up. I do not think he sounds stupid at all. I think he is simply running into scammers and is tired of it.

Great first impression you are making here, hon


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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:10:13 AM   
Lockit


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MummyDomination

Disabledslave90 you are an idiot you state you dont pay money yet all you do is send message upon message to someone, who asks for a tribute or is a professional Domme, you sound so stupid to honest


Wow... calling someone names and outright rudeness... impressive. You don't play with gloves do you?

Look sweetness... the man is disabled and while most won't mention the fact, this is an opportunity I will take to do so. It is not easy to be disabled and looking for someone. I know personally what it is like. It is no easy thing. Most won't consider you because they want something different in their lives. That is the way of it... not a reason for pity or anything other than a bit of understanding and compassion.

Picking on frustrated people who are lashing out, who are disabled is rather elementary school don't you think?

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:19:17 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Wellllllllll, Lockit..........just look at the person in the photo. All of 19 and full of herself.

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:23:08 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		unless he mailed her several times and his complaining is not justified

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:30:01 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		LOL... well she has been here a full day... and she has a block button just like the rest of us.

If he is creating his own problems... I feel for him and consider that a odd twist... email them and then bitch... but nothing surprises me around here. lol

Still... he is disabled and so far hasn't broken any rules. She on the other hand... has.

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:37:47 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Sorry man... I'd hate that too! 

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:40:27 AM   
HerPaperDoll


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quote:

yes i might get stick for this but i dont give a flying F this website says DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE so why is it i am getting stick for declining people who want tributes


Stick expensive. You want stick for free? Shame...


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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:41:16 AM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		With great respect for (almost) everyone who is posting here, i dont think that the OP's disabilities should be taken into too much account....i think that if an able-bodied person of either sex posted the original post, or there were no hints of the OP's disabilities, the general tenor of responses would not be so.....forgiving.

That said, any time there are serious, helpful responses, to any OP, that can only be a good thing.

As for MD, up there....LOL. Arent you just a handful of goodness and joy. Happy Holidays and good luck with all that....

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:51:04 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

ORIGINAL: disabledslave90

yes i might get stick for this but i dont give a flying F this website says DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE so why is it i am getting stick for declining people who want tributes,yes you can all tell me to F off but thats fine just dont take the piss out of those who respect the rules of this website cheers



the disclaimers say don't send money to anyone, but they don't say don't ask for it.........so, not really rules at all, just admonishments.

Ron

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 11:54:01 AM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: disabledslave90

yes i might get stick for this but i dont give a flying F this website says DO NOT GIVE MONEY TO ANYONE so why is it i am getting stick for declining people who want tributes,yes you can all tell me to F off but thats fine just dont take the piss out of those who respect the rules of this website cheers


ds90
You may find this helpful:
http://www.collarme.com/personals/scammers.htm

I think that people who express their flaws in their profile might be more prone to the attempts of scammers.
People here who may be overweight, have low self-esteem, have a chronic illness or a a disability of some type may get hit on by scammers a bit more frequently simply because their honest descriptions can make them appear as though they could be desperate.

OP continue to use your good judgement and remember for every Ms Wrong you come across, you are one step closer to Ms. Right.

As for MD's declaration:
Thank you for expressing yourself well enough that your disabilities are so clearly defined.
I do feel truly sorry for you.

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 12/15/2009 11:56:43 AM >

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 12:10:11 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Angelika, I think you may be on to something there. Until recently when I had an actual profile that said something, I was always honest about my situation and spoke of it to some degree. I did think more than a few times that people might think I was too hungry for something and a number tried to play on that. I am sure of it. It didn't work... but that doesn't stop them from trying.

Who are the scammer's or player's here for? The hungry. Anything that can be seen as an opportunity or vulnerability... could bring  you into their range a whole lot quicker and more often.

I was afraid my post would sound like I feel disabled people deserve special treatment. I don't believe that. But... I do get a real attitude when they are picked on. lol

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 12:27:30 PM   
CarrieO


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Status: offline 		I do agree with what others are saying...that by being open about a situation or disability, a person may be opening themselves up to being used by those who are more than a little unsavory.  However, in reading the OP's profile, I have to wonder if he really is aware of how he is presenting himself by saying he's a stupid/fat/piggy who enjoys humiliation. 

If a person doesn't want to be used or abused then he needs to first consider how he expresses and presents himself to the world, simple common sense. 

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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 12:30:09 PM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MummyDomination

Disabledslave90 you are an idiot you state you dont pay money yet all you do is send message upon message to someone, who asks for a tribute or is a professional Domme, you sound so stupid to honest


If your going to call someone stupid, it's a good idea to use proper punctuation and grammar. Otherwise, you might end up being the one who looks foolish.

OP - Don't send money to anyone online. Block and ignore. They really aren't worth your time.


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RE: to everyone - 12/15/2009 12:30:13 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Ahhh then there may be more reason for this thread than it appeared! lol When will I read all profiles of posters? lol

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