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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Perhaps, if it was such large odds for him to find it, he was doing something to increase those odds. Like trailing you through those woods. Stop and consider why you found him scary before. Maybe there was good reason.

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 handsome, charming, a farmer -

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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 handsome, charming, a farmer -

*drool*

you had me at this point....what's that people said about safety?????

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ORIGINAL: lally2
what kismit?

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ORIGINAL: wisdomtogive

hi lally

Sorry i didn't get back to emailing you, I did read it. Phone work been busy :).
Oh i am so excited for you...and just keep yourself aware and take it in slow steps. don't write the ending of this yet...just let it open and explore.

i will email you when i get a chance..wanted to pull a few cards:)

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ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

Coffee is totally non-threatening and casual. I say ask him out for coffee, chat and have fun.

Either way, good luck :)

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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

Coffee is totally non-threatening and casual. I say ask him out for coffee, chat and have fun.

Either way, good luck :)

i thought what id say was 'ive often regretted turning down that drink' that way he can either shrug and say 'oh well' or he can say 'the offer is still there'

whaddya think?? subtle, non pushy, gives him room for maonoever

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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: Elizabeth666

Coffee is totally non-threatening and casual. I say ask him out for coffee, chat and have fun.

Either way, good luck :)

i thought what id say was 'ive often regretted turning down that drink' that way he can either shrug and say 'oh well' or he can say 'the offer is still there'

whaddya think?? subtle, non pushy, gives him room for maonoever

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ORIGINAL: lally2

.... and i have to share. ive told wisdomtogive, but she hasnt read my cmail yet and im bursting to share this, so please humour me

a while back, actually quite a long while back this guy strolled up to me and asked me out. he had this air about him i found a little alarming (dominant, very! i realise now) and i hadnt really sussed all of that stuff out then and had convinced myself that men like that just did me no good. i was still getting over the bust from my sons dad and so i turned him down. but ive often regretted it. handsome, charming, a farmer - lovely actually, but a bit scary to me then (not now, i know how to handle all of that stuff now.. lol)

anyhoo.....! ...., i was in my wild wood the other day and didnt realise it but my purse dropped out of my pocket (i never walk with my wallet, i remember feeling it there and thinking i should be careful not to lose it). now to say this wood is wild is to uderstate, plus i go to where only the deer and wild things roam, so its off the beaten track, infact there is no track, its just trees and undergrowth and wildness. so to lose my wallet in there (though i thought id left it at a shop or somewhere else and had spent most of last night ringing around trying to find out if someone had found it, with no luck) but to lose it in there is like losing a needle in a haystack! .

so i get a call from my uncle this morning who says this person rang up to ask if theyd lost a wallet. my aunt shares my name and ive never changed my surname and so my uncle assumes its mine and of course it is. he gave me the number of the person who found it and i rang up.

its the same guy who asked me out - what are the freaking odds. his farm is close to the wood where i clamber about, but its a wild area and the chances of him finding my wallet, him of all people, is so incredibly remote. anyway, im going over tomorrow to pick it up. i know he isnt back with his wife (theyd split when he asked me out) cos i mentioned that the church i had to pass to get to his farm was where my parents had married and hed responded ruefully that was where he'd got married and then added with a laugh 'never mind!'

i know its him but i didnt say so and im pretty sure he doesnt know its me though, when we talked on the phone there was something in his voice that seemed like maybe he did. so...., do i go dolled up, should i be coy and wait for him to ask me out and if he doesnt should i ask him. maybe he wont want to now, maybe he's met someone, but i didnt get that impression. how would you guys play this??????

im just so amazed how fate has kicked in here. we sort of bumped into each other in a supermarket a few months back i was with a friend at the time and i introduced them, he seemed really pleased to see me and hovered about a bit, but i think my friend being there put him off.

well, ill keep you posted. thanks for letting me share.

edited to add: of course he might be very nilla with no interest in bdsm stuff atall or Ds or anything else like that - but i cant help feeling theres more to him than meets the naked eye. oh well, its a bit of fun if nothing else but.., he delivered me some hay back then when he was pursuing me and his personality was so Dom it really put me off... lol. id just left a Dom, it was the last thing i wanted right then, funnily enough.

i know im coming across as some desparate saddo, im not atall, i just find this whole catalogue of coincidences really amazing

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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

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 handsome, charming, a farmer -

*drool*

you had me at this point....what's that people said about safety?????

giggle)) - he has deep brown eyes, like chocolate. ive been having all sorts of fantasies about it all day - but the guys are right i guess need to get a grip (a bit)