RE: Romantic bondage

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Romantic bondage

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Romantic bondage

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Romantic bondage - 10/13/2009 3:03:38 PM

DavanKael

Posts: 3072
Joined: 10/6/2007
Status: offline

So, I just popped up your profile for a sec and you open noting your love of words. So, part of what comes readily to mind for some romantic bondage stuff involves speech restiction on her part and minimal usage of words/commands on your part. This makes each word significant. Add to this blindfolding her as it alters the weight each sense is given. I like the idea of a dinner where the light is provided by candles (The heat of which she will feel and the scent of wax will also be present. Incidentally, if you're going to use those candles for waxplay, Shabbat candles are unscented paraffin and have a low melt point and no added fragrances that can irritate. They're also quite inexpensive). Something about the sensuality of feeding her/giving her drink, commanding her to open her mouth, etc. strikes me as cool at this moment. Perhaps her arms could be restricted to the chair in a way so that she has to rely on you entirely.
As the evening progresses, I would layer the sensory input, adding as an example: music (I love middle eastern electronica for such things but anything with a heavy bass beat is fantastic). I favor the sense of enfolding/being enfolded.
You can add many ideas to this construct.
Best wishes,
Davan

_____________________________

May you live as long as you wish & love as long as you live
-Robert A Heinlein

It's about the person & the bond,not the bondage
-Me

Waiting is

170NZ (Aka:Sex God Du Jour) pts

Jesus,I've ALWAYS been a deviant
-Leadership527,Jeff

(in reply to Domitianus)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: Romantic bondage - 10/13/2009 8:30:02 PM

Hierodule

Posts: 597
Joined: 9/22/2009
Status: offline

"Damsel in distress" role play games are romantic to me so is "princess in the castle". Maybe you could be both her captor and her hero. Anything that makes me feel like my escape is being prevented with bondage because I am so desirable that my captor MUST keep me is very romantic to me. But maybe I am misunderstanding your question.

(in reply to IronBear)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: Romantic bondage - 10/14/2009 8:05:06 AM

Andalusite

Posts: 2492
Joined: 1/25/2009
Status: offline

There are a lot of romantic things you can do while she is bound, but a slightly more literal approach might be to bind her with her arms crossed and hands fisted, which is the sign for "love" ( http://christyhulsey.wordpress.com/2008/07/06/how-to-sign-i-love-you-in-baby-sign-language ) or with her hands or arms forming a heart.

(in reply to Hierodule)

Profile

Post #: 23