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Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 12:41:11 AM   
scribeofclio


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Status: offline 		So. Here's the deal. I'm a *hopeless* romantic. I'm also deeply into tying my girlfriend up and, well, yes. Any one have any ideas for sort of romantic bondage/play situations? I'm really into eye contact play, for example.
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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 2:17:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm... well what does "romantic" mean to you exactly?

Like, tie her up at the dinner table and then feed her a nice romantic dinner?

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 2:25:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Tie her up with lots of eye contact. Seems like you answered your own question :p

If you're asking us what you find romantic, we probably won't be able to help you.


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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 3:03:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, take into account that I'm new around here but I think I know what you're talking about. See if you can find some velvet ropes (or other soft material).  Have the nice dinner with her but THEN progress into the bondage. Take her to the bedroom and tie her with velvet and then use something soft to stimulate her skin. I would also suggest that you get a vibrator to use on her while you lay beside her looking into her eyes and kiss her. This not only adds romance to your love making, but also allows you to see her reactions to the different kinds of stimulation too. Hope this helps.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 3:16:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: coolnerdinsc
Ok, take into account that I'm new around here


Hey first post.  Welcome to the forums dude.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 5:28:55 AM   
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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 5:55:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: coolnerdinsc

Ok, take into account that I'm new around here but I think I know what you're talking about. See if you can find some velvet ropes (or other soft material).  Have the nice dinner with her but THEN progress into the bondage. Take her to the bedroom and tie her with velvet and then use something soft to stimulate her skin. I would also suggest that you get a vibrator to use on her while you lay beside her looking into her eyes and kiss her. This not only adds romance to your love making, but also allows you to see her reactions to the different kinds of stimulation too. Hope this helps.

mmm....very nice!


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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 5:59:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Try roses (to touch or stimulate her) and rose petals scattered all around her skin while she's bound.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 6:02:14 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: coolnerdinsc

Ok, take into account that I'm new around here but I think I know what you're talking about. See if you can find some velvet ropes (or other soft material).  Have the nice dinner with her but THEN progress into the bondage. Take her to the bedroom and tie her with velvet and then use something soft to stimulate her skin. I would also suggest that you get a vibrator to use on her while you lay beside her looking into her eyes and kiss her. This not only adds romance to your love making, but also allows you to see her reactions to the different kinds of stimulation too. Hope this helps.



A nice candle lit dinner works.  Of course the tapered candle(s) should be inserted in whatever orifices are available. Her body could be used as the dinner plate as you feed her.  A blindfold on her works well also.


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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 7:34:56 AM   
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Sometimes people focus on all the candles and flowers and such..when they talk about romance but it means also focussing on your girl and give her all attention.
You can buy a million red roses...but if you don't pay attention to her....it will still suck

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 7:53:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Definitely not the time for painful bondage. Something she can easily sink into and then soft music, nice candles, comfortable bondage. Feed her chocolate dipped strawberries, lick ice cream off her nipples, rub edible oils into her available skin. Lots of whole body stroking because the entire skin can be used to provide sensation.

Keep reminding her to open her eyes and look into yours when hers drift shut. Make her keep her eyes open as she orgasms. Remember to keep the leg ropes just loose enough for you to slip a finger down to rub her clit if they're tied shut.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 7:56:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		Music, classical - pick a piece you know, and use it to establish a rhythm - it'll give you something to smile about when you hear that piece again.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 7:59:58 AM   
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Music, classical - use it to establish a rhythm
Amaros
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to rub her clit
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classic music suddenly sounds great

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 8:27:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Doesn't have to be classical, some of those pieces are kinda long, but on the other hand, Three minute pop songs are too short - an alternative is picking albums or putting together playlists for different moods.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 8:50:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm the wrong one to ask. To me, any bondage is inherently romantic. But I'm just mushy that way.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 9:10:35 AM   
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Find a silk scarf, preferably long and tease her with it; drag it over her skin in long strokes and do this slowly and everywhere...do not forget the insides of her arms.



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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 10:57:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Try some sensualist play...a steel shackle on one ankle, or a satin or silk scarf binding a single ankle to the foot of the bed. I say one and not two because at least for me, when I'm being touched I want to touch back. Even if my touch is limited to running my foot up the side of my lover's body, I don't want to feel like I'm just having things done *to* me.

Blindfolds help increase sensations. Maybe take off your panties and gag her with them, using a soft scarf to hold them in place. Contrast is pretty cool too, put her in lace lingerie and cold steel shackles. Candlelight always makes things lovely, just don't take a scented candle from the shops for wax play because it has a higher melt temperature than actual wax play candles.

Personally I'm really into roleplaying, stuff like two rival spies, you catch her and tie her up to get a secret out of her but end up so distracted by her beauty you offer to let her go if she pleases you. For me at least romance isn't about certain set things but about a general feeling in the air - a feeling of love, beauty and passion. If you know how to seduce her, it's just a skip and a jump to seducing her with bondage involved.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/10/2009 11:08:09 AM   
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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/13/2009 2:07:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bind her before a full length mirror so you can maintain eye contact with her even from behind her...and savor her reactions to your ministrations.

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RE: Romantic bondage - 10/13/2009 2:45:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Tie her across the dinner table and use her naked body as the base for laying a sumptuous feast which you can eat off her without the use of cutlery. I know where I like to place the bananas and cream though.. 

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