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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 7:24:41 AM

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I have tons of extra! I'll lend you some! I'd love to get rid of at least a third of it. Its so long and thick.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 7:40:51 AM

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OP, your post is about hair control and your title is about hair punishment. I'm confused....

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 7:57:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: xoxkittenxox

I have tons of extra! I'll lend you some! I'd love to get rid of at least a third of it. Its so long and thick.

~c'huckles~ thanks. Given your age though, I'd either have to color it gray or color the rest of my hair to match yours. Hmmmmmmmmmmm...

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 9:05:50 AM

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When we met my hair was VERY short and while he didn't demand that I grow it out, he did comment that he preferred long hair so it can be put in a ponytail & used as a handle.

I was much the same - though my hair wasn't VERY short when I met JR, probably just above shoulder length. He never insisted that I grow it longer, but as it grew a little he often commented that he liked it that way, and another few inches would be perfect. So, I now keep it about 6 inches past my shoulders, and both of us enjoy the fact that he can use it as a handle with or without it being in a ponytail at the time. He still does this mock horrified reaction every time I get even the ends trimmed though, lol.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 9:09:24 AM

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The first pic he ever saw of me I had very short hair. I have crazy wild hair now, the perpetual "just laid" look. Lately he's been mentioning how much he likes that haircut I had. He'd never offer a preference either way. I enjoy the fact that is it finally down my back, so I think I'll keep it for awhile. Plus...nothing better than a good hair pulling during sex.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 9:26:45 AM

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Most men that I talk to very much like my long hair as something to hold onto, reins, if you will (lol) during the heat of passion. I think they would probably prefer something else as "punishment" since I think it would hurt them as much as it would hurt me.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 10:14:29 AM

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I do know there are certain aspects of a woman's hair and styling that do bother me---the woman who wears her hair long and yet never does anything with it or the woman who wears her hair long and puts it up for work and down for after-work but never any "styling" to it or adornment of some sort. .

I resemble that remark. But honestly I don't have any skills. I french braided my daughter's hair once for a horse show. Took all night with the book of directions and illustrations in front of me. I can stick a decorative bobby pin or comb in it but that's the limit of my styling ability.

We're not born with innate hairdressing skills and some of us never learn them.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 10:28:49 AM

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I do know there are certain aspects of a woman's hair and styling that do bother me---the woman who wears her hair long and yet never does anything with it or the woman who wears her hair long and puts it up for work and down for after-work but never any "styling" to it or adornment of some sort. .

I resemble that remark. But honestly I don't have any skills. I french braided my daughter's hair once for a horse show. Took all night with the book of directions and illustrations in front of me. I can stick a decorative bobby pin or comb in it but that's the limit of my styling ability.

We're not born with innate hairdressing skills and some of us never learn them.

That sounds exactly like me. I wear my hair long because I like how it looks long and down. It makes me feel sexy. Sometimes I'll wear a headband, decorative clip or put my hair up with fancy-smanchy hairsticks but I am just as likely to use a colored pencil. Actually, often more likely because someone told me they thought it was sexy when I did that and that got stuck in my head somehow.

Honestly, from what I have seen and experienced, shorter but still longish hair is much easier to work with than my long locks.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 11:28:37 AM

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My partner has pretty specific preferences for my hair. Some of you guys know that when I met my partner he was a complete BDSM virgin. Interestingly enough, as he began experimenting with what it meant to have a relationship like this, my hair was the first thing that he made a rule about. (And no, my hair wasn't horrible before!) I am growing it out for him. He prefers it almost a foot longer than I do (I like it about chin length). Since I can't cut it, I like to color it from time to time, but I always check with him first and tell him what I'd like to do. He has veto power. I joke to my hairdresser that he spends more time looking at me than I do. But the reality is that every time I run my fingers through my hair or see my reflection in a mirror or window, I think of him.

For some women, their hair is much a part of their image...their identity even. For me it's a little bit of a head trip to let him own that. I like it.

That being said, I'm glad he doesn't want to shave my head or anything.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 11:37:06 AM

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My partner absolutely adores long hair. I tease him on occasion about getting a nice little pixie cut or something, but his sad and sometimes scary no's quickly deters me from any further ribbing on the matter. I probably wouldn't cut it anyway. I wasn't allow to keep my long hair as a kid, so in total rebellion I just insist upon it now. This makes him happy of course.

Any changes that I want to make to my hair have to go through him. I have wanted several changes that he has, in fact, denied me. I wanted to change the color and get it curled one time and he was none too thrilled by that idea. A few other things have gotten the flat disapproval as well. The one thing that always gets a positive response? Asking to get the ends trimmed so it will grow even longer. LOL

As for style, I am more one for letting it flow free or be put up with very little in the way of extras. I tend to kids all day and keep house. Most of my days just aren't fancy ones. If the need is there and the situation is appropriate, I will fix up more and enjoy doing so. As for my time with my partner, he has a certain style he prefers and also likes fixing my hair that way himself. I just arrive for a visit with my hair clean, neatly brushed, and flowing free. He will take care of the rest. At least at this point, given our distance, it serves as a kind of marking off point where our time begins and the rest of the world ends. I am sure that will change over time when our circumstances do. Right now, though, it is the primary means of having me drop squarely into his hands right from the start.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 11:37:17 AM

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im loving the hair punishment , mostly, would have to kill Him if He cut it. (that didnt sound very subbie of me, much less slave BWHAHWHAHAHWHAHA)

Sorry Master and yes im back in my corner.......................

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 12:02:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant
I do know there are certain aspects of a woman's hair and styling that do bother me---the woman who wears her hair long and yet never does anything with it or the woman who wears her hair long and puts it up for work and down for after-work but never any "styling" to it or adornment of some sort. .

I resemble that remark. But honestly I don't have any skills. I french braided my daughter's hair once for a horse show. Took all night with the book of directions and illustrations in front of me. I can stick a decorative bobby pin or comb in it but that's the limit of my styling ability.

We're not born with innate hairdressing skills and some of us never learn them.

A decorative bobby pin or comb is better than doing nothing...ever.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 12:51:25 PM

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My darling tam,

"hair punishment"?

As in cutting her hair to punish her?

Gasp! I'm a hair puller!!!!!
Gasp! That would be like shooting myself in the foot!
Gasp! That would be like handing tam my flogger!
Gasp! That would be like making her not wear high heels!

Hmmm...I actually only need a hand ful tam.
So, I suppose it can be done. But a bit tricky...how much is a handful?
One needs a large handful in the caged damsel in distress scene than when One is simply giving you light kisses on the neck at 3am in the morning.

Best drop this train of thought right here...

Arturas the Dom bastard.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 7:13:09 PM

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Er um... if anyone has any extra, i could use some of it. I dunno. I turned around one day and most of it was gone :)

(I know where it is.....it's in my shower drain).

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/29/2009 8:54:30 PM

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I have tailbone length hair, and I wear it in a bun nearly constantly.

Why?
Because it is thick and straight, and when down....it slithers onto the keyboard and helps me type. It obligingly dunks itself in my dinner and gives me an end treatment of marinara sauce. It puts itself into the dishpan when I'm doing dishes. It wraps itself round my neck and tries to strangle me while I sleep. So I take it down pretty much only twice a day to brush it, and once a week to wash it, and when I want to torment someone with it or just enjoy having sex. (But I make a rule that when I get on the bottom, I have a satin pillowcase under my head. Otherwise my partner gets to comb out the resulting mat.)

Another few inches, and I'll wear it in crown braids as a daily thing, instead of a bun. Probably I'll be there by the middle of winter. I like having long hair, and my husband likes me to have long hair, and I enjoy wearing it down at a play party and watching the glazed male submissive stares.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/30/2009 5:26:12 AM

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Alexandra, I've never heard of anyone else who has woken up choking, strangled by their own hair! Horrible feeling to be attacked by your own hair.

At that point I cut off four inches. And I'm just about ready for the yearly four to six inches need to come off now.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/30/2009 9:07:12 AM

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okay i must confess i love hair tugging. but there are days when i want some short and sweet that doesn't take as much effort. mine is presently past the bottom of my shoulder blades. i don't think i'll let it reach the center of my back. if it were up to me i'd wear a killer short bob instead. but the rein pulling is fabu!

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/30/2009 12:12:02 PM

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We don't use the clippers as a form of punishment tool, our dynamic works without physical or emotional punishment.

That said, Andy does use the clippers on me, them and a hearty pair of scissors beforehand, and he has deliberately not been too careful about keeping stray hair from creeping down my back and making me squirm. Hard to do, staying still throughout, but you manage it when someone else has the power to make you badly bald!

If we did role play i am sure i could make a decent go of playing the poor soul parted from her hair for collaborating with the Germans in wartime France! Don't go a bundle on the thought of being tarred and feathered.

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RE: Hair Punishment - 9/30/2009 12:16:55 PM

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My darling tam,

"hair punishment"?

As in cutting her hair to punish her?

Gasp! I'm a hair puller!!!!!
Gasp! That would be like shooting myself in the foot!
Gasp! That would be like handing tam my flogger!
Gasp! That would be like making her not wear high heels!

Hmmm...I actually only need a hand ful tam.
So, I suppose it can be done. But a bit tricky...how much is a handful?
One needs a large handful in the caged damsel in distress scene than when One is simply giving you light kisses on the neck at 3am in the morning.

Best drop this train of thought right here...

Arturas the Dom bastard.

WOOAAAHH! i meant i love the hair pulling and stuff, the idea of the control on the hair... YOU did get that part of having to kill You if You cut it, right??????? smiles and thank You, You made me laugh!!! a big friendly *SNORT*

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