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Elipsis -> So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 2:23:00 AM)

I think somewhere it was written that suggesting a fetish on the Internet causes it to come into existence.

Anyway, not to say it's not already out there, but purely out of curiosity I was talking with a friend today and I can honestly say this is one type of pain that I've never heard anyone talk about being into: that disgusting feeling you get after you overeat or force food.

That really shitty "I don't even want to move and my stomach hurts" kind of pain.  I've never heard a masochist tell me "I really want to force down 20 hot dogs so I can masturbate to the pain of feeling sick to my stomach."  Are these people out there?  Has anybody ever even heard of this?  Do masochists exist that want to be tied down and force fed?

Just some food for thought. (*groan*)



hopelesslyInvo -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 3:42:24 AM)

there is of course vore fantasies, inflation, and ingestion fetishes, i've even seen a number of gaining weight fetishes and such.

a lot of it's pure fantasy where people are free to go overboard and other people who are pretty realistic about things and do things like seeing how many bottles of water they can drink at once in an effort to get the 'oh god my stomach' thing going on~



allthatjaz -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 5:12:05 AM)

I think its probably just an excuse to overeat than a fetish.
I could say I have a fetish for going out and spending money or a fetish for laying in bed all day and watching movies.



thishereboi -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 6:52:49 AM)

The closest thing that I have ever heard of is enema play, where they put different things in it, to cause gas and bloating. I can't speak from personal experience because there is no way in hell I am going to let someone do that to me. But the people who talk about it say its just a wonderful feeling.



sirsholly -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 6:54:03 AM)

quote:

That really shitty "I don't even want to move and my stomach hurts" kind of pain.
that is an awful feeling [:'(]



happylittlepet -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 6:57:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elipsis

I think somewhere it was written that suggesting a fetish on the Internet causes it to come into existence.



In general, when I start to express my thoughts verbally (I don't know if typing is as powerful a 'voice'), action will follow sooner than when I don't express my thoughts. Words are powerful, both in positive and negative ways.
When we start to tell our friends/family about plans we have, we are one step closer in making those plans reality, because we open the door for them to ask us how those plans are coming along. Also, with 'voicing' a plan, in a way, I 'call it into existence', however small it might initially be.

With regard to 'fetish' I agree with allthatjazz.



DesFIP -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 7:12:03 AM)

I thought the fetish was not the people overeating but the one forcing them to who gets turned on by it.



allthatjaz -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 7:26:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I thought the fetish was not the people overeating but the one forcing them to who gets turned on by it.


Yes thats what I have heard too. I have also heard that some sub males like a very large woman that they can constantly feed and pamper..... a bit like a drone bee to a queen bee.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 7:36:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I think its probably just an excuse to overeat than a fetish.
I could say I have a fetish for going out and spending money or a fetish for laying in bed all day and watching movies.


(I thought I was alone in that!)



SomethingCatchy -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 8:05:20 AM)

Mmm This is making me hungry...



Missokyst -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 8:34:14 AM)

Isn't that called a foodie?
I see them advertised sometimes on our craigslist pages.  It is a fetish, not just spoiling some fat subject by giving them food, but filling them until discomfort and pain. 



lovingpet -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 8:38:37 AM)

This could happen in a feeder/feedee relationship, but those in and of themselves are fairly uncommon anyway and the masochism of enjoying that full feeling sexually is probably even rarer, but it is all within the scope of human experience I am sure.

lovingpet



rideemwet -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 10:32:48 AM)

Well, I've never really had a masochistic side but do have some grasp of the pain/pleasure threshold/mix.. 

I also have illeocolitis and have had a foot of small intestine removed when it reached the point of not allowing solid food to pass.  Gut pain is absolute misery in my book, ugh, nothing about that sounds even remotely enticing.    Pure torture.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 12:30:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I thought the fetish was not the people overeating but the one forcing them to who gets turned on by it.


It would appear, on the web...there's something for everyone:

http://www.gordos.org/30english/20spanish/12listados/7feeders.html

http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/dimtext/Forum/whatisafeeder.html

and then there's this one:

http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/dimtext/Forum/body_building.html

and....last but not least....

http://www.feedafatty.com/updates.html

(I'm suddenly feeling anorexic...)



tsatske -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 12:50:35 PM)

Feeder Doms are one of my very few, strait out of the box, we don't even have to talk about it, hard limits.

But, a feeder Dom here on CM gave me my all time favorite 'Idoit quote of the year', and I refer to it often :)

He wrote me to express interest. I read His profile - He was a feeder Dom, that was His main kink.

I wrote Him back and said, 'we have hard limit issues. This would not be a match'

He wrote back and said, 'I will tell you what your hard limits are.'

LOLOL



LookieNoNookie -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 1:02:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske

Feeder Doms are one of my very few, strait out of the box, we don't even have to talk about it, hard limits.

But, a feeder Dom here on CM gave me my all time favorite 'Idoit quote of the year', and I refer to it often :)

He wrote me to express interest. I read His profile - He was a feeder Dom, that was His main kink.

I wrote Him back and said, 'we have hard limit issues. This would not be a match'

He wrote back and said, 'I will tell you what your hard limits are.'

LOLOL

I had a chic email me from CM after our having IM'd once (ONCE!) telling me I was to "from this point forward address (her) as 'Ma'am' at ALL times".

I emailed her back explaining, I didn't know her first name, favorite color, or for that matter...her freaking area code and that if she anticipated any future interest in getting to know me "well enough to even entertain such a moniker (she'd) better back the fuck off of this ridiculous approach right fucking now".

Funny thing....I never did hear back from her hahahahaha.

(Here's your sign).



subtlebutterfly -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 1:11:59 PM)

How nice it would be if I'd..stop thinking about my diet...eat marshmallows all night long....and pizza....brownies....and candy..oh dont forget the snacks..
and more marshmallows..by the fire

right now I'm feeling jealous of that lifestyle[:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(][:(]



porcelaine -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 2:31:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elipsis

That really shitty "I don't even want to move and my stomach hurts" kind of pain.  I've never heard a masochist tell me "I really want to force down 20 hot dogs so I can masturbate to the pain of feeling sick to my stomach."  Are these people out there?  Has anybody ever even heard of this?  Do masochists exist that want to be tied down and force fed?



forced feeding and starvation fetishes do exist. there are dominants and submissives that practice both. while i can't speak on the force feeding end because i'd never go for that in a million years. i do know that many of the players on the starvation side are what they term eating disorder people by choice. as the latter is probably going to be more appealing to someone with anorexia, bulimia, or a person that may aspire towards such extremes for weight loss purposes.

the purpose of both i'm told is like many other fetishes, maintaining and relinquishing control. there are serious health concerns of course and the possibility of doing some physical damage as well, which can be argued for other practices too. however, it seems the gains far outweigh the risks for its proponents. while you might not see it on cm, i have seen them advertised on other fetish sites.

porcelaine



porcelaine -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 2:36:14 PM)

the term for anorexics is pro-ana. there's quite a bit of information available on the phenomenon. i do recall oprah doing a special years ago about this. it would seem it has seeped into bdsm circles as well. i have encountered profiles before and i'm not opposed per se, because these are adults. on the other hand it is very sad and leaves one to wonder who's the more fucked up portion of the pairing.

porcelaine



GoddessImaginos -> RE: So here's one I've never heard of... (9/20/2009 2:38:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

the term for anorexics is pro-ana. there's quite a bit of information available on the phenomenon. i do recall oprah doing a special years ago about this. it would seem it has seeped into bdsm circles as well. i have encountered profiles before and i'm not opposed per se, because these are adults. on the other hand it is very sad and leaves one to wonder who's the more fucked up portion of the pairing.

porcelaine



Wow. Just.. wow. [&:]



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