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RE: Master/slave just kink? - 8/19/2009 5:15:21 AM

spookyfe

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my master is also my lover but we dont really go in for vanilla sex on its own it all mezrges.

first we connected then we got to know eeach other as soon as we went to make love we knew it would be as master sub. 6 months later i am now his slave his is my master, we are deeply in love and connected. so yes you can. in every aspect we are M/s and is not hard work or tiring or any of those things i have read about being ful time 24/7 M/s

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RE: Master/slave just kink? - 8/22/2009 9:17:03 PM

Acer49

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I am in a Master/slave relationship. Is it normal or ok to want the vanilla side to it as well? Is it crazy to say I want a courtship in there as well? I don't feel right looking for a vanilla "boyfriend" but I think I need that in my life too. Am I being silly?

What you need to do is ask the individual who you are in a relationship with. There is no such thing as normal it is all about preference, some the preferences are embraced by many, others are not, either way, all are all ok. It is fine to seek one who is able to meet all of your needs whether or not you find that someone is another story. Are you being silly? Are you? Only you can answer that

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RE: Master/slave just kink? - 8/22/2009 9:28:18 PM

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I don't tend to separate my life into the vanilla side and the kinky side. Some behaviors are acceptable for some settings and some are not. The same is true of my needs. I would not consider embarking on relationship with a man who I did not believe was capable of meeting my needs. Choosing wisely can save one a whole world of heartache later on. I learned that the hard way, as do most people.

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RE: Master/slave just kink? - 8/22/2009 9:45:59 PM

porcelaine

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quote:

ORIGINAL: silver1977

I am in a Master/slave relationship. Is it normal or ok to want the vanilla side to it as well? Is it crazy to say I want a courtship in there as well? I don't feel right looking for a vanilla "boyfriend" but I think I need that in my life too. Am I being silly?

not at all. it isn't as if you relate this way all the time. normal day to day things must be discussed and done. for what its worth, balanced relationships generally last longer. i think wanting the package is both mature and realistic. best of luck in your search.

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