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Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 9:19:29 AM   
mixielicous


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Status: offline 		Oh boy am I dreading that dang vanilla cone! I was here a while back and have since returned out of, surprise, curiosity.

Anyways, a semi off topic query.

I am dating a very naturally dominant man. I know he has not ventured into "BDSM" realm or M/s/D/s other than stereotypical sexual exploration for a man in his mid twenties. We have fallen into a very natural D/s rhythm, more than I ever accomplished with my Master a few years ago, and its all unspoken (amazing).

Anyways, all that background for a very silly (and cute) question!

When can I cook him dinner?!!


I only have for a man one other time, and he was the "chef" so I never really had an opportunity. Since I had parted ways with him though, I took many cooking "lessons" with me and I am dying to try them out on a man! Particularly, this Man.

Thanks for your insight :)




Edit to add, Look!! no cone! I deleted my account, but I guess it didnt cross onto the message boards! hurrah :)


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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 9:20:40 AM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 9:22:26 AM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 9:22:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would quietly find out the sorta shit he likes to eat first.....sneak it out of him.
I would then sorta put it together, when he comes to see you after work (its not like he is not going to do that)

or if you know he is going to spend the night, and you can have it ready reasonably quickly.........fuck his brains out and then make dinner...........hell maybe he comes just hearing mac and cheese.

You still live by the library?   Good to see you again.  Hope you took all the lead outta your face.

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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:01:02 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:03:07 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:11:19 PM   
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They came, they ate, they never wanted to leave.


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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:21:09 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:27:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		When can you cook him dinner?

I don't know but you can cook for me anytime.

Seriously, has he not been over to your place yet? Have you not been over to his? I recomend either a meaty pasta or something with wild rice. You want foods filled with energy versus something that will over fill you and make you both to tired to do anything. So think of using low fat items and lean meats. Dessert should include something that's lite, sweet, and creamy enough to play with. I suggest chocolate coated strawberries and whip cream.

I'm sure you can cook for him when you say "Hey, I want to cook dinner. If you like it, dessert will be suprise for you to taste later. It'll be something creamy for you to add sprinkles on." 

Good luck. I hope he's everything you want, need, and more.

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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:34:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

When can I cook him dinner?!!



Anytime. 

I would suggest inviting him over for dinner and a rented DVD. 

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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:36:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Give the boy a plate of mac and cheese, fling him down on the couch, put on espn,  hand him the remote, and just start num num numing him.

He will think that is the beast pheasant under glass he has ever had.



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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 12:39:40 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 1:20:05 PM   
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sandwiches- throw in fruits and vegas-  some type of produce.  it is too hot too cook.



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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 2:21:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		As i'm a good cook and didnt know what he liked to start with. I sent a list of meals he could pick from, sods law hit me and he wanted chicken kievs, that meant boning a chicken etc.

Basically offer to cook when you are ready to have him in your home, then give him a choice of food that isnt going to take all your skills to produce. I can bone a chicken, sure he still only picked that thinking i couldnt.

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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 2:32:46 PM   
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Beef Strogonoff.

1lb of cubed beef, 1 onion, mushrooms to taste. chop, brown, lob in casserole dish. add 1/2 bottle of dry white wine to juices left in original pan. heat add salt and pepper. throw over meat. leave in oven at 180 for an hour. add single cream 10 mins before serving.

can serve with potatoes, rice or pasta.

Oh and if play gets in the way, turn oven down to 140. lol

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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 4:37:05 PM   
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In this heat?



Africans don't seem to be put off by the heat.


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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 4:49:03 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 6:18:13 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 6:21:07 PM   
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RE: Cooking Dinner - 8/14/2009 6:40:36 PM   
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Indeed.

Meat, it does a body good.


I don't know about that, according to the recipe you only cook it at 180 for an hour. In that case it might do a body real sick.

to the OP...You can cook him dinner just as soon as you work up the courage to ask him over. Hope it works out well for both of you.

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