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Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 6:53:24 AM   
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So I just got back from Thunder in the Mountains, in Denver this past weekend.  My first big conference and I just wanted to post a few thoughts about it from a newbie perspective. 

First, there is nothing better for the soul than surrounding yourself with 500+ other folk who think and feel like you do.  I was very nervous at first (especially because I was dressed en'femme), but quickly got very comfortable.  There was an energy at the conference that was pansexual, accepting, and friendly.   Very good for the soul.

Second, a 36,000 sqft dungeon with more than a hundred play stations, crosses, benches, and like 30 high suspension points, a full sized junglegym, interrogation space, male and female only play areas...wow...then you put 500+ kinky people in that space...so much to watch, so much to learn, so much to oggle and squick at!    I got to see some of the best singletail, flogging, piercing, fireplay, shibari, and cheesewiz and raw bacon and clowns and more things done with a pool noodle than I care to detail out here in polite company!    The energy is amazing, the play spactacular, and opportunities to socialize, learn, and simply admire abound.

Third, there are the sessions.  All I can say is wow!  We attended a shibari class taught by Tony Buff and Derek da Silva that was excellent - and they are just yummy to look at!   Two sessions (Decorative Bloodsports and Metal Bondage (also featuring Boymeat)) by Lolita Wolf who was just histerical and so engaged and geeky and full of delight in the subjects she taught...and the pain she inflicted.  A session called Breaking the Mold with Fifth Angel and his wife where he did a scene dressed in a full clown suit...a very sadistic clown named Sparky...  And a session on Aftercare for the Dominant by Sir Top and slave bonnie, two very energetic and engaging body specialists who also run Beyond Leather in Florida.    And those are just the ones we got too!  There were sessions on everything from fisting to fire play to clingwrap to sounding and more! 

Fourth, there is the vendor area.  30 vendors selling everything from rope, to whips to corsets, jewelry, canes, leather goods, and chocolate honey!  Again, something for nearly everyone, and so much to see for a relative newbie.

Fifth and finally, there are the people.  We know a lot of folk all round the front range and this was a great opportunity to see them and spend time together.  We also got to meet Lady Pact and Mister P61 on their crosscountry journey to their new home in CA and that was incredibly special! 

So...I can highly recommend these conferences!  Thunder seemed to me to be extremely well run and organized and I just learned and saw so much!  If you are new, or experienced in the scene - save your pennies and go! 

I know there have to be other really well run and fun conferences around the country, and frankly the world - there is probably something run at least once a year within driving distance of nearly everyone.  Please, post your experiences here with those conferences and let's talk about the plusses and minuses of large BDSM conferences! 

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 7:05:24 AM   
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I am so glad to hear you enjoyed Thunder! A few of my friends, some who vended and one who has presented at Thunder before, went. I wasn't able to go.......pouts........but it is definitely in my plans to do if not next year, the year after.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:33:32 AM   
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my first conference was Dom-con in Atlanta, not as big as thunder but it was a great thing to experience for the first time. the vendors selling lots of cool stuff and the presenters were very cool, but the play party after is defiantly the best. i would highly recommend to any level of kinkster to attend a conference and enjoy the fun.
hi otterswim from Afghanistan >:D<

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:40:29 AM   
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Mine was Tribal Fire in Oklahoma. I definitely agree with LPslittleclip on the recommendation.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:42:09 AM   
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YAYAYAYYAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For Tribal Fire

Kinky Karnival in KS is a fun one too!!

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:46:46 AM   
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~grins~ oh yeah, this year's TF was my first, went with friends who vended there and had a blast. Missed KK but hopefully next year. I could have been a demo bottom had I been able to go to this year's.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:48:05 AM   
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See? We should have switched :P

I dident get to go to Tribal this year, but KK was SO much fun!!! The pridiciment bondage class was full of awesome.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:52:41 AM   
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Sunnyfey, lol but if I hadn't gone to Tribal Fire, I wouldn't have gotten to be a human candle.

Lpslittleclip, please stay safe over there. My oldest stepson just got there very recently and is MP.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:53:25 AM   
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A human candle? Thats sexy

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 9:02:19 AM   
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It was great! Felt fantastic and I was covered in several different colors of wax with the candles themselves attached at various points making me literally wax myself.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 9:04:27 AM   
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WOWS!!!!!!!! I HAVE to try that!

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 9:10:19 AM   
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Oh yeah, you definitely do!!! There aren't words good enough to describe it!

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 9:19:46 AM   
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quote:

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hi otterswim from Afghanistan >:D<


Hello Clip!  You have a marvelous Lady and it was so great to meet her and hear about you!  Be safe over there and come back soon!  You and those like you honor us all with your service. 


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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 9:22:34 AM   
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*waves hi at clip* 

Sounds like fun,  Otters!  I'm so glad you had fun!


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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 10:01:26 AM   
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I have been to a couple of large conferences but the one I have enjoyed most was SouthWest Leather (SLC) as it is big on both relationship skills and spirituality.   I am NOT overly spiritual but that conference got to me.  When my dear friends Master Rick and slave Tina did one of their relationship classes I cried my eyes out and if anyone gets a chance to see them present, don't miss it.    Each of the conferences have their own flavor, some are more about play, others about poly, and as I said, SLC is one that many presenters say if they could only choose one to attend, that would be the one.

I saw a number of collarme regulars their but I can't mention their names because that would violate confidentiality but they were there in force!

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 10:22:01 AM   
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Vicious Valentine, in Chicago (I don't know if they're even still doing it).   That was AWESOME!!  the energy was amazing... 



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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:05:20 PM   
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I have to say that, to date, I have not been disappointed in any of the large conferences that I've attended.  Thunder being My most recent (of course) but I've also been SELF (South East LeatherFest) for the past three years and the last two DomCons in Atlanta.  Like Otters put in the outline, these conferences can have appeal for just about everyone in one form or another. 

For those who didn't go, I do have to say that this year's Thunder was excellent!  Syr Top and slave bonnie outdid themselves.  I was able to attend both presentations that they gave.  Please, if you ever have the opportunity, catch one of their classes.  I wish I could convey how wonderful all of the seminars were and I couldn't sing their praises enough.

A lot of times, people hear the word "leather" associated with a large conference and think it's not for them.  My question back to you would be, if you've never tried, how do you know?  You might just get a pleasant surprise.


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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 8:18:27 PM   
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A lot of times, people hear the word "leather" associated with a large conference and think it's not for them.  My question back to you would be, if you've never tried, how do you know?  You might just get a pleasant surprise.
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I so have to agree, LadyPact. Tribal Fire is leather and my experience there was awesome. The courtesy and friendliness of the people there was outstanding, not to mention the fantastic classes and getting to have lunch with a well known author of several bdsm books. I am hoping to attend next year's as well. It was an excellent first major event for me. You don't have to be leather to attend and thoroughly enjoy a leather event.

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/21/2009 11:08:30 PM   
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The Master, Slave Conference near Washington D.C. is coming up in September. We went last year, but can't make it this year. Everyone should try a BDSM camping trip.

http://www.masterslaveconference.org/

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RE: Large BDSM Conferences - 7/22/2009 4:31:03 AM   
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Because they've been mentioned, Sir Top and slavebonnie attend and present at these events nation wide and bring back the very best of what they find for Beyond Leather, here in South Florida. BL is an absolutely amazing event and I would highly recommend attending. Sir Top and slavebonnie put so much energy into this event that it feel as if they have customized the event for every attendee. We're looking at being able to take the entire hotel next year which will be astounding. And unlike some events, the meal plan is well worth the extra cost (No bagged lunches here). I'm hoping we'll see some of you all here for BL next year. (BeyondLeather.net early registration opens Aug 15)

As a side note, MsKitty and I were unable to attend Thunder this year but are hoping to be able to do so next year. Vicious Valentine (one of MsKitty's favorite events) no longer occurs.

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