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ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen

Hello everyone, my topic is about Mistresses who offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination. I do not mean the honest hard-working Professional and Lifestyle Dommes. I refer to those who offer to take a single unattached slave and turn them into their property. They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. Discuss?

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They always are ultra sadistic and totally false.

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ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen

I was perhaps a lot to general in my original statement, it was the scammers that i wish were banned from here. I have met one real Mistress from here who is as sadistic as she proudly states in her profile but is also completly 100% real. That is what annoys me about the scammers since the level of commitment and depth of submission is that which i seek.

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ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen

Hello everyone, my topic is about Mistresses who offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination. I do not mean the honest hard-working Professional and Lifestyle Dommes. I refer to those who offer to take a single unattached slave and turn them into their property. They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. Discuss?

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I was perhaps a lot to general in my original statement, it was the scammers that i wish were banned from here. I have met one real Mistress from here who is as sadistic as she proudly states in her profile but is also completly 100% real. That is what annoys me about the scammers since the level of commitment and depth of submission is that which i seek.

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Because most of the time, they rightly realize that it would just be easier to have a goldfish...

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

Because most of the time, they rightly realize that it would just be easier to have a goldfish...

Or horses and dogs that actually have a commitment and level of dedication and submission that WE seek.

(until a rabbit runs past ..........then all doggie submission is shot right to hell...........)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Doormatforaqueen,

You have an ideal of what a true/real mistress/dominant is.  That is your own view and unfortunately you are very narrow in your view.  You are not giving room for anyone being different and see those differences as being fake.  You then judge those who are different according to your view of things and get angry that they are fake according to you and think the fakes ought to go away or be banned in a sense.

Yes there are scammers.  But there are also many who are very real and living their dominance or submission differently from you who are very happy with their lives and are not taking advantage of people.  There are also people who get an idea or ideal going from their own view based on fantasy, porn or sexual desires who present themselves to many of us as trolls or people narrow minded who see only what they see or want as the real thing.

So for every scammer you speak about, there is a person speaking about the trolls or manipulators or those who aren't being real according to their view.  It's a big bad world out there and we all have our views and complaints, but if you can only see one direction you get to live with that direction whether that direction is real and true to one or many or not seen by anyone but you.

The simple fact is, we are all different, there are those who will take advantage and those who will not.  That's life, that's sex, that's games and people.  We are all different.  You view your way as right and I view your way as wrong.  We have that right to do that, but to hold other's to your own standard that doesn't fit with most who are actually living their own lives very happily, is an error.