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DoormatForAQueen -> Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 9:58:01 AM)
Hello everyone, my topic is about Mistresses who offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination. I do not mean the honest hard-working Professional and Lifestyle Dommes. I refer to those who offer to take a single unattached slave and turn them into their property. They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. Discuss?

philosopheradept -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:00:21 AM)
What is there to discuss, really? Some dommes are sadistic and/or false, some are not, regardless of whether they "offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination."

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:10:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen Hello everyone, my topic is about Mistresses who offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination. I do not mean the honest hard-working Professional and Lifestyle Dommes. I refer to those who offer to take a single unattached slave and turn them into their property. They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. Discuss? You mean the ones that exist mainly in men's fantasies and in the pages of fetish magazines? For the most part, dommes are real people. That's not to say that heavy, intense, 24/7 D/s relationships don't exist or don't work. They do and they can, in all gender combinations. But very few real people fit well into the "always" category in a completely one-dimensional sense, which is how you seem to be viewing the subject.

sirsholly -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:13:30 AM)
quote: They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. why do you think they are totally false?

OttersSwim -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:16:20 AM)
Because most of the time, they rightly realize that it would just be easier to have a goldfish...

DoormatForAQueen -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:27:27 AM)
I was perhaps a lot to general in my original statement, it was the scammers that i wish were banned from here. I have met one real Mistress from here who is as sadistic as she proudly states in her profile but is also completly 100% real. That is what annoys me about the scammers since the level of commitment and depth of submission is that which i seek.

sirsholly -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:29:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen I was perhaps a lot to general in my original statement, it was the scammers that i wish were banned from here. I have met one real Mistress from here who is as sadistic as she proudly states in her profile but is also completly 100% real. That is what annoys me about the scammers since the level of commitment and depth of submission is that which i seek. In that case you are basically SOL. Scammers are everywhere. The most you can do is report them and move on.

CatdeMedici -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:34:28 AM)
...and your scientific deduction is based on?

CarrieO -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 10:42:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoormatForAQueen Hello everyone, my topic is about Mistresses who offer the heavier end of the spectrum of Domination. I do not mean the honest hard-working Professional and Lifestyle Dommes. I refer to those who offer to take a single unattached slave and turn them into their property. They always are ultra sadistic and totally false. Discuss? quote: I was perhaps a lot to general in my original statement, it was the scammers that i wish were banned from here. I have met one real Mistress from here who is as sadistic as she proudly states in her profile but is also completly 100% real. That is what annoys me about the scammers since the level of commitment and depth of submission is that which i seek. My question to you is, what makes these people "scammers"? Are they demanding money or that you provide your email address and credit card? Or, is it that they aren't willing to offer the " level of commitment and depth of submission" that you seek? What makes someone "100% real" ?

MistressDiane -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 11:17:06 AM)
Scammers, pretenders and fantasizers come in all shapes and sizes...Doms, Dommes, subs and slaves. Unfortunately there is an overabundance of them....you'lll get used to seeing it. Best thing to do is get over it. It's not worth getting bent out of shape over.

chiaThePet -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 11:41:40 AM)
Oh, thought this was going to be another Cleofatra thread. Never mind. chia* (the pet)

Lockit -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 11:43:01 AM)
Doormatforaqueen, You have an ideal of what a true/real mistress/dominant is. That is your own view and unfortunately you are very narrow in your view. You are not giving room for anyone being different and see those differences as being fake. You then judge those who are different according to your view of things and get angry that they are fake according to you and think the fakes ought to go away or be banned in a sense. Yes there are scammers. But there are also many who are very real and living their dominance or submission differently from you who are very happy with their lives and are not taking advantage of people. There are also people who get an idea or ideal going from their own view based on fantasy, porn or sexual desires who present themselves to many of us as trolls or people narrow minded who see only what they see or want as the real thing. So for every scammer you speak about, there is a person speaking about the trolls or manipulators or those who aren't being real according to their view. It's a big bad world out there and we all have our views and complaints, but if you can only see one direction you get to live with that direction whether that direction is real and true to one or many or not seen by anyone but you. The simple fact is, we are all different, there are those who will take advantage and those who will not. That's life, that's sex, that's games and people. We are all different. You view your way as right and I view your way as wrong. We have that right to do that, but to hold other's to your own standard that doesn't fit with most who are actually living their own lives very happily, is an error.

LyraLaLaurie -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 2:44:43 PM)
If you think a Domme is fake think of the type of woman it takes to be alone in a room, with a naked man, ready to do absolutely anything, and it's all up to you...needless to say there are not many "fakes" that I know of...crazy or unsafe or tired yes, but really...the dynamic is one that only a certain type of woman can handle.

LaTigresse -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 2:48:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OttersSwim Because most of the time, they rightly realize that it would just be easier to have a goldfish... Or horses and dogs that actually have a commitment and level of dedication and submission that WE seek. (until a rabbit runs past ..........then all doggie submission is shot right to hell...........)[:D]

OttersSwim -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 4:03:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: OttersSwim Because most of the time, they rightly realize that it would just be easier to have a goldfish... Or horses and dogs that actually have a commitment and level of dedication and submission that WE seek. (until a rabbit runs past ..........then all doggie submission is shot right to hell...........)[:D] I experience the same thing every time we pass a shoe store... [;)]

LadyPact -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 4:14:16 PM)
Are there scammers here? Yes. Are there sadistic Dommes here? Yes. I'm afraid I don't see the discussion portion. The answers were pretty obvious.

DoormatForAQueen -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 5:56:27 PM)
i was lax in forgetting to mention to mention the name of the Dream Mistress i served in Amsterdam, it is of course the stunning Ingrid Frost and she is even more beautiful than her pics on here. i was entranced and completely in her power, never once did i beg her to stop and thats my thing, i love to lose control and no safe-words. That makes it all to formal.

lovingpet -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 6:00:43 PM)
No two Domme's are going to be the same and that doesn't make any of them fake. I have no desire to be like anyone else than who I am. I have no desire to live someone else's life. I want a submissive that can let go of the past and enjoy our here and now wholeheartedly. That or I might get a goldfish...... lovingpet

LadySweetOrSour -> RE: Heavy Domination (7/10/2009 6:06:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Doormatforaqueen, You have an ideal of what a true/real mistress/dominant is. That is your own view and unfortunately you are very narrow in your view. You are not giving room for anyone being different and see those differences as being fake. You then judge those who are different according to your view of things and get angry that they are fake according to you and think the fakes ought to go away or be banned in a sense. Yes there are scammers. But there are also many who are very real and living their dominance or submission differently from you who are very happy with their lives and are not taking advantage of people. There are also people who get an idea or ideal going from their own view based on fantasy, porn or sexual desires who present themselves to many of us as trolls or people narrow minded who see only what they see or want as the real thing. So for every scammer you speak about, there is a person speaking about the trolls or manipulators or those who aren't being real according to their view. It's a big bad world out there and we all have our views and complaints, but if you can only see one direction you get to live with that direction whether that direction is real and true to one or many or not seen by anyone but you. The simple fact is, we are all different, there are those who will take advantage and those who will not. That's life, that's sex, that's games and people. We are all different. You view your way as right and I view your way as wrong. We have that right to do that, but to hold other's to your own standard that doesn't fit with most who are actually living their own lives very happily, is an error. Thank you Lockit, perfectly said.[sm=applause.gif]

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