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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/8/2009 5:04:41 PM

DomImus

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I could enjoy tying up a lesbian even though I knew sex was not in the offing but I couldn't do the same with a gay male. Just not in my hard wiring.

Pun intended.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/8/2009 5:44:22 PM

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There's a group of straight guys who call themselves the FootGods who specialize in dominating gay men. Particularly foot and financial domination. And there's a huge emphasis on the fact that they are straight.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 8:20:15 AM

BarnacleBill

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Love tying people up especially if they are happy!? Oh you meant Gay that other way??? LOL just kidding!

Love binding people of any sex just for the fun challenge of them freeing themselves. "Well...you got out of that? Try this then!!" Bondage is always fun with or with out the sex involved!

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 1:33:18 PM

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"Do" I? No. Never had the opportunity. Would I if one arose? Sure, why not?

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 4:27:48 PM

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everybody has the same parts why not?

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 4:44:22 PM

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I don't think many straight guys participate in this activity.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 6:02:52 PM

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I don't know about straight people and bondage and all that, but when I was a lesbian, there was a gay man that had amazing energy with me. Every now and then he would beat me and then swat my ass and tell me to "go find a girl!"

Oh geez, I was a bad bad lesbian. He made me all woogly googly.

I'm sure there are ways to get what you want... you seem pretty open.

And by the way, I got one word for you...

Yoga.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 7:14:23 PM

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I'm a bisexual woman, but I've occasionally tied up and otherwise topped a couple of gay men before. I've also helped several gay men dress up, do hair/nails/makeup, and otherwise feminised them. However, if they were turned on by it, I wasn't aware of it, and I prefer not to get sexual (even without having sex) when I did casual play.

I know quite a few straight guys who will occasionally top men for S/M or bondage without any sexual contact.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 7:48:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: HOUDINI1961

Bondage freak here was wondering if any male straight tops/Masters tie up gay males just for fun and to perfect their technique? Or straight bondage top females tie up lesbians just for fun?

Just wondering as i can't find anyone into bondage around where i live. I groove on the bondage for helplessness and to be controlled, etc. not for sex or to get screwed/be used.

I only like to be used and have sex when I know the person well and feel that certain vibe.

My favorite is the hogtie although I am muscular and not very bendy. I've resorted to self bondage.

Thanks.

Michael

personally, I would not. I'd just practice on the wife or, more likely, one of her god-forsaken cats.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 9:12:44 PM

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Just because I am not going to have sex with the person doesn't mean the encounter can't be sexual. There can be an extraordinary sexual vibe to tap into. I am reminded of the first time I watched two men fuck...

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 10:46:38 PM

variation30

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Racquelle

Just because I am not going to have sex with the person doesn't mean the encounter can't be sexual. There can be an extraordinary sexual vibe to tap into. I am reminded of the first time I watched two men fuck...

tying someone up, for me, will have a sexual vibe. don't want to share that with a dude.

hell, paddleboating doesn't have that strong of a sexual vibe, but I don't want to share that with a dude either.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 10:49:23 PM

Racquelle

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Yeah, well, there always has to be a dude to say he won't do stuff with other dudes just so we all know...

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 11:32:54 PM

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If the question is only about rope, I will excuse Myself. I'm a lot of things, but one of the things I don't consider Myself is a bondage top. Rope, to Me, is more a means to an end. I'm more the S, rather than the B part of that little acronym.

If your question is more universal, such as will I play with people who's orientations do not match My own, My answer is absolutely yes. When it comes to genders and orientations, I'm an equal opportunity top. For people like Me who don't usually mix physical sex with play (unless it's sexual service provided by My sub) it really doesn't make a difference.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/9/2009 11:50:05 PM

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In answer to the OP, not in my experience, but there IS a massive "straight" fetish in the gay male BDSM community, whether it's "straight" males "forced" to submit to gay guys, or "straight" males dominating and abusing gay guys ( usually referred to as "faggot-slaves" or some theatrical variation ). It seems it's nearly always gay or bi guys engaging in fantasy roles, because all the genuinely straight dominant men I know tend to be pretty much focused on women, or if they seek use of male subs, are only looking for platonic, usually non-kink - and certainly non-sexual - service.

Personally I feel a little ambiguous about the whole "straight" fixation within gay circles. While it's mostly a harmless fetish, I don't like the underlying idea that someone's orientation can be somehow "proved wrong" - a notion gay people too often have had to fight.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/10/2009 3:13:55 AM

variation30

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Racquelle

Yeah, well, there always has to be a dude to say he won't do stuff with other dudes just so we all know...

especially when someone asks a question on an open forum.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/14/2009 8:52:09 PM

HOUDINI1961

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you are funny Sir! wish i could say my hobby was getting tied up but a hobby means you get to do it all the time.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/14/2009 8:53:35 PM

HOUDINI1961

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thanks, i'll google them, although feet aren't really my thing and i don't have that much $$$ to dominate.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/14/2009 8:54:51 PM

HOUDINI1961

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that's exactly what i like to try to do "escape". love long binding sessions especially in rope, every knot, every rope getting tighter and tighter.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/14/2009 8:56:33 PM

HOUDINI1961

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you know quite a few straight guys...hmm...where are they? be nice to have someone who could practice their bondage skills on me.

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RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY pe... - 7/14/2009 8:57:35 PM

HOUDINI1961

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hmm, either way, you are definitely into p*ssy! LOL!

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