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HOUDINI1961 -> Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:07:15 PM)

Bondage freak here was wondering if any male straight tops/Masters tie up gay males just for fun and to perfect their technique? Or straight bondage top females tie up lesbians just for fun?

Just wondering as i can't find anyone into bondage around where i live. I groove on the bondage for helplessness and to be controlled, etc. not for sex or to get screwed/be used.

I only like to be used and have sex when I know the person well and feel that certain vibe.

My favorite is the hogtie although I am muscular and not very bendy. I've resorted to self bondage.


Thanks.

Michael



IronBear -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:13:05 PM)

I have no issues with who I chose to play with in most forms of BDSM. Assuming that their medical and health is all good and there are no reasons for them not to become involved in any play scenario including bondage, I have no hesitation in considering playing with then irrespective of gender, sexual orientation, colour, creed or racial orientations. 



SteelofUtah -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:15:09 PM)

I have been known to test dresses and Knots on Men, Their Sexuality is of no importance. However in most cases it is not condusive of Realistic play as I like using breast bondage in my Dresses and well Men, no havie breastessesses.

I find that most men I have tied knots on eventually get bored with the fact that I have ZERO interest in getting into the sexual Bondage..... EVEN THE STRAIGHT ONES.

Because of this I practice on willing females.

At least then if they are interested sexually I am just a tad bit more receptive to the idea.

Steel



Racquelle -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:16:01 PM)

Yes, absolutely, especially at play parties.  How would you feel about having a dominant woman bind you?



LadySweetOrSour -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:17:44 PM)

I've had lots of people in bondage without being in the slightest bit interested in them sexually. I don't really get off sexually on domination at all. God I am such a freak[8D]



HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:24:52 PM)

that is great Sir. it also sounds like you are VERY politically correct. i kind of envision myself a Houdini, trying to get free.



HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:26:07 PM)

understood Sir. but if the male, as in me, got a hardon during the tying, would you be upset?



Ambyant -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:27:57 PM)

Sure, for practice -  les girls are very 'heady' anyway.
    and have to say, some males have.. boobs.
I suppose that would be a form of humiliation, tying up excess pecs, hmm?



HOUDINI1961 -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:31:41 PM)

yes it would be humiliating but that could also be fun!



pompeii -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 10:39:06 PM)

Doesn't happen for me. The whole BDSM thing is wholly and solely connected with sex which is, at least for me, a M:f type encounter.

Without the female, it's of no interest to act out in D/s play in any way whatsoever.



MissAnimus -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/7/2009 11:31:45 PM)

Yes. It's good practice and sometimes the silence alone is the most satisfying part. [;)]

Once in a while I'll even tie up a man and then hand him over to his boyfriend after a nice warm up flogging.

I second the man boob thing.



GreedyTop -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 12:01:12 AM)

a former roommate of mine was a gay man.  Although I didnt do bondage on him, I *did* hurt him... lots... canes and crops and clothespins, oh my!! He was my guineapig for things I wanted to try, and my willing subject for stuff I wanted to do just for fun.



SmokeSerpent -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 1:08:03 AM)

I wouldn't have a problem tying up anyone, gay or straight of whatever gender for fun and technique, but I'm really not very interested in doing a full D/s scene with someone who isn't a heterosexual female, even if there's no directly sexual component. There's just not enough there for me to latch onto for my own enjoyment.



MistressDiane -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 1:14:50 AM)

short answer......Sure!  As some of the others have stated, it's not purely sexual for me. I enjoy SM for SM and there's a different dynamic there.
 



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 1:42:29 AM)

For many years, ALL of my bdsm activity was sexless. Even today, it is rare that I will have sex with the bottom. I know lots of other Tops, male and female, who are like me.

Master Fire



thishereboi -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 5:18:14 AM)

I have been tied up by straight males just for fun. There was no sex involved so gender was not an issue.



IronBear -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 6:13:19 AM)

Of course one can have fun in practising bondage as part of CDT especially using thin cordage and tie the testes up like a well ties roast or similar... Nothing sexy about that from my perspective but the pain and discomfort can be fun for those interested 



MistressDiane -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 6:19:13 AM)

and if you got a hardon all the better....that just gives me more to torture.  I love using hard dicks for target practice.



Leonidas -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 11:22:13 AM)

I used to tie gay people up for fun, but they complained so I had to stop.  I've been thinking about taking up karaoke instead, but I have a sneaking suspicion someone will complain about that too.  Tough to find a hobby these days.



chiaThePet -> RE: Do any STRAIGHT people into bondage ever tie GAY people up for fun not sex? (7/8/2009 11:44:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leonidas

I used to tie gay people up for fun, but they complained so I had to stop.


Picking them out randomly at the mall and tying them to assorted pillars doesn't count.























Not that I'd complain.

Saaaaaaay, outside of Old Navy about fiveish?

chia* (the pet)



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