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Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 6:47:38 AM   
snarlyoldman


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Status: offline 		Who knows, the experience I seek may not be so unique.  But to me it is the The Holy Grail of D/s experiences.  Here is what I'm looking for:

You walk into my place.  The door has been left open.  After you enter, close the door behind you.  Take off your shoes, remove all your clothing and put them all in the closet in front of you.

There is just enough light provided by flickering candles in the room to let you see your way.  Down to the end of the room there is a door on the right.  Go through the door.  Dominating the room is a custom hand built bed.  It's not terribly fancy, but it gets the job done.

There are four tie rings, one at each corner of the bed.  From each ring a black rope leads to wrist or ankle restraint.  Lay back on the bed.  Fasten the two ankle restraints.  Pick up the blindfold on the pillow next to you and put it on.  Now fasten one of the wrist restraints.  Lay back.  Wait.  Listen.

Was that the sound of whispers in the hallway?  Was there the tinkling sound of ice cubes in a glass?  Is there a person or persons standing there seeing you in your exposed state now?  Wait....wait....

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 6:59:57 AM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		So you're having trouble building the hand crafted bed?

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:05:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		The Holy Grail for you is tying a woman to a bed?

Damn near any sub woman would be okay with that.  Just meet one.


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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:07:06 AM   
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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:11:58 AM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		I'd say it's not only possible, it's damn near tame... not to judge, of course.

I am a little disappointed... usually a post with "Is this possible" involves something like doing a suspension scene on top of Mount Everest, or holding an enema for seven weeks, or putting a whole Thanksgiving turkey into someone's snatch...


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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:15:16 AM   
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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:15:38 AM   
snarlyoldman


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Status: offline 		Yes, I can build the bed just fine.  The experience in and of itself is fairly tame.  The part that I wonder about is getting someone to do this without having first met or exhanged anything other than email messages here.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:21:16 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Why not?  I would say thats a yes.
 
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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:31:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds completely possible to me. Even the second part, just look for a sub in your area who wants to play. Best of luck to you!

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:56:24 AM   
scarlethiney


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Status: offline 		Uh,...............sorry to burst bubbles here but very few women are going to just from emails, go to a total strangers house and follow the OPs scenario.  It is possible there will certainly be a submissive or two who may throw caution to the wind and go for it.  The unknown is what fuels our fantasies and makes anticipation such a wicked proposition.  What several of you are suggesting is irresponsible and could be dangerous in my humble opinion.




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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:58:22 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Been there. Done that. Yes, it's possible.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 7:59:25 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Um, you would want someone in your home you had never met before in your life, never even spoken to on the phone?

I had a scammer in my chat window just this morning.  "She" had a really cute pic, and "lives" near the part of California I am trying to move to.  Would you give your home address to such a person, instead of asking to meet in real life before anything sexy went down?

If part of the thrill is playing with someone you have never even talked to before, you might be better off having a friend hire a pro sub on your behalf.


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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 8:03:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Possible yes, but I'd definitely advise any subbie against doing it.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 8:06:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like the beginnings of a Penthouse letter.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 8:07:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: snarlyoldman

Yes, I can build the bed just fine.  The experience in and of itself is fairly tame.  The part that I wonder about is getting someone to do this without having first met or exhanged anything other than email messages here.
that is not a safe thing for a submissive to do.


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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 8:12:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		Possible, yes. Safe, no. Smart, no, on both your sides. She has your name, and address. You possibly dont have hers. If it goes wrong, what keeps her from saying you raped her? What keeps her from stalking you afterwards?  How do you even verify she is a she?  While the fantasy of it sounds interesting, there are way too many unsafe possibilities out there for it to sound plausible.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 8:13:51 AM   
CarrieO


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Status: offline 		You want anonymous play...one stranger with another...yes?

Anything is possible. Is it practical? IMO, no.

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 9:46:51 AM   
velvetvixen


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Status: offline 		It probably isn't safe for either party but the OP wants to know if it's possible. Yes, I think it is possible. I think there are plenty of people who identify as submissive who would do this based on a few emails, yahoo chats, whatever. Would I suggest they do it if they asked my opinion? No I would not, but every one makes choices in this life.

Happy day

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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 9:50:11 AM   
GYPZYQUEEN


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quote:

ORIGINAL: snarlyoldman
.  The part that I wonder about is getting someone to do this without having first met or exhanged anything other than email messages here.


Surley you jest??
what person in  their right mind...would do this?

is it SAFE?? no...
Everytime I read something like this I know some guy has been watching too much porn...or it is someone who does nto want to BOTHER establishing any boundries..safety..or getting to know the person.
It is not worng to NOT want to know them ..anon has its thrills for some..
It just really pisses me off that a man would want someone to TRUST???? him enough to go to his house with an open door and
NOT see anyone...then lay there wondering
HOW MANY ARE THERE??
 
I have had this kind of thing prosposed to me by scared stiff wanna bes and immature/ married men who dont want their faces seen.
 
I have also had this proposed by men I have met a few times..enough to WANT TO..
 
GQ
 



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RE: Is this experience I seek possible? - 7/1/2009 9:53:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

The Holy Grail for you is tying a woman to a bed?

Damn near any sub woman would be okay with that.  Just meet one.



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