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ranja -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 3:49:52 AM)
For most the total stranger thing is likely to remain a fantasy... but surely you can do this with a partner you have build up some trust with aswell?

DemonKia -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 4:22:45 AM)
FR, after read thru OP, unfortunate that you're hetero, as this kind of fantasy is very common in the world of gay men. I've seen a ton of ads in Craigslist soliciting partners for similar scenarios . . . . .

MsFlutter -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 4:31:02 AM)
At the risk of sounding like Cat (you blow my mind, lady - I had NO idea!!), I was a submissive in another lifetime. I did some risky things before I learned the fundamentals but nothing even approaching the scale of this idea. For all the reasons everyone has already named, it's just a realllllllllllly bad idea. (okay - for everybody other than susie). Can you imagine having to explain this to your insurance adjuster?

lally2 -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 5:43:46 AM)
ive trotted off to someones lair after only exchanging emails and talking on the phone a couple of times - i think its really down to how a person projects themselves, if you come across as grounded, sane and genuine you have a better chance. having said that - a D friend told me how he once arranged to meet a sub in a hotel room after only a brief period of getting to know and found she'd padlocked herself to the loo. he spent a fair while telling her off for being an idiot. the trouble is, you know youre safe, youre friends know youre safe and blah blah - a stranger doesnt. you might need to consider some sort of reassurance policy to back you up. dont forget either, that in just the same way as she doesnt know what she's letting herself into, niether do you - she might be a total fruit loop, a newbie with the same fantasy but finds half way through that she feels abused and raped.

lizi -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 9:30:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lally2 dont forget either, that in just the same way as she doesnt know what she's letting herself into, niether do you - she might be a total fruit loop, a newbie with the same fantasy but finds half way through that she feels abused and raped. Ah yes....there are recent threads where this has happened. OP go ahead and search the boards to find out more about other's experiences with claims of non-consensual sex which started out totally different. As others pointed out the risks on your end seem to range from being rather mild - she isn't what or who she said - to being severe. You could be robbed, hurt, or taken to jail. *Edited to add a word

TheLadyLolaNJ -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 11:44:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 Um, you would want someone in your home you had never met before in your life, never even spoken to on the phone? I had a scammer in my chat window just this morning. "She" had a really cute pic, and "lives" near the part of California I am trying to move to. Would you give your home address to such a person, instead of asking to meet in real life before anything sexy went down? If part of the thrill is playing with someone you have never even talked to before, you might be better off having a friend hire a pro sub on your behalf. I don't know of any Pro Switch or Pro Sub who would do this, sight unseen, with no phone calls or with emails traded with a third party, not the potential client. You think just because a person is a Pro, they wouldn't take the same precautions as any lifestyle sub? I don't even do outcalls unless I've seen a client several times and have gotten to know them.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 2:51:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snarlyoldman Who knows, the experience I seek may not be so unique. But to me it is the The Holy Grail of D/s experiences. Here is what I'm looking for: You walk into my place. The door has been left open. After you enter, close the door behind you. Take off your shoes, remove all your clothing and put them all in the closet in front of you. There is just enough light provided by flickering candles in the room to let you see your way. Down to the end of the room there is a door on the right. Go through the door. Dominating the room is a custom hand built bed. It's not terribly fancy, but it gets the job done. There are four tie rings, one at each corner of the bed. From each ring a black rope leads to wrist or ankle restraint. Lay back on the bed. Fasten the two ankle restraints. Pick up the blindfold on the pillow next to you and put it on. Now fasten one of the wrist restraints. Lay back. Wait. Listen. Was that the sound of whispers in the hallway? Was there the tinkling sound of ice cubes in a glass? Is there a person or persons standing there seeing you in your exposed state now? Wait....wait.... Wait....wait....what is the sound of one OP gesticulating meaninglessly?

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