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maia09 -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 9:55:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snarlyoldman Yes, I can build the bed just fine. The experience in and of itself is fairly tame. The part that I wonder about is getting someone to do this without having first met or exhanged anything other than email messages here. Nope, not me. i'm not that daring or uhm - perhaps stupid?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 10:02:58 AM)
Been there, done that. Okay, so it was a male I was tying up, but so what? I went to his house, and had him immobilized, no problemo. He didn't know my full name, I didn't know his. Funny thing was... he looked SO awesome all tied up, he had this leather mask on, and I said "Wow, I wish I had a camera!". eeeeek I could have left him there, harmed or killed him, robbed him, but that I might have PHOTOGRAPHED him was the skeeery bit.

immoral -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 10:20:05 AM)
Have you thought about maybe seeing if theres a Master /D somewhere you could negotiate with that way you could get to know all you need to and never have dealings with the ( assuming woman) in question..im sure its some peoples thing.

Goddess2002 -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 2:54:23 PM)
Yes, it's possible,but I would never advise a sub to do it in a million years.

playfulotter -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 3:00:39 PM)
Some of us have done this or something similar for the adventure of it all.....I did when I was quite naive about nine years ago and new to all of this. I was lucky nothing bad happened to me. It was a learning experience actually but I would never do it again.

DesFIP -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 3:11:21 PM)
I think the Holy Grail here is that he won't have met the woman before. Just emails her here and she agrees. And that's not too likely because people here want to make sure that they are having sex with someone they can trust will not give them a disease - which means knowing them, or slit their throats - which means knowing them, and will be there the next day if it was a rough scene - which means knowing them, will accept hard limits and a safeword - which means knowing them. OP, your best bet is to call an escort agency.

TreasureKY -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 3:36:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: snarlyoldman ... The part that I wonder about is getting someone to do this without having first met or exhanged anything other than email messages here. As others have said, yes... danger or not, there are some that would do this never having met in person first. I wonder how many dominants have this kind of fantasy... manage to find someone to go along... only to walk into that room to find the naked person tied to the bed isn't at all who or what you thought they'd be. Could be a real fantasy buster. [:-]

brandi1379 -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 3:58:51 PM)
sure its possible, but good luck finding a sub to do that with little to no info about you, but thats just my opinon

Sexycelticlady -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 4:05:18 PM)
I would suggest finding a pro-sub, they might be willing to do it and would have safe calls etc set up.

CatdeMedici -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/1/2009 4:29:51 PM)
During the period of time that I was a sub, I did this but way more difficult: The blindfold was on the counter, I had to crawl to the closed bedroom door, open it and crawl to the bed--I won't share what happened next because I respect privacy--but I will say I spent the night crawling from room to room--BUT My Dom never believed in numbers---and I, to this day, have a deep appreciation for submissives.

gentlemanprince -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/2/2009 12:51:35 AM)
Actually, I think this is a great idea. If any woman is crazy enough to put herself into that situation - in restraints in the home of a man she hardly knows - she clearly is too crazy to be in a good relationship. Consider it a way to weed out a potential partner.

variation30 -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/2/2009 1:45:03 AM)
I was really, really, really hoping this was going to be a bel air.

ChasingOblivion -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/2/2009 2:55:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82 putting a whole Thanksgiving turkey into someone's snatch... Holy crow!!! I just spit soda all over my keyboard. [:D]

Missokyst -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/4/2009 7:55:25 AM)
Seems like it might be possible. Are you prepared for all possible outcomes? Check this story out: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090702/ap_on_re_us/us_rape_rescue

windchymes -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/4/2009 8:11:36 AM)
I was in, but then you lost me.....ice cubes clinking is a hard limit. [8\|]

fantasy69maker -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/4/2009 10:34:51 AM)
Been there done that .....sorta We have used motels. Its not particularly safe for either of you. but the very risk appeals to some. Gee I hope I havent just advized the next serial killer on victum aquistion. But as a Dom let me also point out that it could be YOU the dom who is being set up!

DavanKael -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/4/2009 8:06:01 PM)
Nothing I would want any part of but having had an insanely risk-attracted and prolific ex-, I'd bet this scenario would be relatively easy to wrangle. Advisable is another story but achievable, yeah, probably pretty readily. Davan

DavanKael -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/4/2009 10:59:37 PM)
I can't edit the post, so am adding my ex- wasn't the person I was referencing, it was an ex-boyfriend. I don't know how that boy managed to do the things he di for so many years and never have any negative health consequences! Anyway, op, possible but sensible, I don't think so. Davan

susie -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 2:03:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Been there. Done that. Yes, it's possible. Yep totally possible. Although with us it was a hotel room not his house. Was it worth it? You betcha. It will be 5 years next Thursday so I am more than happy I took the risk.

faithfulfemme -> RE: Is this experience I seek possible? (7/5/2009 3:23:35 AM)
To the OP: You could get a someone who claims to be a submissive to agree to this, but when you've only communicated with this person by email and really don't know who she/he is, and it comes to the point where you have unlocked your front door so she/he can come in, then a couple of thugs with guns come in instead, rob you of everything that has any value in your house, and then tie YOU to the bed.....well, that fantasy now has become your worst nightmare. Sometimes there are fantasies that simply belong where they originated: in our heads. Attempting to bring them out into the real world just isn't worth the risk..... *However, if you decide to go for it, i wish you well.....* *sweetly,* *faithfulfemme...* . .. .

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