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RE: I made the first contact...now... - 6/27/2009 9:12:30 PM

CountrySong

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antipode - So you have everything in place to make sure he can't see you - no pictures, no cam, no camera on your cellphone, nuttin'. I personally believe you're doing that deliberately - a netbook with a built in cam can be had for $300, and an external CD drive is $50. Not a good way to go.
Wow that was harsh. I have lots of friends on benefits who could not afford $300 and there have been times in my life when I could not have afforded it. There are free internet locations in many cities like libraries but CM is not something you would veiw there. There are also a lot of people who don't want their pics up. Personally with all the stressors and other issues I think she is being very brave as it is and wish her the best of luck!

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RE: I made the first contact...now... - 6/30/2009 5:38:56 PM

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Antipode, this computer is a 3rd generation hand-me-down that is 7 years old. My mom uses it mainly for playing card games, but I am the one with the internet addiction, so we use dial-up being so far from any town. I have a better Dell down in Austin that is 5 years old but has been upgraded for my gaming use. I quit my gaming use since I am on dialup and I hate lagging on Runescape.

The $300 you mention is used to pay off credit card bills (over $10K). Mom is lucky if she brings home $500 a week. She is paying on a mini-van that is damned near $450 a month. Add insurance to that (house & car/truck) and we are lucky if we get enough for food.

We cannot afford a cellphone, though we needed one yesterday due to a limb causing sparks on the transformer. I am not into texting. I am reclusive except for this rundown POS that is about as old as a TRS-80 (can serve as an anchor though).

We are poor...yet my brother who works in Iraq took mom to Jamaica on his dime to celebrate his UM's graduation. I stayed home housesitting and making sure the dog did not die (sucker is old).

So I am not giving him the runaround. I just recovered my photobucket account and linked him up to a pic from 2 years ago, completely drenched in water (I was at a waterpark in Central Texas). There were 2 emails waiting for me from him, answering all my questions and then some. I am surprised he is treating me with courtesy, not like the ones who contacted me first (bloody wannabes).

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RE: I made the first contact...now... - 6/30/2009 5:50:58 PM

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Life is never "easy," but it can be a lot harder if you don't have money.

If this guy is treating you with respect, you are way ahead of the game.

I never ask for pics. However, I provide a lot of info about myself pretty quickly, and if the lady doesn't reciprocate, I usually stop talking to her. If she's not moved to share information about herself, we're clearly not compatible, because I deal openly and honestly, and only want such people in my life. Also, I've had women from the forums and the other side who want to be my friend but they don't send me anything but text. Not happening. I talk to people face to face.

I agree with DarkSteven: schedule a first date. I'd suggest cooling the cyber until you meet in real. I've gotten women wet -- and they've gotten me hard -- via phone calls and texts, only to discover there's no sexual chemistry in real life.

Don't build a cybercastle in the air. Build a foundation in real life.

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