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greenearth21 -> RE: obedience,and to be fair? (6/23/2009 7:59:11 PM)
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How would you describe obedience,and,
how you describe to be fair
what do you think it contains,or not,
and can you allow yourself as a sub or slave,
to demand fairness?
and how far does your obedience goes?
Obedience is obviously obeying and doing what is asked or expected of you. Doesnt necessarily mean without question. To me fair is 50/50 and I try to be fair in everything I do...who I deal with and try to avoid an uneven outcome or situation. However, I tend to say "hey...that's not fair" to which I get a response of "what does fairness have to do with anything". At first I just dropped my jaw...until it clicked that he would do what he wants to do when he wants to whether I want to or not (within reason).
How can one demand fairness?? esp in a relationships that tend to have one person wielding the whip and the other "taking it" as much or as little as the whip holder feels?
I don't see how I could demand fairness, simply because I trust him and know his nature/personality and know that he'd never be unruly or dangerously evil towards me.
My obedience and everything goes as far as there is mutual respect and everyone's needs in the relationship are being met
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