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RE: If you only had one scene left - 6/14/2009 11:03:41 AM

Andalusite

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I guess it would depend on the context. Last scene with a particular partner, because we were about to break up? Last public scene in a particular area because we were about to move, or because the local dungeon was closing? If I were dating someone who didn't want to do BDSM anymore, adding one last time unwillingly wouldn't be much fun, and I'd have to put a lot of thought into whether or not I was willing to stay with them. A lot of people here say they'd be fine in a relationship that involved D/s but no S/M or bondage, but I'm more the other way around. It needn't be very heavy play, and if they or I were disabled, I'd hope we could find activities that worked for both of us. If they just didn't enjoy it anymore though, that would be pretty upsetting. I haven't had a vanilla relationship since I was 20, and hope not to in the future.

(in reply to Joseff)