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berrysurprise -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 1:18:02 PM)

A couple of years after i found my sub myself, i decided to confess to my sister. i was very surprised to find that my Auntie had similar desires and had even landed a role in a famous BDSM movie... preaching to the perverted - So i'd say yes!



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 1:36:57 PM)

Well, I found out my younger sister was into BDSM years ago when we were talking and she kind of hinted at it. My middle daughter came over and "borrowed" a flogger and some suspension cuffs, my son and his wife were heart broken when their gas mask broke and they love paddles, my oldest daughter, when asked what she wanted for a wedding present, requested a butterfly. I asked if it had to specifically be a butterfly she said she didn't care so long as it would get her off. And last, but far from least, my grandson (in college) came over and assisted me in making his leather strap. His floggers hang in his room at the frat house and he loves to practice with them... and he does pretty damn good considering he's damn near completely blind. So yeah, it's all over my family.

Jewel



Katoteros -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 1:52:35 PM)

I think families might foster the open mind needed for interest or experimentation in the lifestyle.  But as far a genetic predisposition to bondage goes, I doubt it.  I never, ever want to find out what type of sex my parents or siblings are involved in, and I'd rather them not know about mine either : )



porcelaine -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 1:54:20 PM)

i actually discovered the lifestyle by rummaging through my mother's closet and reading her adult books. i've yet to thank her properly for all the wonderful fetishes she unintentionally exposed me to. however, she is aware of my lifestyle but has no involvement herself. as far as i know the same is true for my other family relations, they're a pretty uptight bunch. as for my daughter, she's still innocent. i want to maintain that as a long as i can. [;)]

porcelaine



Joseff -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 5:15:03 PM)

My  younger brother is, as far as I know, no one else in my family is.



PanthersMom -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 6:37:17 PM)

a cousin, one sister i'm sure of and another i suspect, quite possibly my grandfather and an uncle.  i wouldn't say it runs in families, but i'm sure some of the genetic makeup has us enjoying similar sensations.
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kitastrophe33 -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 6:44:23 PM)

Funny story...

I walked into my 7 year old's room one day to find Barbie naked, tied up, and suspended upside down. I was sort of amused and asked my daughter, "hey...what's going on with Barbie?"
"She's being punished by her husband," says my daughter
"Why?"
"She was bad."
"Okay, but why's she naked?"
"Ken likes it that way."

I almost died...(and no, she has never witnessed any of my adventures. I only do that at my boyfriend's place.)


A second situation happened at swim team. Their coach was trying to teach them the butterfly, and the kids were having a hard time getting the kick right, so the coach tied each kid's feet together and threw them in the pool. (I wondered about the wisdom in this, but nobody drowned, so I guess it's okay.) After practice I asked my daughter what she thought when Rachel tied her feet together and threw her in the pool. I expected her to say "I thought she was nuts." Instead she said completely innocently, "I thought it felt good."


She's 7, so I know it's not sexual for her....But I'll be honest, I always volunteered to be the indian when we played cowboys and indians. The indian always ended up tied up. (It was over 20 years ago. We weren't that PC then...)

So I dunno about it being genetic...it seems like maybe the kiddo is headed that way, but only time will tell...




kitastrophe33 -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 6:55:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: subbisherri

I think my parents believe I'm still pure, chaste and have never been kissed.


Ha, ever since high school, my mother has been convinced that I was a slut. She has no idea, lol...



KMsAngel -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 7:16:36 PM)

pffft, my family all think i'm an angel. except my brothers, and only if they're not currently needing a favour.

my eldest daughter was logged on here, that's how i found out about it. my youngest saw me logged in, that's how she found out about it. they both identify as being sub. (they're both legal age)



Jeptha -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 7:27:58 PM)

My Dad - I think not, but who knows?

Mom, though...

I remember books like "The Encyclopedia of Witchcraft and Demonology" hanging around the house. Ostensibly innocent, but I combed them for articles on orgies where witches were penetrated by devils with double penises, or with broomsticks with witch's salves (hallucinatory drugs) spread on them, and looked for pictures of naked rituals or of witches kissing the devil's ass, and whatever else.

Hot stuff!

I also once found "The Story of O" on a stack of books on her nightstand.

So, while I don't know any details, I'm guessing Mom was probably at least somewhat open-minded.



antipode -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 8:05:46 PM)

quote:

find that bdsm runs in your family?


had a vasectomy, way back [8D]



SIRLOINSTEAK -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/13/2009 9:00:45 PM)

Yes. One cousin of mine was complaining about how she was being abused by some guy. I was telling her she should break up with him and have more respect for yourself. lol

Now imagine if I'm with a girl and she goes to her cousin and he gives her the same advice, which I guess I agree with. ;0 BUT our relationship was supposed to be BDSM tinged. ;/



SomethingCatchy -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 4:24:03 AM)

I'm with the others that would rather not know. If any of my family is involved, I'm not close enough to them to want to know or to even care.



CollaredLisa -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 4:39:04 AM)

I don't even think I can tell my parents about my preferences, so I would be extremely surprised if they were in such a relationship too... and my sister is still too young for that kind of thing.



Reform -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 10:38:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kitastrophe33
-snip- She's 7, so I know it's not sexual for her.... -snip-


You'd be surprised. I vividly remember having sexual fantasies and masturbating at 7.

I know my brother has told me he likes being "helpless" during encounters and likes being scratched, but how far that goes I'm not sure. When my mom and I talk sex, it's usually positions or lube reccomendations, so I have no idea on that front.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 5:08:45 PM)

Well since I only consider two people in my life family, and do not consider any other relatives family,  my reply when I say nope, would probably be skewed.  All though my brother* whom I also do not consider family * and his wife like to put hand cuffs on her when they have sex now and then, and I know this because when I was in her room one time on a visit, she had left handcuffs on a shelf above her bed and she admitted to me they like to do that and she calls him  Daddy sometimes during sex for kicks

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sparkelfairy

Hello all,

I am just wondering if any of you have had an experience like mine and what you have done about this.  Very recently my 21yr old daughter came to me and confessed that she is in a D/s relationship.  It gave me the opportunity to share my story with her.  We laughed and cried and now share a stronger bond. 

So my question is this do any of you find that bdsm runs in your family?  Just curious thank you
sparkelfairy



AngelGeena -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 5:16:26 PM)

from the way most of my family talks, they rarely have bland sex and wouldnt know what D/s or bdsm really was.  i shudder at the thought really.  [:'(]



DomDolf -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 5:35:53 PM)

Kink does it seems. A remark here or there reveals that, but I don't ask and I don't tell. I think the cleaning lady knows more about my kinks then my family. She keeps looking in my bags and boxes!

Dolf



littlewonder -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/14/2009 9:31:46 PM)

I can say for a fact that no it doesn't

My family have always found me to be strange and just way out there.

They're all very conservative hicks, moreso than I.

I've always been the black sheep.



LyraLaLaurie -> RE: Does bdsm run in your family? (5/16/2009 1:22:45 AM)

My younger brother is.
My parents probably arent but they're both known for having crazy pain tolerance. So that might run in families...



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