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LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:24:07 AM   
slavebratty


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Status: offline 		hi i am seeking punishments i am able to give myself for my Master....i have limitations...no clamps watersports or anything related....i like to be humiliated but i do not do this in public any help is greatly appreciated by Master and me....ty

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:25:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ask him . After all, he is the one who is the Master, right?



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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:31:21 AM   
slavebratty


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Status: offline 		he would like me to research it myself to see what i come up with bc he feels it is good for me to learn this way...

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:34:54 AM   
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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:35:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Has your dominant come up with his own idea's at all?

Personally, part of the fun of it all for me is being creative in how I deal with my submissive.  Knowing him helps me devise evil little plans that create the dynamic's between us.

Rather than just ask us who are actually rather blind in your situation, why not tell us things he has done so far.  I am all for helping out with idea's, but I first need to know a bit more and know that the dominant has actually done some of their own work.



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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:37:22 AM   
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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 11:56:42 AM   
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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:01:46 PM   
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put yourself in time-out 

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:03:54 PM   
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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:05:57 PM   
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How about just obeying him and then you won't need punishment? 

Cali



ROFL!  So simple... so... dead on!  Leave it to Cali to get right to the root!  Thank you for the reminder!  Back to basic's folks! lol

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:08:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		That would depend on what you did wrong. To me punishment is something that happens when I am bad and usually fits the crime so to speak. If I am good there is no need. Maybe if you could have your master come on this thread and provide a little more background as to why he is punishing you, it might be easier to give a constructive answer.

Oh and a note on the fact that you like to be humiliated....that's a good thing, because most threads that start with my Master needs new idea usually end up with a lot snide humiliating comments....this could be your lucky day.

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:10:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

How about just obeying him and then you won't need punishment? 

Cali


Pfft...but then, they would actually have to be mature adults. Where's the fun in that?



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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 12:28:18 PM   
Fitznicely


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Status: offline 		Searching the forums will give you a goldmine of ideas.

Punishment is different to play. I suggest your Dom researches this.

I presume He'll be reading this thread to assess the task he's set you?

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 2:12:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

How about just obeying him and then you won't need punishment? 

Cali



I was going to suggest telling him she couldn't come up with anything in the research, then he'd punish her.


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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 2:16:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavebratty

hi i am seeking punishments i am able to give myself for my Master....i have limitations...no clamps watersports or anything related....i like to be humiliated but i do not do this in public any help is greatly appreciated by Master and me....ty

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slave bratty,

You've received some less-than-wanted feedback thus far, but it does bear two important warnings. 1) Play and punishment are not the same. 2) Be wary of a dominant who makes you be your own dominant.

About 1) In the apparent paradox of "How do you punish a masochist?" the distinction is made in motivation and result, but not action. The act doesn't matter. If it is a punishment, then the motivation is to make the punished feel bad, somehow.

Why doesn't the act matter? Any act can be made into a punishment. (This accounts for people who enjoy acts that are traditionally thought of as punishment: spanking, cuckoldry, whippings and the like). I firmly believe a devoted submissive feels the worst punishment is being a disappointment. Just knowing they've done wrong, and I'm not happy is enough. She could be receiving a diamond collar, and if I said. "So you never forget to kneel when accepting gifts." It would be a punishment. And a very.. VERY effective one.

Using guilt like this is too powerful, in my opinion, and is for unhealthy relationships and major failings. Christianity believes (I'm not a big religious guy, but I do learn through argument) that seperation from god is the worst punishment. Perhaps separation from Dom is the worst punishment he can cast? In this respect, being told to sit in the corner is worse than spanking yourself with rubber bands.

I've run out of time, but if you need more guidance, let me know - I'd be happy to help.

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 2:19:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

Perhaps separation from Dom is the worst punishment he can cast? In this respect, being told to sit in the corner is worse than spanking yourself with rubber bands.


They're already in a long-distance relationship.  How much more separated can they get? 

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 5:00:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavebratty

hi i am seeking punishments i am able to give myself for my Master....i have limitations...no clamps watersports or anything related....i like to be humiliated but i do not do this in public any help is greatly appreciated by Master and me....ty

slave bratty


And what did you do yourself
in order to find such? Instead of asking everyone else
for help...

Aint that an easy way out?

Or are you lazy.

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 5:06:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why punishment? Punishment would suggest you have done something wrong...

Now if your master hasn't got any idea what to do with you, fair enough though far from ideal, but why call it punishment?

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 6:29:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Any Master worth his salt should be able to think of these things, but due to that fact that I am feeling generous---self flaggelation has been a form of self punishment since before the Middle Ages, so has wearing hair shirts---LaT and I would be more than glad to donate a few we gather after a day with the horses, oh and for the extreme--a metal cliice.

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RE: LD punishment - 5/8/2009 7:24:13 PM   
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