catize
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ORIGINAL: peppermint I wonder why we are always discussing punishments around here as if submissives were all naughty children who need to be punished or they will not behave. How about researching rewards for jobs well done? Better yet, why don’t we realize that most submissive men/women have self control and will obey and follow rules? Why don’t we dwell on the fact that most of us do our very best because pleasing our dominants pleases us? Why don’t we get treated like adults who may occasionally make mistakes and have brains enough to understand a discussion on how to correct it?
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"Power is real. But it's a lot less real if it's not perceived as power." Robert Parker, Stranger in Paradise
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