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RE: showing your butt - 5/4/2009 7:39:41 PM

scarlethiney

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I am curious, If I do not want to show my face because of privacy issues, and I feel I have an attractive rear end. Is it okay to display my ass as a profile image? or is this a no-no?

Depending on "who" your trying to attract it may be better than ok. I personally find it completely cheesy and unattractive.

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RE: showing your butt - 5/5/2009 2:50:28 AM

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Why is that so funny to ask? I'm asking because some women say that a picture of an ass is a bad profile pic and some women seem to like it. I just wanted to get some feedback.

Sweetheart, if you don't get why it's funny, I can't help you :)

But, since you seem genuinely confused, I will give you a little advice. You hit the nail on the.... uhhh... head when you said that some women like it, some don't. There is no universal answer, it's a judgement call.

To make that judgement, consider the following. What are you looking for? What kind of person are you looking for? What do you wish to achieve by being here at Collarme? Now, if/once you have that figured, think about your 'market' and your 'image'. How do you wish to come across to your 'market'? Your 'image' should reflect you honestly, but think about how your 'image' right now is coming across, and adjust it to what you wish to attract. Oh, and don't forget the norms of social decorum!

It basically requires thought. Think about how some average random woman would process your current pic/profile. Right now, you have a badly taken photo of your ass, taken on what I guess to be a low pixle camphone. You've got your back to the camera, and are literally dropping trou in situ. Your TV and dressing cabinet are in the background. You've got draws open, clutter to the left and on the chair, and some weird lens flare beaming down. Oh, and what seems to be the corner of an un-made bed to the right. What do you think that says to people?

Good luck :)

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RE: showing your butt - 5/5/2009 8:39:30 AM

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I don't think anything is wrong with anything you might want to show in a profile. Some people don't put pics at all. Some people don't want any parts to display on their screen when they are talking to people however. You can always just make it one of your pics and not the main profile pic.

As far as privacy goes, my thought was always that if my sexy next door neighbor was on collar me and saw my picture there then that would just be a good thing. I mean you have to be looking on a BDSM site to know you are here.

Picture does matter though I guess as I was recently scolded for not taking down the pic from when I changed the profile to a couples profile as it looked like I was still a couple. I'm changing them now.

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RE: showing your butt - 5/5/2009 12:17:43 PM

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I'm one of those that likes to see an attractive manly butt, but as your main photo...not a good idea. The other posters have given some great ideas about designing pictures in various ways to hide your identity.

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RE: showing your butt - 5/5/2009 11:52:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: plezzurefrompain

I am curious, If I do not want to show my face because of privacy issues, and I feel I have an attractive rear end. Is it okay to display my ass as a profile image? or is this a no-no?

I have always felt that it is not what you take off that is sexy but rather what you put on. Lingerie and mystery always does more for me than someone standing there nude saying come and get it.

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RE: showing your butt - 5/6/2009 2:54:18 AM

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For the record.....nice ass! I love a nice tight butt.....just want to run up and grab it!

Considering I don't have a pic, I really can't weigh in here.....try looking at some of the ones posted and get some ideas there.....and there are good ones suggested here, too. But yeah, nudie shots are really kind of passe.....you want to keep something for the imagination.

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RE: showing your butt - 5/6/2009 3:17:11 AM

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I see only a bum shot, or an almost dick shot, and I move right along. I don't want a bottom or a penis, I want an entire person.

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