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Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/14/2009 7:31:35 PM

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In a previous response, I mentioned that the Asian women I've known (Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) all had firmer breasts and thighs than the Germanic, Italic, and Gallic women that I've known.

Just curious ... what nationalities have you played with BDSM-wise, and, well, have you noted any differences (or, are we all, when it comes to our predilections, the same in the end)?

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/14/2009 8:06:50 PM

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Asian women I've known (Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) all had firmer breasts

Ah yes, now that you mention it - and you forget the Ukranians! They all have only a left foot!

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/14/2009 8:26:46 PM

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In a previous response, I mentioned that the Asian women I've known (Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) all had firmer breasts and thighs than the Germanic, Italic, and Gallic women that I've known.

Just curious ... what nationalities have you played with BDSM-wise, and, well, have you noted any differences (or, are we all, when it comes to our predilections, the same in the end)?

I have played with people from lots of different cultural and ethnic back grounds and they all have qualities I love.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/14/2009 9:09:27 PM

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Why not come to Europe and experience a Dutch wheelbarrow all for yourself?

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 10:53:09 AM

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My experience is that I love guys from a latino borderline machismo kind of culture. They tend to naturally take charge of their girlfriend even before the whole authority transfer topic is brought up. For those raised deep inside this culture, it is second nature and much more comfortable for them to take and keep control. Which I love because it feels natural and they are more intuned to my needs. Of course...all the normal disclaimers about stereotypes and sweeping generalizations apply. But yep. :)

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 11:06:29 AM

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In a previous response, I mentioned that the Asian women I've known (Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) all had firmer breasts and thighs than the Germanic, Italic, and Gallic women that I've known

Aw come on pumpkin, generalisation much. You've known what maybe two or three in person? The rest masturbatery literature and ya really can't tell how firm someones breasts are from seeing them in a film or on paper.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 11:09:53 AM

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In a previous response, I mentioned that the Asian women I've known (Korean, Japanese, and Vietnamese) all had firmer breasts and thighs than the Germanic, Italic, and Gallic women that I've known

Aw come on pumpkin, generalisation much. You've known what maybe two or three in person? The rest masturbatery literature and ya really can't tell how firm someones breasts are from seeing them in a film or on paper.

Well said InTonguesslut, particular as I am german and my breasts are certainly lovely firm

That just reminds me on the crap view that all dark skinned guys have a huge dick...from my pro sub past I can surely tell ya that this is NOT the case

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 11:40:21 AM

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Hey I am not asian and I am umm, pretty firm...

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 9:55:20 PM

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OK. OK. I agree. But I was wondering ... for example, the Asians I've known all throw their hands up and let the guy do the pushin ... whereas the Europeans I've known are much more active participants. There MUST be cultural differences amongst us kinksters ... (that's my hypothesis). I'm all for the "we're all the same" but I've been around too long to think that it's true. A motorcycle isn't a car while they're both motor vehicles. Anyone who doesn't recognize there are cultural differences is either ignorant, intelligent, or a fool. I just don't know them so I was huntin' to see if there were any known cultural generalizations we could prosper from.

For example, the prudishness of the Americans when it comes to breast feeding (admittedly not a kink, per se, for most of us) is vastly different than that which other cultures perform the act in public. The openness of quite legal prostitution in most European countries is vastly different than the hidden prostitution inherent in the American culture, where you have to peruse a web site to find all the reviews of all the kinksters offering themselves for hire. I'd wager, not having been there, that Amsterdam's culture is quite different than, say, Salem Massachusetts.

That's all I was looking for. If we find out something new, culturally or physically, then that's great. Otherwise, well, we're all the same in the end (as was one of the possible suppositions initially). Your experience makes the difference; not mine.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/15/2009 11:27:23 PM

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Don't have that experience with international slaves as yet. However in the spirit of the heading to this thread, my Kink from Australia was in my youth way back when, was to attach a wire brush to a broom handle and wait till someone was sitting on the dunny in the back yards and enjoying a well deserved crap. Sneaking up and silently opening the rear trap door (if I hadn't already had it set up, and shoving the wire brush upwards and rubbing hard on where I thought the bare arse and genitals were and pissing off like a goanna in full flight. and pissing myself with laughter at the roars, curses and shrieks when the target person initially thought they kad been clawed by a goanna, bitten by a snakle of something equally horrifying. manys the time I have seen someone ruishing from the dunny still trying to pull their undies up.... I demolished a dunnmy with someone trying to have a crap one day accidently with a D8 Dozer.. That is however another yarn.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 6:33:41 AM

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I like euro dommes germany and sweden england yep they rule

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 6:44:49 AM

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just wasted a perfectly good cup of coffee and clean white t-shirt reading this thread ... and now have the coffee exit via nose ache thing to deal with

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 12:52:12 PM

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Whew! Thank heavens I wasn't drinking a coffee while reading your response IronBear! Definitely a snorter!

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 1:38:12 PM

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We sure do hehe

The UK is an isle of perverts, yay!

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 2:54:09 PM

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Why not come to Europe and experience a Dutch wheelbarrow all for yourself?

ROFLMAO!

Thanks Stella, I needed that!

OP, I really don't think about people that way. And I don't do casual D/s, or casual sex so even if I did think like that, I haven't had enough BDSM partners to make a proper sampling anyway. So it'd just be anecdotal observations. That's what you'll get here anyway, so I guess that's what you're after. But the whole idea is offensive to me even though you seem to be posing the question innocently enough. Your picture makes you seem friendly, and a bit goofy somehow so that mitigates my annoyance a bit. :o) I'm not feeling very well right now so that's the best I can do, for a backhanded compliment.

If I thought someone were automatically thinking of me in terms of my race, ethnicity or nationality, and judging me by that, and my physical traits, I would think that person is really shallow. MLK died a long time ago, and people are still that shallow to this day. Frustrating, to say the least. Do you want to be judged by physical and genetic traits? The Nazis did that. Ew.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 2:55:08 PM

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I'd wager, not having been there, that Amsterdam's culture is quite different than, say, Salem Massachusetts.

Amsterdam actually hasn't much of a kink scene. Prostitution yes. Kink, little. Not having been there, I'd wager SF, Austin, Seattle, Chicago, NY and probably some other places in the US have much more to offer in terms of kink.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 4:10:05 PM

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To be clear(er), I wasn't asking for "my" opinion whether there are reasonably well defined sexually cultural differences amongst kinksters from around the world ...

I was asking if you've actually experienced any clearly cultural differences (my hypothesis is that there are well defined differences; yet, certainly that hypothesis has not carried any weight here ... and that's fine ... if it is false).

I'll toss my "assumptions" out there, into the ring, at the risk of being attacked for being a Fascist ... but I "presumed" the Germans were, in general, more hard core, in their kink, than the French (based on my very crude knowledge of films coming out of each) .... ... ...

Also, it seemed Eastern European spankers were a hello'va lotta rougher (100 cane strokes with blood and welts) than the British (whose films I've seen absolutely bored me with their tumidity as much as the Czech films shocked me that they can even hire models to pose for them twice).

Likewise, if you've ever been bored to tears by a pixelated Japanese film, you'll not be able not to notice the combination of the the age of the female actors, and the horrid moving pixelation of the areas of interest ... such that the culture in Japan absolutely must be different than ours, if these films bear any witness to that fact. (As an aside, certainly you've noticed the dire miniscularity of the Asian men's penises? Or is that a figment of my imagination?)

Certainly, in the mainstream press of the Italians, you'll notice an absolutely huge cultural difference in the way the female body is portrayed, as compared to the Puritanical USA press.

Personally, I feel there must be reasonably well defined kink cultural differences that are so vast as to be noticeable in normal one-on-one human interactions around the world, just as they appear obvious from the few films that I've seen ...

But, I admit, before anyone else, that I don't have enough experience for myself to carry that un-tested assumption to the fore. I tried here, and, well, I guess my observations, however scattered and incomplete as they are, must be off kilter, as they are not borne of fruit in this particular scholastic endeavor.

Thank you all for the knowledge you've imparted ... ... I'm still wondering what a "Dutch Wheelbarrow" is ....

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 5:47:55 PM

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Personally I prefer the irish bitchs I could care less bout firm tits. I much want the great drunken sex that only the irish can provide

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/16/2009 6:58:13 PM

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Well I have visited Amsterdam, and there is a big rubber fetish scene there.

The Clinic is also a world recognised event, aswell as rubber stores like, Absolute Danny which is an amazing rubberists dream to visit.

There are lots of BDSM hotels, events and private parties, not only whores in windows.

I recommend the live sex shows too, they were quite interesting to watch.

It is interesting you club together quite a few areas of the US, in comparison with a little part of Holland lol.

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I'd wager, not having been there, that Amsterdam's culture is quite different than, say, Salem Massachusetts.

Amsterdam actually hasn't much of a kink scene. Prostitution yes. Kink, little. Not having been there, I'd wager SF, Austin, Seattle, Chicago, NY and probably some other places in the US have much more to offer in terms of kink.

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RE: Kink from around the world (what is your experience)? - 4/17/2009 2:59:22 AM

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Also, it seemed Eastern European spankers were a hello'va lotta rougher (100 cane strokes with blood and welts) than the British (whose films I've seen absolutely bored me with their tumidity as much as the Czech films shocked me that they can even hire models to pose for them twice).

I think that's possible more to do with government censorship than tameness and the fact that many UK men are big on spanking!
I have played with Japanese and Chinese women and don't particularly find them much different to English girls apart from perhaps being a little more adventurous (not so slow about things). Oh and they have the most amazing thick hair thats great to pull

. I prefer to do bondage and suspension with Oriental girls because they are usually built like sparrows and look so asthetically pleasing. The few Chinese Mistresses I know tend to be pretty hardcore.
I have also played with a few Canadian, Astralian, American and Arabic and I can't say there was any notable contrast apart from perhaps the Arabic who was fairly inhibited and carried a huge guilt complex.
I have also been to clubs abroad and found them to be far tamer than the English clubs.

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