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chiaThePet -> RE: skills like this... (4/8/2009 12:19:54 AM)
My Dominant slapped me in the face with his cock yesterday. The feathers went everywhere. chia* (the pet)

DemonKia -> RE: skills like this... (4/8/2009 2:06:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper It would be like a guy going down on you and ignoring your clit. (Ok, not a perfect metaphor, and not anatomically counterparts, but you get the idea.) Labia is to scrotum as clitoris is to penis, FYI . ... Or nearer than your metaphor . . . . & in my experience the cunning-linguists tend to neglect the labia as much as the fellatists neglect the testes & their delectable little sacks . . . . .

chamberqueen -> RE: skills like this... (4/8/2009 5:05:43 AM)
I have a small mouth and TMJ so I have worked to get around this. Certain positions are easier for this than others. If I kneel with my back to the bed, then rest my head on the edge of the bed at about a 45 degree angle and tell him to f*** my mouth I can relax it more and it seems very exciting for him. Let your hands wander. Many guys like their nipples stroked, too, and that is a great position for being able to reach up and stroke a nipple. Wetness definitely helps. There are flavored lubes available, or whipped cream makes a nice treat if you want to try something other than saliva. I watched a comedy show once where the comic was describing how he felt women should give head. He talked about how much guys love it when she is slobbering, making funny noises, gagging a bit, etc. At first I thought it sounded pretty gross but then I tried it. I found that it did increase the enjoyment for him though it will be different for any man. If he is lying down, you can always straddle one leg and rub yourself against him as you are doing your work. I've had some great orgasms while giving head while doing this. I find that if I go more than a week without doing it that my jaw isn't as willing to open fully. You can always practice on a dildo or banana for a few minutes to keep the jaw in a more relaxed state. Try changing things up a bit. Put some small (and smooth) ice chips in your mouth before clamping it around him and he'll get a new sensation. Humming will give a pleasant vibration. Rub the ridge behind the ball sac (very sensitive) or even rub lightly over the anus if he enjoys that. There are many positions you can take - him standing, him on his back, you on your back and him over your face, 69 position even if he is choosing not to reciprocate, etc. Find what's easiest for your jaw and say, "I would love it if I could give you head while ... " and tell him the position. That's not topping from the bottom (in most eyes) but letting him know what excites you (or makes it easiest on your jaw). Try a little talking in between. Pull your head up and mumble something like, "you're so BIG today" and attack it again. Change it up a little to give your jaw and throat muscles a break. You can pull back a little and let your hand do more work for 30 seconds or so and then suddenly take as much as you can back in your mouth. It will be a very pleasant surprise for him. Change pace between fast and slow. Think about how you like to be penetrated and try to reenact that with your mouth. Most of us would get very bored if we were just entered, the speed gradually picked up, but it was only a straight in and out with no play. You can swivel it a bit forwards and back, side to side, make circular motions, etc. Every change will bring a new thrill. The ending is also important. I've found that trying to milk every single drop and then giving small licks and kisses when it's over goes a long way. Don't just suddenly pull away like "Thank God it's over" but treat his member a dear friend that you hate to see go. These are things that have worked well for me, but as so appropriately pointed out each man is different. Pay attention to his responses and I'm sure you'll come up with something incredibly pleasing to him.

allthatjaz -> RE: skills like this... (4/8/2009 5:23:11 AM)
Lol I forgot about the noises! He likes the kind of noise that would have everyone excusing themselves from the dinner table. Chamberqueen if you put iced chips in your mouth just before him, is your throat not cold? One of the other things to try which is fun is some warm water gargling to both open up your throat. You can gargle whilst he's in your mouth too but that can get a little messy so its best to stick to water.

PhlossophurDomme -> RE: skills like this... (4/8/2009 7:24:16 AM)
mmm, fellatio is such a powerful way to take a man's sexuality and put it right between your teeth where in a moment of ecstasy he could be bitten and succumb to cbt.. Men are so vulnerable when their member is in the mouth! On the other side of the spectrum of pleasure, when the jaw gets tired from holding open too long or too far, curl the lips over the teeth to protect their sharp edges from scraping him and close down halfway. This relaxes the jaw and increases the pressure on his phallus. I learned this trick from a professional sex worker from a local brothel who was once My dental patient. When doing an oral cancer exam, I noticed callouses on the insides of her lips and inquired about how they got there. She replied that she does quite a bit of fellatio during her work day and curls the lips over her teeth to relieve jaw ache while increasing the pressure on him which gave her services an added sensation that is uncommon, yet very effective in increasing pleasure. The fellatio artist applies more pressure on the up stroke and less on the down stroke. You want to draw blood into his member and not drain it out. I have used this idea ever since and find that it does indeed relieve jaw ache and increase his response, especially if I am in a place during the experience where I just want to stroke up and down for a while. The teeth can also dig into the lining of the mouth and casue breaks in the skin and soreness. Eventually, this can create callousing of the internal lining of the mouth which could be a good thing if you practice it often because then your lips are less sore afterwards. Another note on fellatio, the most sensitive areas on a man is the frenum and the edges of the corona. The frenum contains a cluster of nerve endings similar to the underside of the clitoris. It is located on the underside of a flaccid penis right where the head and shaft meet in the center. Friction on this area is very pleasurable and does not require aggressive jaw stretching. Keeping the tongue in constant motion over the frenum is a good way to maintain a high degree of pleasure for him, and since it is not too far down the shaft you can pause here and let your jaws relax for a moment. The corona is the head of the penis and its edges are very sensitive. Taking a break from insertion and nibbling these edges are another way to relax the jaw for a moment and catch your breath. Sucking hard on only the head is not always pleasurable for men. Sucking on the shaft draws blood into the erectile tissues and increases both the hardness and fullness of his erection. One way to delay or intensify the ejaculation is to grasp the testicles and draw them away from his body. Also, pulling on the bottom of the scrotal sack is very pleasurable to men. Bending the erect penis downward a bit or pressing in into his body will hae the effect of stimulating the prostate. Let's not forget the prostate! Ignoring it during fellatio is like ignoring the g-spot during cunnilingus. It can be accessed manually 3 ways: 1. Compressing the perineum which is located behind the scrotal sack and in front of the anus. 2. Inserting a finger into the anus to about the second knuckle and pressing towards the penis. The prostate is a walnut sized bump under the lining of the anus. Gloves and lube are great for this activity because once you are finished, simply peel off the glove and youdon't have to break the action by washing your hands immediately. Remember, the anal tissues are sensitive and lube goes a long way in making this pleasurable. 3. Palpating just above the pubic bone in an deep, downward motion.. Constant pressure on the prostate does not feel as good as rhythmic press and release motion. The gland swells when a man is close to orgasm and becomes more sensitive. If a man has not had an ejaculation in a while and the prostate is full, it might be a bit painful to the touch. Adding this to fellatio may also cause him to ejaculate more quickly and with greater intensity. Massaging the prostate is in itself very pleasurable and when doing so, it is graceful to slow down with your mouth and let the jaw rest for a moment. The release of pre-cum increases when the prostate is stimulated. Also, don't forget the inner thighs, sulcus of the ass, and cup of the hip joint also contain secondary sexual innervation and are very pleasurable to touch during fellatio. Watch his breathing and the tension level in his muscles to determine which of these acts are getting the response you seek and make note of what turns him on to learn your partner.

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