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messages - 2/27/2009 11:53:12 AM   
interested2008


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Status: offline 		If you have sent a message to a mistress and you see they have read your message, but not responded - should you re message them again or just give up?
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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 11:53:58 AM   
Lynnxz


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From: Atlanta
Status: offline 		Give up. 

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 11:55:01 AM   
girlygurl


Posts: 6973
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Status: offline 		Give the person some time. They might be busy. If they don't respond then maybe they're just not interested.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:02:21 PM   
MissMorrigan


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Status: offline 		It really does depend. I get caught up in life, a lot. I'll receive an email from someone I know and I'm about to reply to it, something offline will need my attention and I'll come away thinking to myself, "I'll answer that later on when I'm able to", I come back online to find several other emails waiting for me to read and I'll do so, completely forgetting about the initial one I was supposed to have replied to earlier in the day. I'm human, sometimes I overlook emails and I genuinely do appreciate a prompter from someone I haven't replied to after a few days. As with anyone else, I loathe it when I have taken the time to reply to someone (very rarely a one-liner and usually a thoughtfully constructed and detailed reply) it irks the crap out of me if I then do not receive the courtesy of a reply from them, but then, they are likely thinking the same of me! Life happens.

If you have sent an email to someone you haven't spoken with previously and receive no answer after a few days, move on. It's unlikely you'll receive a reply and a follow up prompter is unnecessary.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:20:37 PM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		Depends what your first message was...

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:35:39 PM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		I would assume they are not interested and move on.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:45:10 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
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Status: offline 		You should send at least twenty more messages and a cock shot. They just love that!

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:47:39 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

You should send at least twenty more messages and a cock shot. They just love that!


I second that motion. Or, how about 20 messages, each with a different cock shot!


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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 12:55:07 PM   
philosophy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

You should send at least twenty more messages and a cock shot. They just love that!


I second that motion. Or, how about 20 messages, each with a different cock shot!



...not all of us have 20 different cocks.......

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 1:29:48 PM   
SteelofUtah


Posts: 5307
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From: St George Utah
Status: offline 		Shoot yourself in the Head. I mean someone not responding after reading an e-mail it is completely unacceptable.

Or Stand Outside their house with a boombox playing "Your Eyes" by Peter Gabiel and just stand there looking pathetic.

I hear that worked for John Cusack.

Steel

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 4:55:40 PM   
chamberqueen


Posts: 1597
Joined: 10/25/2007
From: Kalamazoo, MI
Status: offline 		If you choose to write again, don't say something like "I see you read my message but didn't reply".  Doesn't go over well.

As a Domme I used to get at least 20 emails a day.  Some would just say "hello".  Those typically got deleted.  The ones that got my interest were ones that commented on my profile or my journal. 


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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:08:23 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
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Status: offline 		She's only testing you.  Prove your love to her.  Send her dozens of emails.  Get her address and camp outside.  Call her seven times a day.


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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:10:28 PM   
slaveboyforyou


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From: Arkansas, U.S.A.
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quote:

I second that motion. Or, how about 20 messages, each with a different cock shot!


He needs to add some romance in with his messages.  I suggest carving this woman's name into his chest with a knife.  A sure fire winner would be a homemade tat on his ass that says, "I love <insert her name>."

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:11:56 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I think it is a sad, sad thing we can't forward our messages. lol

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:14:13 PM   
BoiJen


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

If you choose to write again, don't say something like "I see you read my message but didn't reply".  Doesn't go over well.

As a Domme I used to get at least 20 emails a day.  Some would just say "hello".  Those typically got deleted.  The ones that got my interest were ones that commented on my profile or my journal. 



I have to say something. It's important....

If you're gonna comment on the Lady's profile READ THE PROFILE FIRST.

Jesus h. Christ on a raft. I read SO many messages that say "I've read you profile Ma'am" and then I go...duh no you haven't retard cuz the profile says that MsKitty don't answer Her messages cuz She has a boi to filter for Her.

Please, please, please don't become one of those people. There's already enough.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:14:44 PM   
ShaharThorne


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From: Somewhere in TX
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

You should send at least twenty more messages and a cock shot. They just love that!


Definitely important...

If you sent me a one liner, I tend to ignore.  If you actually read my profile and mention several things from it, you got my interest.

Also consider that many mistresses are busy women and have a stable of subs to work with.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:42:28 PM   
dreamysubmale


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

You should send at least twenty more messages and a cock shot. They just love that!


I second that motion. Or, how about 20 messages, each with a different cock shot!





I wish I had been given that advice when I first discovered CM…thanks for the tip LT, Aileen.

PS: Any good sites where I can get good pics of the above mentioned tool? As mine is a camera shy


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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:48:37 PM   
CatdeMedici


Posts: 2257
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Status: offline 		No--no response back is a response.

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RE: messages - 2/27/2009 5:51:38 PM   
Vendaval


Posts: 10297
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		Did you send a form letter cut 'n paste?  Then it was deleted.   If you take the time to read the whole profile and journal posts and follow any instructions and write a short, polite e-mail you might get a positive response.  Stay active in the Forums and get to know the regulars so you are not a complete stranger when approaching a Mistress.



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