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Jeptha -> RE: My girlfriend/sub is having trouble climaxing.... (2/23/2009 5:49:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Dominsideyou
... I have had less than 6 REAL relationships in my life (3 of them true submissives), and a number of sexual partners, subs, slaves, etc.
Women can be very idiosyncratic in the ways that get them off.
What works for one is anathema to another, and vise versa.
6 isn't a lot. If she is similarly young and inexperienced, even she may not yet have found all the ways that she likes to get off.
But that just means you can have fun experimenting. Ask her about fantasies, masturbatory habits, etc. Use your imagination to see if you can picture yourself in those scenes, or helping her masturbate....
Or just plain tell her that you'd like to be a part of that somehow, and ask her if that would be possible.
And, maybe lead by example and use her for your pleasure.
I consider vibrators to be my friend, and one of the greatest inventions of mankind. There are a smorgasbord of varieties which can be very distinct in the sensation they deliver.
Again; some women love them, and some remain unmoved.
I used to have a saying, that I "never regretted buying a tool"...that applies to vibrators as well, even though some are relegated to the back of the closet most of the time.
Ok - maybe that was too workmanlike a metaphor.
Strike that from the record.
As others have told you, and as you've said yourself, it isn't always about getting off.
But it's a nice thing to share sometimes, if one can swing it.
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