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RE: Invisible Dominance and submission - 2/10/2009 10:07:02 AM   
agirl


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I could never describe M's dominance as invisible. It might be the way things are between US ....normal/routine/accepted and so on but to people outside of us, it's noticeable.

There's a difference between being *obvious/blatant* and the fact that the way you relate is *noticeable*, or *of note* and it depends on what circles you are moving in.

In largely egalitarian driven spheres, it's pretty plain that *we* aren't. Around people that have knowledge of D/s.....there's usually a slight enviousness.

agirl





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RE: Invisible Dominance and submission - 2/10/2009 2:30:04 PM   
CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

Something that should be noted...dominance isn't always about doing what we want either.  There are times when I...and I'd be willing to bet other dominants...feel like "Oh Jesus, can't you do just this ONE thing without guidance tonight?"


Uhmmm, yeah. Quite often in fact. Especially here at work with my, obviously submissive, graphics guy. But, I grit my teeth and give him the guidance he needs and move on. And then do everything in my power to refrain from chucking my stapler at the back of his head as he walks away.



~chuckles~  yeah, I can think of several people in my life like that.  Like each of the women in the X-Ray class I am teaching.

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