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QuixoticErrant -> Question about Crazy People (2/7/2009 4:43:13 PM)
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I just wrote this as a journal entry. I would love the advice of others for early warning signs of crazy.
"Oh the things you learn when wading into this place...I had the briefest correspondence with a person listed here as a submissive. She asked me some questions that I took the time to answer politely and in good detail. At that time, several days ago, I was interested in finding out more about her - as much as is reasonable to be interested, since let's face it, this is the web, for all I know "she" is a "he," and I really have no details about her at all.
She wrote back to me rather rudely, she clearly thought she was being sassy, but rather was simply obnoxious. I got a very bad feeling about her at that point - like "this one is really crazy." I said "I am not interested." Then she wrote me again that I was not a "real dom."
Then she wrote something apologetic. Then she wrote that we should meet about five minutes later.
I should have blocked her at that point. Lesson learned. Without telling me anything about herself at all, she began to demand we meet somewhere. Given the apologetic mail, I told her I would consider it if she told me something about herself and sent me a photo. I even wrote in that mail I would probably regret giving her the chance. She became completely evasive. In mail after mail, she demanded we meet but would not tell me the simplest things about herself.
She would not IM - some lame excuse. She would not send a photo, but demanded we met. At first I thought this was some game, but my vibe of crazy crazy kept growing. She became progressively more annoying. Crazy crazy crazy. I blocked her.
I thought it was done with. Apparently, she has friends who are now writing me. Apparently, she is one of those ones who has all manner of issues. Just as a warning, since I'm not going to post personal stuff of hers, if you meet one of these ones, you should avoid her completely and block her from the start.Like I said, even if I am not new to the lifestyle, I am new to the site. I learned something here. Well this is what you get for being on the web. Happy hunting to all of you good people out there. Be good to each other - except when we are being bad. "
So, any comments on how to avoid people like this, and moreover, her friends writing me are now telling me that she is writing some nasty things about me to others I have not met.
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