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MissMorrigan -> RE: Expierences with dishonesty in the community (1/9/2009 4:10:06 AM)
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The sub from Cananda that claimed she was dying and was at home receiving palliative care as she wanted to be in her own home when she died - only to forget she'd told me that and during an animated conversation, in which she'd told me about her excitement at meeting someone new, further went on to say how they 'rode the night away' on his motorbike then had passionate sex in the open air - amazing how one can do all that strapped to an oxygen tank from their bed. Pfft!
Or the sub that I was in a relationship with that turned up with a whiteish ring around his cock and proclaimed that it was talcum powder, when clearly by the smell he'd just come from having sex with someone else.
Or the sub that was due to meet me only to be a no-show and then claimed suddenly blindness which comes and goes - he likely got cold feet b/c I joked with him as to how I was going to have him drugged and gang banged... Damnit, it was a joke!!!
Or the 'dominant' that claimed to have a house full of slaves living at his luxury mansion... only for that mansion to be a hostel and those 'slaves' were others who simply occupied rooms there as well.
On a more serious note though and as you will see from the above, there are opportunists in all walks of life and in every avenue, it's not restricted to online, although it's more common here b/c afterall, this is a fantasy playground where people can socially engineer themselves at will and be anything they want - even if it isn't themselves.
When I consistently experienced dishonest subs I had to rethink the whole thing and came to the conclusion that the most consistent factor in all of that was - me. While I'm not dishonest, I was at fault for making very poor choices, not doing enough homework and unwittingly projecting myself in a way that encouraged such people into my life. So my advice would be to think long and hard about this aspect, see if there's anything about you that's deliberately attracting this kind of person into your life, then get yourself out into the local scene, munches are a great way to go. If you cannot face going to local events, be more selective in your criteria - see if they participate on a regular basis in the forums, find out who else knows them in real life and have a chat... if they are open and above board they won't mind pointing you in the direction of some of their friends who can verify their authenticity.
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