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oceanwynds -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/4/2009 5:04:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelwithhonor

oceanwynds.....oh i love the ocean ,there you some how do find peace. but ohio doesnt have oceans so am gonna have to find somewhere else. hugs and thank you. depression is real and it hits hard for some, what ever reason. hugs to all who want them and need them.......



if you live in south part of Ohio try to go to Serpetine trails, something like that. a lot of places are good. If you need suggestions email me on the other side. I use to live in Ohio




parakeet89 -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/4/2009 6:05:39 PM)

Almost any situation can be flipped around like that, so don't feel bad about feeling depressed for the reasons you listed -- it's okay to feel like crap sometimes. I understand how that feels.
I've been feeling down lately myself, although the past couple of days have picked up. I went to visit my Dad/Grandparents for the holidays and seeing my Grandpa in the state he's in was heartbreaking.
But it's good to remember this: the sun may set, but it will always rise again. Try to keep that in mind during your troubles. I hope you feel better soon xx





abuddingdom -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/5/2009 7:33:33 PM)

No depression in my house. Kids will drive you nuts, as my pretty one keeps reminding me. I keep forgetting, & she keeps reminding me. $ is tight, no doubt about that, but we eat good, & watch movies, & plan trips&adventures. & we play. The sun shined for part of today. The hearts still pumpin, & the lungs are still doing their thing. The computer works, & the cars run.  Half a year from now we'll have the best garden outside of Eden in my back yard.Things can always be worse, or get worse. Sounds like a cliche, but its one of those cliches which happens to be true. $ cant buy love, beauty can be only skin deep, that definition of insanity with which we all are familiar, among other cliches, also fit that bill.. There's frustration in my house at times, & sometimes anger(which is always resolved. still blows me away that we resolve things, as I rarely managed that in past relationships).Sometimes sadness.  Lots &lots&lots of laughter, in my house, but no depression in my house. 




abuddingdom -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/5/2009 7:36:33 PM)

Heh! I still have that vanilla ice cream cone next to my posts. Now, THAT could be depressing..........




GreedyTop -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/5/2009 7:57:07 PM)

you'll have it until you have something like 25 posts, I think it is.




OneMoreWaste -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/5/2009 10:13:39 PM)

Your profile says you're happy.

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ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild
there's bombing in Gaza


If you get depressed every time shit blows up in the Middle East then I have no idea how you lived this long [&:]

I have lots of reasons to be depressed. I'm sure that to a lot of people, I have more reasons to not be depressed. Whateva.
Hope you can find some release.




PanthersMom -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/5/2009 10:32:35 PM)

i've given up watching the news, i have enough going on in my life, i can't handle the world's troubles right now.  i can barely handle mine!  depression leads to nasty stuff for me, so i do my best to avoid it as much as possible.  sometimes that means not paying attention to other things outside my 4 walls.
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pixidustpet -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/6/2009 1:57:38 AM)

TheEngineer got my insurance card today.  he immediately called and made an appointment for me with the neurologist.  this killed my good mood...yeah its necessary, but dayum.

i finally got up the nerve to ask him about things, cause i had been fretting.  "what if," i asked him, "what if i lose more ground and cant do the stuff i'm managing *now*?"

i had just asked him if he had a shirt for in the morning, cause i did a load of jeans, and i  am behind on folding and putting away. 

"then we get someone to come in and help."  dammit, he still wasnt seeing what i was saying.  "if i cant do stuff, is it going to be *enough*, me just being here with you?"  i was about to start crying.  the little lightbulb came on over his head.  "of course it will be.  i knew what things were before i asked you to come here, you've *always* been honest about that!"

it was a relief i needed.  thursday we start seeing along with the neuro, if the neurological issues i've been having are indeed MS.  but i KNOW that i wont be set aside for it.

kitten, who hugs prinny




MissMorrigan -> RE: Depressed: rant (1/6/2009 2:07:14 AM)

That's right up there with the "Snap the fuck out of it" guide to Counselling for Dummies?
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ORIGINAL: wildster
fuck depreshan !!!!! grow up +enjoy kinky love sexynesss


Prin, it's been a good long while since you and I last had a chat, my old pc stopped working one day and the motherboard/processor went to the great scrapheap in the sky,  coupled with then work/personal commitments, hence my long absence from CM. We're long overdue a catch up, chica!

It seems you have gone through a lot of changes in recent months and some of those also seem to be clipping your wings, i.e., your arm (a swift and successful recover for you, hon). Sometimes post surgery can bring about the blues and it tends to hit people hard when it does, as you are likely aware (your counselling background), when something happens to us that's beyond our control.

I was once a rebellious teen and it's no wonder my mother became increasingly 'eccentric'. Sometimes we become so focused with doing for others that we forget about US, we're important too and need to feel appreciated, not taken for granted which, quite often, teens are prone to doing. While you are an internal slave, it doesn't mean you have to be a slave to those teens, so get em up and doing the housework. Let the household know you are feeling fragile at the moment b/c often we put forth a good 'front' to others so they take us at face value.

I was made redundant from the job I loved just prior to Christmas, so do feel somewhat 'down' and that had affected my relationship for a while b/c I felt/feel financially impotent. However, I'm looking on the positive side of things and my relationship with Reality is as strong as ever.

Be kind to yourself, Prin, and more importantly, ensure others are, too.




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