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ORIGINAL: tia111

I think this sounds like fun. He wants you to be creative and it is a fun little mental challenge to see how closely you have been paying attention. So what if in the end its ...i want to tie you up to the bed and slowly fuck ya silly. It is all part of he game.
I love the idea of the board game. I don't know if you are online or real life or how far it has progressed into real life but what bout making him a little package of fun silly things that you have previously spoken about.
Have fun with it as it does sound like a fun "getting to know you" game.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

You have said that you want a relationship with him.  He says you can earn the right to him... relationship(?) by figuring out his fantasy?  Okay... wow... so if you don't figure it out... what happens?  Seems he still gets a willing subject trying in every way to please him without any responsibility or effort.  Smart man.  Not very nice maybe... but smart! lol

If he is actually being sincere... I just thought of this... is he teaching you or working with you on any self esteem issues(?) that the one answer could be that his fantasy is YOU?

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

You have said that you want a relationship with him.  He says you can earn the right to him... relationship(?) by figuring out his fantasy?  Okay... wow... so if you don't figure it out... what happens?  Seems he still gets a willing subject trying in every way to please him without any responsibility or effort.  Smart man.  Not very nice maybe... but smart! lol

If he is actually being sincere... I just thought of this... is he teaching you or working with you on any self esteem issues(?) that the one answer could be that his fantasy is YOU?

Just to clarify, no this is NOT me earning the relationship. Just the fantasy. I would like a relationship with him and he has expressed the same desire for me its just a timing thing as we are both swamped with work and for me school as well. I am simply having to earn the right to hearing his fantasy.

That is a very interesting point... one that could possibly hold the answer. We have been working on my self esteem issues slowly but as stated above time is not on our side. Which then makes me wonder if it does have to do with me showing that i am trying even harder... hmmm...

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

You have said that you want a relationship with him.  He says you can earn the right to him... relationship(?) by figuring out his fantasy?  Okay... wow... so if you don't figure it out... what happens?  Seems he still gets a willing subject trying in every way to please him without any responsibility or effort.  Smart man.  Not very nice maybe... but smart! lol

If he is actually being sincere... I just thought of this... is he teaching you or working with you on any self esteem issues(?) that the one answer could be that his fantasy is YOU?

Just to clarify, no this is NOT me earning the relationship. Just the fantasy. I would like a relationship with him and he has expressed the same desire for me its just a timing thing as we are both swamped with work and for me school as well. I am simply having to earn the right to hearing his fantasy.

That is a very interesting point... one that could possibly hold the answer. We have been working on my self esteem issues slowly but as stated above time is not on our side. Which then makes me wonder if it does have to do with me showing that i am trying even harder... hmmm...

Ahhhh... okay!  Now I get it... I'm sorry for my misunderstanding!  Have fun and good luck with that... could be mighty interesting!

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

Ok, so I am submissive and am not collared to this Dom but we do enjoy playing and chatting often. I have all hopes of starting a relationship with Him it is just a timing issue for both of us at the moment with our busy lives. Not the point at the moment. lol.

I have been challenged to earn the right to Him telling me His fantasy. Which is something i want to know soooo badly which is exactly why He wont tell me *damn Doms and i mean that with love*. This little power play has been going on for almost a month *GRRRR* and now i have figured out that i must earn it by doing something specifically to get it. Being a good girl is simply not enough. And neither is a round of naughty pictures *i tried*.

Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas for me?

I've thought about writing Him a story as I am a writer... but he has read my work and I dont know if that will be enough. Any suggestions would be great :)

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ORIGINAL: SlaveIndigochild

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

Ok, so I am submissive and am not collared to this Dom but we do enjoy playing and chatting often. I have all hopes of starting a relationship with Him it is just a timing issue for both of us at the moment with our busy lives. Not the point at the moment. lol.

I have been challenged to earn the right to Him telling me His fantasy. Which is something i want to know soooo badly which is exactly why He wont tell me *damn Doms and i mean that with love*. This little power play has been going on for almost a month *GRRRR* and now i have figured out that i must earn it by doing something specifically to get it. Being a good girl is simply not enough. And neither is a round of naughty pictures *i tried*.

Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas for me?

I've thought about writing Him a story as I am a writer... but he has read my work and I dont know if that will be enough. Any suggestions would be great :)

if being a good girl is simply not enough then it sounds as if you got yourself either a major head player or an emotional sadist....probably both. Either you will enjoy the suffering or not......

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

Ok, so I am submissive and am not collared to this Dom but we do enjoy playing and chatting often. I have all hopes of starting a relationship with Him it is just a timing issue for both of us at the moment with our busy lives. Not the point at the moment. lol.

I have been challenged to earn the right to Him telling me His fantasy. Which is something i want to know soooo badly which is exactly why He wont tell me *damn Doms and i mean that with love*. This little power play has been going on for almost a month *GRRRR* and now i have figured out that i must earn it by doing something specifically to get it. Being a good girl is simply not enough. And neither is a round of naughty pictures *i tried*.

Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas for me?

I've thought about writing Him a story as I am a writer... but he has read my work and I dont know if that will be enough. Any suggestions would be great :)

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ORIGINAL: bound4more

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ORIGINAL: SimpleQuestion

Ok, so I am submissive and am not collared to this Dom but we do enjoy playing and chatting often. I have all hopes of starting a relationship with Him it is just a timing issue for both of us at the moment with our busy lives. Not the point at the moment. lol.

I have been challenged to earn the right to Him telling me His fantasy. Which is something i want to know soooo badly which is exactly why He wont tell me *damn Doms and i mean that with love*. This little power play has been going on for almost a month *GRRRR* and now i have figured out that i must earn it by doing something specifically to get it. Being a good girl is simply not enough. And neither is a round of naughty pictures *i tried*.

Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas for me?

I've thought about writing Him a story as I am a writer... but he has read my work and I dont know if that will be enough. Any suggestions would be great :)

Well, sounds to me like you're both enjoying this game. And that's all i can see it as. Nothing wrong with that - have fun. In terms of a relationship, however, what makes you believe you are compatible with one another for a relationship? After all - i don't necessarily think i should have a relationship with someone because we both enjoy Scrabble. But perhaps you will have to "read his mind" for that one too to find out how compatible you actually are as well. In any event, i caution you regarding thinking because someone is fun to play with, you'll be great in a relationship together.

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

Unlike Celeste or Mercnbeth (both of dem)  I AM a mind reader, and I know EXACTLY what he wants.   Pay attention. 

He wants you to ask him to lay on his back.  Blindfold him.  Then gently, lovingly massage him from head to toe.  Take your time.  Relax him.  Think of yourself has his worshipful slave.  Then, ask him to roll over, still blindfolded.  Then take a 14" dildo and SHOVE IT RIGHT UP HIS ASS.

That is what he wants.  You can thank me later for the deep insights.

E.

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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

Unlike Celeste or Mercnbeth (both of dem)  I AM a mind reader, and I know EXACTLY what he wants.   Pay attention. 

He wants you to ask him to lay on his back.  Blindfold him.  Then gently, lovingly massage him from head to toe.  Take your time.  Relax him.  Think of yourself has his worshipful slave.  Then, ask him to roll over, still blindfolded.  Then take a 14" dildo and SHOVE IT RIGHT UP HIS ASS.

That is what he wants.  You can thank me later for the deep insights.

E.

I agree.  And no lube.  Well maybe a little lube, as long as you put a habanero in the lube a week before you are going to use it.
 
Seriously, I see that you like this game playing, and if you like it, great!  However, imagine a relationship with a man who is constantly making you guess, for MONTHS about something so simple and integral to a relationship as sharing himself with you.  I think that anyone would tire of it relatively quickly and it would simply become frustrating and eventually demeaning and undermining your self esteem.