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manxcat -> RE: far away (12/15/2008 5:43:02 PM)
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Living and going to school in South Dakota, where believe me, there are NO kinky people, i have to depend on the Willing to Relocate. Quite a few actually are. After a while, if we seem to connect he will come to visit and see if there is 'magic'. I had one man come for a visit from Scotland last year. It didn't work out, but we are still friends.
It would take a lot to get me to relocate, with 3 kitties, my degree not finished, and my spirituality tied to the area, but as long as i could come back every year for sundance, i would consider it. For the right person. I have done it before.
You need to be realistic about job markets and climates to see who should relocate. Someone from Florida is not the most likely to want to consider SD where it was -2 F for the high today. Also where i am is particularly limited in jobs. Anyone who has some sort of online business would be the most likely and teachers are always needed. One is coming in January. ;;-)) Teacher that is.
Do you want the absolute best match possible, or are you willing to settle for less for the convenience of someone close at hand? I would rather wait for the right one to join me, than settle for less than what i want. That is the bottom line.
Skype is great as it has both IM and computer to computer phone. Along with cell phones, email, and cmail, you can have a goodly amount of contact until one of you can relocate. And visits in between. Meeting halfway or at an international airline hub can make those visits less expensive.
manxcat
I like Priceline panda- you can offer them less than the posted fare, and very often get your price.
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Artists make lousy slaves. -Jodi Jenson
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