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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/5/2008 4:04:11 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Behind the smoke and mirrors it's probably a weasly DUDE with his cock in one hand who has 5 - 6 web sites with different "princess" scams, stolen pics and he's making a couple grand a year, tops

Guys, think with your heads. THE other heads.

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It always makes me smile watching you Ladies declare that the scammers are probably all guys. It seems to be a common claim on here.

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/5/2008 4:07:34 PM   
MsSaskia


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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Kevin,
I can only state my opinion, but could it be that some subs prefer to pay?  I get offers all the time from subs offering "tributes" to me, I politely tell them no thanks. But it seems to be a need within some subs to pay. Also, if they pay, they are most likely going to get what they need.


I've noticed that there's often a sense of entitlement that comes with being the one who's handing over cash for something.  I know that if I'm paying for something, I feel more of a sense of control over what's happening. I know that when I have "submissive" clients (fetishists who like the fantasy) that they sometimes feel they can call the shots because they're paying, but that's not exactly what your post is making me think about right now. 

I'm wondering if there are some people who like to hand over cash because they feel like there's an actual connection, even if that connection is no more than a transaction.  Without the ritual of transferring funds, he might not have the conceptual or emotional framework that might otherwise inform him about the nature of a F/m relationship.  What does she want?  What does she want from me?  Can I provide it?  Am I good enough?  Putting a finite amount on a transaction may feel like an easy thing to do.

I really have no idea.  Just guessing here, but based on some experience with finance and M/f interactions.

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/5/2008 4:11:09 PM   
MistressDolly


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Status: offline 		I know of several men who have "Princess" profiles. I do not know whether they ask for money, but I do know they play a Princess for entertainment, unfortunately.

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/5/2008 4:15:41 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

I know of several men who have "Princess" profiles. I do not know whether they ask for money, but I do know they play a Princess for entertainment, unfortunately.


Long time no see Ma`am. I dont doubt what you say, but I am sure there are scammers of either sex, and even couples operating scams. I am just amused so many seem to think that the scammers are males masturbating. If I was a scammer, the only thing I would be doing with my free hand is counting my money

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/5/2008 9:25:50 PM   
RealSub58


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Status: offline 		Dear Kevin ~It dont matter how rich or what powerful job she has..... it's called kink/fetish, in my book.Sincerely, rs

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 12:13:21 AM   
loveandlight87


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Nice one Magic!!!  Couldn't agree with you more.  Everything I have ever read by AAkasha screams all women!

*laughs to herself

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 3:08:15 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I have yet to see any Dominant who may or my not ask for money publish on any website details of their income per se unless it is a scam and the information ablut them is bull shit.

However some Dominants ask, as part of their kink, will ask for and expect a tribute of some form. usually the amount is not overly large and may be based on the view that if you pay or are prepared tp pay, you are less likely to be time wasters. In some cases their personal income or wealth may vbe tied up and so the tributes may well fund their kink and activities there in. Not every Dominant, male or female who asks for and expects a tribute are scammers either. Just as not every Church or Religious Organization who asks for tributes or donations are scammers either.

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 7:44:43 AM   
youngsubgeoff


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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 7:47:32 AM   
MistressOfGa


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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Kevin,
I can only state my opinion, but could it be that some subs prefer to pay?  I get offers all the time from subs offering "tributes" to me, I politely tell them no thanks. But it seems to be a need within some subs to pay. Also, if they pay, they are most likely going to get what they need.



I've noticed that there's often a sense of entitlement that comes with being the one who's handing over cash for something.  I know that if I'm paying for something, I feel more of a sense of control over what's happening. I know that when I have "submissive" clients (fetishists who like the fantasy) that they sometimes feel they can call the shots because they're paying, but that's not exactly what your post is making me think about right now. 


Actually, when I was typing that, I was thinking about the need that some subs have to pay for what they want. It has nothing to do with the money at all. It has everything to do with whether or not they feel they are worthy of such a "beautiful woman". Kind of like the proverbial nerd who gets the chance to take the head cheerleader to the prom.
 
Am I worthy of her? Will she be embarrassed of me? What can I get/buy for her to give her the impression that I am more than what I actually am?
 
Add all of this together, and you have someone who is rather shy and doesn't know how, or is unwilling to approach a beautiful woman in a bar or a public setting.
 
Of course I do not think that all subs who pay, fit the above image. But many do, in my personal opinion.
 
Kevin,
As far as AKasha being a man, don't be ridiculous. If you have spent any time on these boards reading, you would find that she is exactly who she says she is. It amazes me how fast people are to make such bad judgments against someone, when that someone, doesn't agree with them.


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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 7:57:37 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		i have no problem at all with a man masquerading as a woman in order to support oneself. each to their own. its not an attack at all. im not judging anyone here. there is nothing  wrong in a man dressing  up as a Woman and taking money off people with their consent. if Akasha is doing this , more power to him, if Akasha is a he that is, its likely that its a She as the person confirmed so but you can never tell, maybe the person is playing games, people do that a lot but again there is nothing wrong with that at all, the main thing is to have fun
kevin

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 8:23:00 AM   
MistressOfGa


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i have no problem at all with a man masquerading as a woman in order to support oneself. each to their own. its not an attack at all. im not judging anyone here. there is nothing  wrong in a man dressing  up as a Woman and taking money off people with their consent. if Akasha is doing this , more power to him, if Akasha is a he that is, its likely that its a She as the person confirmed so but you can never tell, maybe the person is playing games, people do that a lot but again there is nothing wrong with that at all, the main thing is to have fun
kevin



Gee Kevin, passive/aggressive much? You made this comment earlier on the thread:
quote:

Well are you a man or a woman that s what im saying. Do you fantasise about being a strict Dominant Woman and regret that your not , in other words are you really a Woman or do you just play the Domme to fulfill your fantasy but are in reality a male office worker who just wants a little extra to make paying the bills a little easier but mostly wants some excitement in sorry his life, im assuming Your male

This sounds very angry, yet when confronted with the truth that AKasha is who SHE says she is, then you back peddle saying all is cool. I would be more worried about your constant mistrust than I would worry whether a poster on this forum is a male or female. You are still implying that AKasha is a man, even though you wrote that she is most likely a woman as she confirmed it. Then you come back saying, that she could still be a man playing games. You say you are not judging anyone, bullshit. Your posts are filled with disguised judgments and undertones of anger.
 
You remind me of my ex husband. Coming out of the gate roaring, but when confronted back, tucking tail and running.
 

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 8:27:25 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		'Kevin' is either a poorly thought out troll, or a passive-aggressive misogynist.  *shrug*

Freud would have a field day with this guy. . 

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 8:33:25 AM   
CatdeMedici


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

Well are you a man or a woman that s what im saying. Do you fantasise about being a strict Dominant Woman and regret that your not , in other words are you really a Woman or do you just play the Domme to fulfill your fantasy but are in reality a male office worker who just wants a little extra to make paying the bills a little easier but mostly wants some excitement in sorry his life, im assuming Your male


I am a dominant woman with a career that has nothing to do with kink.

Akasha



I stand with AAkasha, I too have a career that has nothing to do with kink and will see Me nicely into old age, which is more than I can say for many of the one-sided paypal Dominants.

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 8:58:34 AM   
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'Kevin' is either a poorly thought out troll, or a passive-aggressive misogynist.  *shrug*

Freud would have a field day with this guy. . 

Pay no attention to this, Kevin.  Lynnxz is really a man.


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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 8:59:45 AM   
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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 9:00:03 AM   
Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

'Kevin' is either a poorly thought out troll, or a passive-aggressive misogynist.  *shrug*

Freud would have a field day with this guy. . 

Pay no attention to this, Kevin.  Lynnxz is really a man.



Damn. Called out.

Now go fill up my paypal account, it's getting dusty.


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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 9:02:36 AM   
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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 9:03:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i have no problem at all with a man masquerading as a woman in order to support oneself. each to their own. its not an attack at all. im not judging anyone here. there is nothing  wrong in a man dressing  up as a Woman and taking money off people with their consent. if Akasha is doing this , more power to him, if Akasha is a he that is, its likely that its a She as the person confirmed so but you can never tell, maybe the person is playing games, people do that a lot but again there is nothing wrong with that at all, the main thing is to have fun
kevin



I've been on the internet for well over a decade, and Akasha was one of the first posters I encountered when I first joined alt.sex.bondage back in around 97 or 98. I've never met her, but we do have many mutual real-life friends and acquaintances. She's exactly who and what she says she is. In addition, her posting history over the years on alt.sex.bondage, soc.subculture.bdsm, soc.subculture.bdsm-femdom, bondage.com, and this site has made it abundantly clear that she is one of the nicest and most genuinely decent human beings you'll ever encounter on the net. She's a very intelligent and uncommonly articulate person with a good heart, and I've never seen her hold a grudge or make an unfair judgment of another poster, no matter how much of a jerk that other poster may have been making of themselves. For whatever it's worth (seeing as how you don't know me either), I absolutely guarantee you that she's as authentic as anyone you will ever "meet" here or on any other internet site. If you have any doubt, just ask around from anyone who's been involved in theonline community for a while; they'll all tell you the same thing.


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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 9:06:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		i love your poem at the end. i agree bluepanda i am being a little paranoid and the game is over i accept Akasha is Female. lets face it no one can camouflage such beauty to that extent, She looks magnificent, there is no way anyone could choreograph it. i too have seen her pictures and am well impressed
kevin

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RE: If a Mistress is independly wealthy, where is the b... - 12/6/2008 9:06:56 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		BluePanda, you're trying to get a dog to eat with a fork.


As a side note, I must be a horrible person. If I could write a bitchy website and have the money come pouring in, I would. Somehow, I don't think it works that way...

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