hermione83
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Thanks for all the posts -good luck to those who haven't, and YAY woo to those who have! =D
If anyone has some experience with other sites as mentioned I should be trying, I'd appreciate an email on CM with the link.. I would say that I'm not having much luck here. I've met two people in person from this site, talked to a bazillion others... One of the two I met in person was actually a virgin, and we're friends now, however, we just are not meant to be. Anywho, I didn't know my profile sounded so much like I was ready to go ten rounds, lol, though that is accurate to how I feel a lot of times, I tried to cut my profile down to as small as possible... it was so much longer before. Not sure what I said that was scary. :( (I like constructive criticism......especially if its more specific hehe) I've gotten referrals to eharmony so many times because everyone thinks because I'm a good girl that I am vanilla but I wasn't approved because I'm too weird to match... And the Christian sites.. well, taken in hand is awesome, but it has no way of meeting others at all or any communications... and the other ones, well they are all tiny, and just message board styles, without interets or searchable profiles or specifics like this site. I'd have to sit there and interview each person, and I really like scanning interests then moving on or contacting them because we click. I hate wasting my time. I tried that, but it was just way too hard. And anyway, all the people I found on those sites were either a) old, divorced, republicans usually with children or b) maybe near my age - but wanted a truckload of kids (and were still republican). And usually they were only about spanking. The type that thinks anal play with your wife is a sin and so is not having kids. Anyway, I'm an oddball mix. Not sure where I'd fit in. I'm definitely Christian, but I'm also kind of a socialist with a weird point of view, loves pets but dislikes children... and is certainly more kinky and slave-like, than just a domestic submissive type. Though I have some of the traditional stuff mixed in, sort of.. I mean, I'm a good cook, but I'm not a bubble of positivity..that's for sure. I'm a bit DPD (dependent personality disorder). I seek a sort of "unhealthy" obsession and complete dependence/codependence thing.. with him being the healthier of us, and him pushing me to be a bit more independent... well, maybe after enjoying the whole dependent thing for a while... Nevermind, lol. I also like to babble.. This site has been the only site I've TALKED to potentials anyway. The people that said they were what I wanted, surprise surprise, were seriously messed up along with it. I want a kinky version of my brother. Good, smart, and normal, mostly... Not so much a psycho serial.. whatever, or a complete idiot who doesn't really understand why they are dominant.... Ya know?
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RE: Luck - 
you find a permanent relationship when you find one, it comes to you, you don't shop for it. Then there is the question of your definition of permanent. I relish the process of finding a new person, they usually last a few years, then everybody moves on, and the search begins anew. I am too interested in people, in the endless variety of the human race, I could never in a million years restrict my sphere of interest in the way you do, excluding 98% of all people from my search right up front. I have reduced my exposure a bit, recently, by resigning from a couple of other sites I had subscriptions for, as the amount of effort required to weed out the trolls is just too great, too time consuming, and it makes no difference any more whether one has a paid subscription or not. 
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